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"We was chatting to a couple arranging a meet, mr on our side a d mrs on their side was messaging on here. Both saying how nervous they was. She said not to worry and nothing will be forced or pressured. Mr replied he was sure they would have fun and that he told hotwife that the female of the couple was exactly the type of woman he would go for, pretty with a lovely figure. The male half of the couple took offence to that??? Have I been rude or am I missing something?!?!?" Nope, sounds perfectly reasonable. Would he have been happier if he told her she was ugly but he’d take one for the team??  | |||
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"We was chatting to a couple arranging a meet, mr on our side a d mrs on their side was messaging on here. Both saying how nervous they was. She said not to worry and nothing will be forced or pressured. Mr replied he was sure they would have fun and that he told hotwife that the female of the couple was exactly the type of woman he would go for, pretty with a lovely figure. The male half of the couple took offence to that??? Have I been rude or am I missing something?!?!? Nope, sounds perfectly reasonable. Would he have been happier if he told her she was ugly but he’d take one for the team?? "I honestly can’t see how I’ve been offensive. Why would we meet a couple we didn’t find attractive?? | |||
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"We was chatting to a couple arranging a meet, mr on our side a d mrs on their side was messaging on here. Both saying how nervous they was. She said not to worry and nothing will be forced or pressured. Mr replied he was sure they would have fun and that he told hotwife that the female of the couple was exactly the type of woman he would go for, pretty with a lovely figure. The male half of the couple took offence to that??? Have I been rude or am I missing something?!?!?" If we are chatting to other people, and I get paid a compliment like that, J (Mr) doesn’t get offended in the slightest - he gets off on it if other people find me attractive because he is secure, and he trusts me…there’s got to be some kind of attraction with the people you want to have fun with, in my opinion, otherwise you aren’t really going to enjoy yourselves F (Mrs) | |||
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"A lot of couples swinging have insecurities like we all do so I'm guessing you triggered something. Men like the idea of someone wanting to have sex with their partner but not see them 'as someone they would go for'. He probably took it as someone you would date rather than find attractive. " Forgot to add, we initially bumped into this couple in a club and the female was a bit insecure about her body, like many of us are, men and women alike. We paid her compliments then (all true) to try give her that little bit of confidence. | |||
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"We was chatting to a couple arranging a meet, mr on our side a d mrs on their side was messaging on here. Both saying how nervous they was. She said not to worry and nothing will be forced or pressured. Mr replied he was sure they would have fun and that he told hotwife that the female of the couple was exactly the type of woman he would go for, pretty with a lovely figure. The male half of the couple took offence to that??? Have I been rude or am I missing something?!?!? If we are chatting to other people, and I get paid a compliment like that, J (Mr) doesn’t get offended in the slightest - he gets off on it if other people find me attractive because he is secure, and he trusts me…there’s got to be some kind of attraction with the people you want to have fun with, in my opinion, otherwise you aren’t really going to enjoy yourselves F (Mrs)" Exactly how we see it. I love nothing more than other people complimenting my wife. It’s amazing. | |||
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"We was chatting to a couple arranging a meet, mr on our side a d mrs on their side was messaging on here. Both saying how nervous they was. She said not to worry and nothing will be forced or pressured. Mr replied he was sure they would have fun and that he told hotwife that the female of the couple was exactly the type of woman he would go for, pretty with a lovely figure. The male half of the couple took offence to that??? Have I been rude or am I missing something?!?!? If we are chatting to other people, and I get paid a compliment like that, J (Mr) doesn’t get offended in the slightest - he gets off on it if other people find me attractive because he is secure, and he trusts me…there’s got to be some kind of attraction with the people you want to have fun with, in my opinion, otherwise you aren’t really going to enjoy yourselves F (Mrs) Exactly how we see it. I love nothing more than other people complimenting my wife. It’s amazing." It’s such a nice wee confidence boost if people find your partner attractive, and I find it a turn on if people think J is attractive, too. Interesting that the guy still feels like this even though you’ve met in person as well. I guess you just need to reassure him a little? I suppose it’s quite easy to feel insecure in the lifestyle F (Mrs) | |||
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"If im following correctly you (mr) told the woman of the other couple you found her type attractive? How did you find out the other guy got offended and how was it described. Eg you didnt say its ok i like fat birds did you ? " They was both reading the messages, My exact words was, I thi know your stunning, I told hotwife at the club you are just the type I would like to play with, pretty and a lovely figure He then replied he didn't like that kind of talk, I apologised the asked what he thought was offensive as I was being complimentary. He replied it was his missus and I shouldn't speak to her like that | |||
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"If im following correctly you (mr) told the woman of the other couple you found her type attractive? How did you find out the other guy got offended and how was it described. Eg you didnt say its ok i like fat birds did you ? They was both reading the messages, My exact words was, I thi know your stunning, I told hotwife at the club you are just the type I would like to play with, pretty and a lovely figure He then replied he didn't like that kind of talk, I apologised the asked what he thought was offensive as I was being complimentary. He replied it was his missus and I shouldn't speak to her like that" then you've had a lucky escape sounds like they have issues | |||
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"we find often people over do the complments its ok someone saying your nice but some people dont want anymore than that ..im one of them i find them fake n cheesy if they want to complment then lets do it when we are acually fucking then it aint so bad ....there can be too much cheese and people have different levels when someone says to me ''your my type'' i just think cheese and they want quick access to my knickers" Yeah, some people can get a bit over the top, we usually just say a polite no thanks, and block them if they keep being persistent and too fake and cheesy. F (Mrs) | |||
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"If im following correctly you (mr) told the woman of the other couple you found her type attractive? How did you find out the other guy got offended and how was it described. Eg you didnt say its ok i like fat birds did you ? They was both reading the messages, My exact words was, I thi know your stunning, I told hotwife at the club you are just the type I would like to play with, pretty and a lovely figure He then replied he didn't like that kind of talk, I apologised the asked what he thought was offensive as I was being complimentary. He replied it was his missus and I shouldn't speak to her like that" Dont you talk politely to ma woman! | |||
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"If im following correctly you (mr) told the woman of the other couple you found her type attractive? How did you find out the other guy got offended and how was it described. Eg you didnt say its ok i like fat birds did you ? They was both reading the messages, My exact words was, I thi know your stunning, I told hotwife at the club you are just the type I would like to play with, pretty and a lovely figure He then replied he didn't like that kind of talk, I apologised the asked what he thought was offensive as I was being complimentary. He replied it was his missus and I shouldn't speak to her like that" I was on here as a couple and if we got any messages like that it put us both off. It's just too personal. We are all there to enjoy ourselves but for me it crosses a line  | |||
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