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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for couples...

How do you approach other couples? Does one of you mainly do the messaging? Or do you wait until you're together and approach others together?

Or message and show the other partner later?

Curious as we try not to respond alone, always together, but the odd occasion one of us has responded and shown the other later, if we think we'll all really click.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If we approached a couple it would be after discussing with each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we approached a couple it would be after discussing with each other. "

Thank you for your response, pretty much how we generally do it too. We've found communication is definitely key, even if we think we know what the other wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll always chat to each other about the other couple first before replying.

If we all like the first few messages and face pictures then we usually move to a messaging app because it's a lot easier to have a four-way flowing conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll always chat to each other about the other couple first before replying.

If we all like the first few messages and face pictures then we usually move to a messaging app because it's a lot easier to have a four-way flowing conversation."

How does it work with the messaging app? Are you all in a group chat? Or does one take the lead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Kik, telegram or WhatsApp group with all four of us involved.

We chat, flirt and tease and once the connection is there we'll meet for a drink and see if it continues face to face x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The group chat seems to he the way to go, we have always said no private messages on any social media, messaging groups, but group chat seems to be the best way. (Also helps knowing that all are involved and its not just one trying thier luck)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We both know each other’s types so we will message alone if not both together but we chat about messages we’ve sent.

Once we’ve established an initial attraction we move to a 4 way chat on Telegram and then we all just contribute as and when to carry the conversation on.

Obviously the more involved the chat becomes the more likely we’ll be arranging to get together.

If we can’t establish a connection during chats then it’ll just dry up and we’ll leave it for another time, unless red flags have appeared during chats and we’ll just end it.

But chatting together certainly determines whether all of us are on the same page.

K

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

For us it is me (Mr) who does most (not all) of the “admin” (including the hard work of perving all those profiles).

If I see someone I think we both might like then I show the profile (or email if they have contacted us) to Mrs B.

If she also likes, then we make contact.

Before writing to the other couple we make sure we have read their profile (and very closely examined their pictures ) to ensure we might be what they are looking for.

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