FabSwingers.com forum: someone you know

By *erry2020888 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"

Well at least you have something of a common interest eith your sis in law.

We have seen a number of guys we know socially (friends / acquaintances) we say nothing to them or their other half's. That's their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were back in the home town, boss saw one of his oldest close friends and his partner on here.

We haven't let them know and never will, unless they want to share this aspect of their lives with us, then its none of our business.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We have found/ seen several people we know on fab. Generally we just block and move on

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

Yep, been spotted a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

KJ"

I came here to say exactly this ekkkkkkk

???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why you don’t post photos that give away your identity if you want to remain discreet I’ve seen body parts of 2 friends on here I can’t un see lol but I’ve never told them just blocked x

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By *erry2020888 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me"

Tread carefully and good luck.

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By *orny1-4uMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I have spotted a family member on here so I've hid my pics and yes I did read their profile and looked at their pics but don"t want it to get awkward at get togethers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have spotted a family member on here so I've hid my pics and yes I did read their profile and looked at their pics but don"t want it to get awkward at get togethers "

Uncle Dave?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Yes..spotted a few I know and a few have spotted us as well.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me"

Sounds both exciting and potentially troublesome.

Be careful as it could backfire on you both and the fall out could be immense.

On the other hand you could just get a couples profile together and do full swap

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By *orny1-4uMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I have spotted a family member on here so I've hid my pics and yes I did read their profile and looked at their pics but don"t want it to get awkward at get togethers

Uncle Dave?"

Nope she has not had a sex change not in the pics anyway

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Next door neighbour is on here. His wife doesn't know and keeps trying his luck

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm sure a swinging couple who knew my wife know who I am as they have messaged me before

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me"

But you have a couples profile, so surely your wife knows your on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah someone I know on here, made contact too, chatted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen the odd few people locally.

And…….an in-law.

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton

Do update us after you've met please. I'm curious to see what she wants to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea have some family on here and fab guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw my 28 year old daughter who is bi, that was awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know u know?

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"

Our first meet was with people we knew from a few years passed

, busted 1.0 lol still chat from time to time.

6 months latter another friend and his wife popped up. They messaged us, we said no as too close for us. Met then at a organised social and chatted and introduced them to others. Everyone had a great night.

Discretion is a must.

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By *urvybifem36 and her manCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yeah we woke up to a message from a local couple so asked for face pics. Girlfriend has known the female for years and seen her fella around. We eventually let them know who we were and sent face pics. Both girls are bi but it's not awkward and my girl is up for a social and hopefully more but the other woman is still deciding how she feels....us fellas definitely want it to happen though

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Saw my mates mum on here. Cracking tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

KJ"

No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.

Why do people have to prod into other people's lives uninvited? You do your thing and let him do his or else post aspects of your life that others might find unacceptable (we ALL have them) and in the same holier than though way he can preach to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"

I’d love that to happen to me

Fiona xx

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

My wife’s ex boss (female) is on here with her newish BF with some very hardcore pics. They wrote to us, twice. We politely declined. Not sure if she recognises us or not, but they didn’t give any indication.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

One of the lads that worked for me messaged my FWB on her profile, he got a surprise when she also spoke to him on our joint profile. He was very embarrassed but I just grinned when he next came into work then we chatted openly about Fab

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We know afew people on here who've known in so called "Normal" life and especially Mrs4 she's met a fair few of her dad's ex army friends are on here ..and depends on how you deal with it or want to deal with it and pretty hard where we live as although it's classed as a "City" by the locals it just a rather spread out "Town" and so the scene is quite small so logic dictates that you'll eventually bump into someone you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spotted a few people that I know on here. For the most part it's been a case of block them and forget about it.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

"My wife’s ex boss (female) is on here with her newish BF with some very hardcore pics. They wrote to us, twice. We politely declined. Not sure if she recognises us or not, but they didn’t give any indication."

I can think of a few bosses I'd love to find on here.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

" We know afew people on here who've known in so called "Normal" life and especially Mrs4 she's met a fair few of her dad's ex army friends are on here ..and depends on how you deal with it or want to deal with it and pretty hard where we live as although it's classed as a "City" by the locals it just a rather spread out "Town" and so the scene is quite small so logic dictates that you'll eventually bump into someone you know "

had to re-read that as I thought you said “met a fair few of her Dads Army friends” which would be a totally different scenario!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few people who I went to school with have messaged us. Have not said anything to them but thought it would be funny to say yes to a meet and see their face when they see us

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By *uriousBunnyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

I’ve spotted a couple of people I recognise. Thankfully the photos on my profile and theirs were fairly tame so I’ve not seen anything that would have felt weird.

I’ve also recognised a friends new boyfriend on Instagram photos as someone on here, that felt awkward. Thankfully she ditched him after she discovered he was a bit of a dick :D

There’s probably many more people we know on here, just haven’t spotted them yet! But if you’re on here without permission from someone you should be asking for it from then you need to be very careful!

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

had to re-read that as I thought you said “met a fair few of her Dads Army friends” which would be a totally different scenario!"

They do like it up 'em!

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By *uriousBunnyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

The people near by thing freaks me out, I always had it set to my work postcode. I changed it recently and I’ve had a couple of “you’re close to me” messages! Been chatting to someone a couple of streets away who doesn’t fit my “looking for” requirements but we’ve had lots of fun chatting and the thought of bumping into them in the local shop is a bit of a thrill now

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me"

...would be interested to hear how it goes.

*Grabs a popcorn

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Next door neighbour is on here. His wife doesn't know and keeps trying his luck

Eek!! That's the definition of too close for comfort!

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

"I saw my 28 year old daughter who is bi, that was awkward"

Christ I'll bet it was.

Fucking hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've seen people from work on here and local friends.

The way we see it we are all on here for similar reasons and if we ended up at the same party or club then so be it.

Have some fun then go back to normal life as if it didn't happen

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

"Seen the odd few people locally.

And…….an in-law.

A what in law?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We’ve recognised a few people who live locally on here, but I don’t *think* we’ve been spotted. As EssexCouple30 said, we’re all on here for the same things - we tend to have a little giggle about it, then move on.

I don’t for a moment expect we’ll get propositioned in the Co-op though (message for the sexy couples: we’re in the bread aisle

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

"We’ve recognised a few people who live locally on here, but I don’t *think* we’ve been spotted. As EssexCouple30 said, we’re all on here for the same things - we tend to have a little giggle about it, then move on.

I don’t for a moment expect we’ll get propositioned in the Co-op though (message for the sexy couples: we’re in the bread aisle

Hopefully it's the tiny one near the woods

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

"In

Huh?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"In

Huh?"

Few pal not them but me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly a bad in-law.

Not one I expected to see here at all.

Many moons ago now though.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

"Clearly a bad in-law.

Not one I expected to see here at all.

Many moons ago now though.

Father in law a dirty fucker eh?

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By *ettpairCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We've recognised a few guys in here and have been messaged saying we think we know you but that was it....if you know us just say hi

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We’ve been recognised, it happens.

We’re all adults and we trust them to keep things to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should’ve seen that coming.

Thankfully no. Lol

Female

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Should’ve seen that coming.

Thankfully no. Lol

Female

Well now I'm even more curious dammit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me"

That doesn't sound remotely toxic af

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.

Well said.

I was messaged on WhatsApp by the husband of someone I know after her saw me on here. I blocked him from my profile and moved on. It's not my place to tell her. That's his business whether he does or doesn't.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.

In many ways I agree except, if the OP wants to prompt a discussion on a forum by making their own private life public then in some ways why be surprised people post opinions? If you don’t want to hear it then don’t post it right?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.

Exactly. If you don't want things discussing, don't bring the subject up especially when it conflicts with what is on your public profile.

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By *elly2000Couple
over a year ago

City

We saw my sister on here, its a long story

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By *ountryPleasureWoman
over a year ago

Ashford

My (married) ex was on here last year and propositioned me LOL.

Recognised his pics. Asked for face pic and then a nice firm block followed.

Amazingly enough his suggestion was surprising seeing as he hadnt managed to fulfill anything close in the 5 years I was with him.

What a Wally.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"We saw my sister on here, its a long story "

We have time. Share away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was recognised by someone I'd want them to message me. As long as it was a kind of "Hey! You're on here too!". Not if they were into cooking rabbits!

As far as I'm concerned, the closer someone is the easier to meet up. So long as they recognise it's just about sexy fun and a friendly relationship would probably run it's course then fizzle out. Ideally leaving us still friends and talking, rather than vendictive enemies.

If you know me say hi. I'm fine with chatting about the weather as much as sex. Lol

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By *Lcouple999Couple
over a year ago

Bathish

"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"

What I want to know is does your wife know you are on here and what did the sister in law say!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Next door neighbour is on here. His wife doesn't know and keeps trying his luck

At least distance isn't an issue and if they're a no show you can knock and ask why

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

The real question is does you wife know your here?

If no does her sister plan to tell her?

KJ"

This ^^

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

"Next door neighbour is on here. His wife doesn't know and keeps trying his luck

At least distance isn't an issue and if they're a no show you can knock and ask why

Yeah not going to happen, she's a bit scary so want to steer well clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I know from work is on here with his wife, and a women I knew from years ago found me in here a couple of weeks ago, I talk to the couple and to my old friend.

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