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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

How about trying a visit to a new club. Somewhere you haven't been before.

Mrs N x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking about it and planning to but I’m worried what’s next for me to come as I’m running out off options to get what I need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking about it and planning to but I’m worried what’s next for me to come as I’m running out off options to get what I need "

How long have you been playing ?

I’m 54 and only joined fab properly in lockdown

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Create a list

Adventure,explore and experience then tick them off as you go along

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m on fab for about 3-4 years now. On and off. Keep deleting my account but always coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m on fab for about 3-4 years now. On and off. Keep deleting my account but always coming back "

So why do you think it’s beginning to feel the same ?

I think for me I need to get to know someone a little and have a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a break for a bit and see if that recharges the batteries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure. I do like connecting with people. Sex is so much better then. But also like ex with strangers too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with others, maybe a break and take up a new hobby until the 'spark' comes back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes spontaneous is fab travel make a weekend of things then look who takes your fancy where you visit etc

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Personally we go to a club about once a month on average and really look forward to it, any more and the excitement would lessen. Maybe meet or go to a club a little less often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met many of my best experiences outside of swingers sites and venues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind where I live seeing an attractive nicely dressed woman is a rare thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being spontaneous worked for me the best at first. Maybe I should go with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being spontaneous worked for me the best at first. Maybe I should go with that "

Yes I find being away from home works best for that but also love have friends come stay for a weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally we go to a club about once a month on average and really look forward to it, any more and the excitement would lessen. Maybe meet or go to a club a little less often?"

Maybe I should

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By *_new_memberMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Come and visit in a nice hotel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Come and visit in a nice hotel?"

It takes more than that hun

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

norwich


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back? "

Move outside your normal comfort zone...not dramatically but a tad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being spontaneous worked for me the best at first. Maybe I should go with that "

Book a trip to bahrain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Move outside your normal comfort zone...not dramatically but a tad!"

What else is it outside that I already tried ?

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

norwich


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Move outside your normal comfort zone...not dramatically but a tad!

What else is it outside that I already tried ?"

You say only meeting at clubs? Makes sense for the obvious reasons...however would two men in a hotel for a bite add some extra risk/fun? Two men you know...Trust...and respect x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Move outside your normal comfort zone...not dramatically but a tad!

What else is it outside that I already tried ?

You say only meeting at clubs? Makes sense for the obvious reasons...however would two men in a hotel for a bite add some extra risk/fun? Two men you know...Trust...and respect x"

I meet ‘friends’ outside clubs if possible. Clubs are confident for safety and convenience

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

norwich


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Move outside your normal comfort zone...not dramatically but a tad!

What else is it outside that I already tried ?

You say only meeting at clubs? Makes sense for the obvious reasons...however would two men in a hotel for a bite add some extra risk/fun? Two men you know...Trust...and respect x

I meet ‘friends’ outside clubs if possible. Clubs are confident for safety and convenience "

Of course and would never promote anything I you didn't feel safe x

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Experiment, find a new kink or two to try…

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back? "

Reduce your meets , be more selective and take it slowly let your potential meet wooo you into bed

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back? "

Pick something you haven't got listed in your interests and give it a go. Push your boundaries.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Reduce your meets , be more selective and take it slowly let your potential meet wooo you into bed "

Great advice

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Reduce your meets , be more selective and take it slowly let your potential meet wooo you into bed

Great advice "

Im useful for some things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I restore the excitement I once had starting on fab? Had lots of 1 to 1 , mmf, full swap meets and went to clubs. Now finding it a bit too samey. The butterflies in my stomach are long gone. Anyone else finds it? What do I do to get it back?

Reduce your meets , be more selective and take it slowly let your potential meet wooo you into bed

Great advice

Im useful for some things "

I’m so lost lately

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