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Cougars... Come out to play!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where are all the hungry cougars hiding?!

I'm starting to get a little disheartened after so much searching on here but not being able to find any of you! I've watched enough David Attenborough to know that Wild Cougars are a stealthy creature by nature but please don't take the role to literally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a lot of women don't like the term. I couldn't think of any woman who would like to be referred as an old predator

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps a lot of women don't like the term. I couldn't think of any woman who would like to be referred as an old predator

Just my opinion "

Erm... I don't quite recall referring to anyone as an "old predator"

"Cougar" is literally just a name that references women that are into guys younger than themselves? Nothing wrong with that?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I hate the term cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the term cougar"

yep me too ...yet another ''american porn thing''

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I'm curious, if you are into younger guys, what would you call yourself if the term cougar is a no go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman ??? i dont need a tag to fuck a younger guy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're about to go to bed, young man. Far too late for a school night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a woman ??? i dont need a tag to fuck a younger guy ??

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100% agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a woman ??? i dont need a tag to fuck a younger guy ??

"

Tags help when you're seeking out something specific though. If I was seeking out just any woman of any age for a fuck, then I'd just state a woman, but that isn't the case?

If someone is seeking out rope play and other bondage scenarios with a chubby black man older than themselves, how are you going to advertise that without using certain/specific terms or tags?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're about to go to bed, young man. Far too late for a school night! "

Well I left school over a decade ago so school nights no longer apply to me, but I do have to agree, I'm beyond cream crackered after a 9 hour lay over in Madrid so bed time it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a woman ??? i dont need a tag to fuck a younger guy ??

Tags help when you're seeking out something specific though. If I was seeking out just any woman of any age for a fuck, then I'd just state a woman, but that isn't the case?

If someone is seeking out rope play and other bondage scenarios with a chubby black man older than themselves, how are you going to advertise that without using certain/specific terms or tags?"

no im a woman ....rope play is a kink bondage is a kink ...im not a toy im not a item im a woman ... a young guy looking for a cougar is not going to get much interest from a older woman when there are plenty of younger guys just looking for a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy mature women. Better than cougar

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Is this thread panning out as you’d hoped OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/08/22 22:25:44]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this thread panning out as you’d hoped OP? "

No... no it bloody isn't hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy mature women. Better than cougar "

You keep telling yourself that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy mature women. Better than cougar "

mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese "

I really want to know who pissed in your corn flakes? Seriously, chill out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have looked at previous posts mentioning this term and reactions it got then….. folks never learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese

I really want to know who pissed in your corn flakes? Seriously, chill out. "

erm ??? im chilled ...very chilled but if you dont like the reponse then dont posty its an open forum ....

another piece of cake yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a woman ??? i dont need a tag to fuck a younger guy ??

Tags help when you're seeking out something specific though. If I was seeking out just any woman of any age for a fuck, then I'd just state a woman, but that isn't the case?

If someone is seeking out rope play and other bondage scenarios with a chubby black man older than themselves, how are you going to advertise that without using certain/specific terms or tags?

no im a woman ....rope play is a kink bondage is a kink ...im not a toy im not a item im a woman ... a young guy looking for a cougar is not going to get much interest from a older woman when there are plenty of younger guys just looking for a woman "

He's not been offensive - if you're not interested, move on?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I like younger men... I am an older woman... Mature, I am not! Nor a old d*unk woman that likes to pick up younger guys(apparently where cougar comes from)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should have looked at previous posts mentioning this term and reactions it got then….. folks never learn "

I wasn't really that keen to go scouring back through weeks worth of forum posts unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like younger men... I am an older woman... Mature, I am not! Nor a old d*unk woman that likes to pick up younger guys(apparently where cougar comes from) "

Does it? I've never come across that. I prefer cougar over milf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh OP your lighthearted attempt to engage with people has not gone down too well.

Don't be disheartened by a small representation of people. Your desired cougar is out there somewhere.

NBVN x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Sexy mature women. Better than cougar

mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese "

That was unnecessary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a woman ??? i dont need a tag to fuck a younger guy ??

Tags help when you're seeking out something specific though. If I was seeking out just any woman of any age for a fuck, then I'd just state a woman, but that isn't the case?

If someone is seeking out rope play and other bondage scenarios with a chubby black man older than themselves, how are you going to advertise that without using certain/specific terms or tags?

no im a woman ....rope play is a kink bondage is a kink ...im not a toy im not a item im a woman ... a young guy looking for a cougar is not going to get much interest from a older woman when there are plenty of younger guys just looking for a woman

He's not been offensive - if you're not interested, move on? "

no one said hes been offensive ??? just saying our views ?? its a open forum we are all free to post as we like .... thankyou

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I like younger men... I am an older woman... Mature, I am not! Nor a old d*unk woman that likes to pick up younger guys(apparently where cougar comes from)

Does it? I've never come across that. I prefer cougar over milf "

I actually kinda like "older woman" it is what I am, so... Yeah, said something about the term on another thread but seems to be in the back of my ancient mind too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy mature women. Better than cougar

mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese

That was unnecessary! "

how ? would have thought the green smiley would have made it tounge in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should have looked at previous posts mentioning this term and reactions it got then….. folks never learn

I wasn't really that keen to go scouring back through weeks worth of forum posts unfortunately"

Always do your research, perhaps read profiles, just my advice fella, saves you getting pelters

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Sexy mature women. Better than cougar

mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese

That was unnecessary!

how ? would have thought the green smiley would have made it tounge in cheek "

Not the cheese bit... The putting younger women to shame bit ... I don't know how you spell eeuucchh...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh OP your lighthearted attempt to engage with people has not gone down too well.

Don't be disheartened by a small representation of people. Your desired cougar is out there somewhere.

NBVN x"

Well it was just that, a light hearted post with absolutely no offence intended. Its just such a common term that I'm familiar with when it comes to the older lady/younger guy dynamic, but if I really knew it caused such offence I wouldn't have used the term, offending people is not what I'm about at all.

Thanks for your reply! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy mature women. Better than cougar

mature ?? another tip dont call older women mature ..id put alot of youger women to shame and im not a fucking piece of cheese

That was unnecessary!

how ? would have thought the green smiley would have made it tounge in cheek

Not the cheese bit... The putting younger women to shame bit ... I don't know how you spell eeuucchh... "

was just trying to get across that my age dont make me old im still young at heart mind and body i was not slagging anyone off ... jeeze this really did go south

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I actually kinda like "older woman" it is what I am, so... Yeah, said something about the term on another thread but seems to be in the back of my ancient mind too lol"

Well if I did cause any offense by using that term, I apologise. I honestly didn't realise 'cougar' carried such a heavy degree of disgust with so many women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh OP your lighthearted attempt to engage with people has not gone down too well.

Don't be disheartened by a small representation of people. Your desired cougar is out there somewhere.

NBVN x

Well it was just that, a light hearted post with absolutely no offence intended. Its just such a common term that I'm familiar with when it comes to the older lady/younger guy dynamic, but if I really knew it caused such offence I wouldn't have used the term, offending people is not what I'm about at all.

Thanks for your reply! x"
youve not offended anyone we just gave you individual views

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"

I actually kinda like "older woman" it is what I am, so... Yeah, said something about the term on another thread but seems to be in the back of my ancient mind too lol

Well if I did cause any offense by using that term, I apologise. I honestly didn't realise 'cougar' carried such a heavy degree of disgust with so many women."

I’d go with ‘harlot’ next time, I’m sure things will go much better.

You’re welcome

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

You may also need to get some verifications to confirm you are seeking what you ask;)

Have great fun OP.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

It doesn’t bother me iv been to a few cougar and cub nights at clubs and non of the other ladies there seemed to mind either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I actually kinda like "older woman" it is what I am, so... Yeah, said something about the term on another thread but seems to be in the back of my ancient mind too lol

Well if I did cause any offense by using that term, I apologise. I honestly didn't realise 'cougar' carried such a heavy degree of disgust with so many women.

I’d go with ‘harlot’ next time, I’m sure things will go much better.

You’re welcome "

Oh yes. Old harlots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You may also need to get some verifications to confirm you are seeking what you ask;)"

If only someone was willing to help me out with getting those verifications lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn’t bother me iv been to a few cougar and cub nights at clubs and non of the other ladies there seemed to mind either "

Reassuring to hear! I guess you just cant please everyone can you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see from your profile that you enjoy clubs - loss of people have veris from clubs so maybe try asking for a veri at your next club xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Perhaps a lot of women don't like the term. I couldn't think of any woman who would like to be referred as an old predator

Just my opinion

Erm... I don't quite recall referring to anyone as an "old predator"

"Cougar" is literally just a name that references women that are into guys younger than themselves? Nothing wrong with that? "

"Cougar" is literally a derogatory term coined a few years back in Vancouver to describe d*unken old sots who groped young men. In other words "an old predator". Nobody looking for a cougar would get anywhere near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps a lot of women don't like the term. I couldn't think of any woman who would like to be referred as an old predator

Just my opinion

Erm... I don't quite recall referring to anyone as an "old predator"

"Cougar" is literally just a name that references women that are into guys younger than themselves? Nothing wrong with that?

"Cougar" is literally a derogatory term coined a few years back in Vancouver to describe d*unken old sots who groped young men. In other words "an old predator". Nobody looking for a cougar would get anywhere near me. "

I've never seen that? No dictionary definition refers to women being d*unk, but suggests they use the same predatory techniques as some men do. I'm not predatory, so I'd never call myself a cougar.

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By *nicorn4uWoman
over a year ago

telford

Doesn’t bother me what they call me .. makes

Me laugh when the young ones message me saying “how you doing MILF “

I guess most though would like to be addressed as the more experienced woman as we know what we want and what we are doing

From a happy cougar/ Milf/ experienced mature woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t tend to use the word Milf or Cougar, much prefer a more experienced lady, give these women some respect they deserve it!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Always on the hunt

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