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By *rJandMrsJ OP Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

How did you both have the conversation about starting the swinging life, how did it come about?

We used an app called spicer. It's amazing, definitely recommended.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met my other half here almost 7 years ago ,so we were already into swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were very open with each other right from the begining so first couple of dates i was bi he was bi and we jut let everything flowed

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We began with sharing fantasies in bed. Then tried webcam many many years ago. Then slowly moved to a real meet x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Just a light hearted conversation between myself and wifey , then the realisation that it intrigued us both ..looked into it online together joined a local site and never looked back

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

She joined site and it just went from there

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

What's Spicer? X

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We'd talked about threesomes and suchlike from quite early in our relationship and the conversation evolved over time, I suppose.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

"We'd talked about threesomes and suchlike from quite early in our relationship and the conversation evolved over time, I suppose. "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through this site so we're swinging before we hooked up

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Heard about this site in a pub, talked about with L, signed up and hey, Bobs your mothers brother.

It was later she told me about her sexual attraction to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby brought it up in conversation whilst a little tipsy.rhatvhevwould love to share me with another man.

I thought he had alternative motives knowing if I'd been with another man. Then he would have the green light to play around.

Then after a while he started telling stories of different scenarios of men involved during sex which really turned me on.

Then it just happened whilst we were away for the weekend and we have never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chatted about past experiences, Mrs mentioned a threesome with two guys that she once had.

I then told her about a similar experience but with one Woman, three Men.

Her response was ....... Omg that sounds so hot.

We chatted some more, I told her if other past swinging moments, and here we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had both had experience swinging as singles, and with previous partners. Initially our getting together was based on sex (first weekend we got together ended up with Smoke’s first ever gangbang), and then grew into more. So guess that it kind of naturally happened.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Mr had a single profile for a number of years. We'd been together a couple of months when he told me about it. It took us another few months to set up as a couple.

Ms has been bi from teenage years and Mr knew about that before we git together. But she knew nothing really about swinging

It's all kind of gone from there.

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

I (Mr Y) received a surprisingly passionate kiss from a mutual friend at a Christmas party, right in front of Mrs Y. I expected Mrs Y to be annoyed, but instead she had a big grin on her face... cue lots of horny pillow talk that night, and the rest, as they say, is history!

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

Oooh this is fascinating. Mr Foxy had been on the scene before with his ex wife. When I met him he was my second sexual partner….. ridiculous at 47……..

so this is all a bit of an adventure for me……..I feel a bit like Alice down a very naughty rabbit hole…….

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

It started not long after we started dating back in the mid 90s. My now wife introduced me to her collection of vhs ffm porn tapes. This led to a discussion that she was bi curious.

Flash forward 6 months, we had just started living together she says she's been having fantasies about me being with another women.

I laugh it off thinking she's joking. Flash forward another month. She says it again.

I again laugh it off and say sure, OK you arrange it then. Honestly.thought she was either winding me up or testing me (1 was 21 amd it was a different time lol).

Anyway, a week.or so.after that she's on a girls night out, has one drink.to many and blurts it out to her freind....who says she's down for it and to send me round. She did and the rest is history.

That was opener.....then it became wanting to explore on the scene

...and that's it. Started 25 years ago.and never looked back.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We were on different continents when we started talking and had no expectation of meeting let alone being in a romantic relationship. We just talked about life and our experiences including sexual. I (Luke) had already been on this scene for a few years and talked openly about it and what I hoped for if I ended up in a relationship.

So when things started happening between us, everything was already out in the open and we had been able to think about what we wanted and how that fitted with what the other wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bedtime fantasies and toy play and imagining playing with others - we the agreed we had fantasies about being with others - we then thought why not do this together....

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience.

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

"Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience."

I’m terrified all the time….. can’t stay away though . And super curious about almost everything

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience."

We started together and still get nervous before a first meet. Part of the fun isn't it.

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We were out in the car before we moved in together and found what we thought was a secluded spot for some fun. Turned out to be a well used dogging spot and in our throws of passion neither of us noticed a few other cars turn up and we were being watched. By the time we noticed it was too late so just kept going. Seemed to turn us both on so we went back the next few weekends and eventually let someone join and the rest just evolved from. That

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

Maybe not a conversation but a long text from Mr. then a lot of chatting and questions, the usual ones and more, from me. Rest is history, still here and having fun

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience.

We started together and still get nervous before a first meet. Part of the fun isn't it.

We still get nerves. But I was more talking in terms of that point where you bring this topic/desire up in the first place with your other half of many years.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience.

We started together and still get nervous before a first meet. Part of the fun isn't it.

Most definitely, it’s like first date

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

"Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience.

We started together and still get nervous before a first meet. Part of the fun isn't it.

Most definitely, it’s like first date

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. More prep than a space mission…… I felt like a sacrificial virgin

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

One suggested it, the other just said ok, let's give it a go.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"Wasn't really a conversation to have, I met My Fiancée on here.

I kind of envy couples who find the lifestyle together from a vanilla start. It must be a fun and nerve-wracking experience.

We started together and still get nervous before a first meet. Part of the fun isn't it.

Most definitely, it’s like first date

. More prep than a space mission…… I felt like a sacrificial virgin "

Lamb to the slaughter lol lol

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We were both actively swinging on here as singles when we met.

After a while, we knew we were made for each other.

Got engaged in June, at her birthday party, at a sex club..

We’ve actually dialed it back a bit since we’ve been together.

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