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By *arl2up OP   Man
over a year ago

BRADFORD

Hey guys! Changed from been a single guy into swinging an now in a relationship how did you couples end up swinging?x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It was Mr N who suggested it. We talked he made it clear that if I wasn't 100% on board it wasn't going to happen, we talked a lot more, established limits and negotiable boundaries, talked even more, joined fab, talked a bit more and then met a really nice guy who eased us into it. We still talk about our limits and boundaries as these change with experience. I hope you and your partner enjoy x

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By *arl2up OP   Man
over a year ago

BRADFORD

Ok thanks for the advice will see how it goes x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I didn't realise you were after advice! Does your partner know that you have posted on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we talked about it, watched a few cams then played on here. then we decided to meet a couple to have an outside view, and we are still here 18 months later

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By *arl2up OP   Man
over a year ago

BRADFORD

Not yet just wanting to know how others mentioned it to their partners x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not yet just wanting to know how others mentioned it to their partners x"

Well this is just my point of view and only you know your partner but I wouldn't be happy to find out that you had discussed it with other people first. Just my two pence worth but I would recommend buying a nice bottle of wine, have a cosy evening in and bring the subject up gently all the time reassuring her that it's no shortcoming on her part that makes you want to embrace this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not yet just wanting to know how others mentioned it to their partners x

Well this is just my point of view and only you know your partner but I wouldn't be happy to find out that you had discussed it with other people first. Just my two pence worth but I would recommend buying a nice bottle of wine, have a cosy evening in and bring the subject up gently all the time reassuring her that it's no shortcoming on her part that makes you want to embrace this lifestyle."

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started a few weeks after we met, were both totally honest about our need for additional sex outside a relationship so thought we'd give a swinger club a try. Went to La Chambre and haven't stopped swinging since.

You would obviously like sex outside your relationship, what does your partner think about the idea? It's possible she would think you are not serious about your relationship so you need to convince her. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not yet just wanting to know how others mentioned it to their partners x

Well this is just my point of view and only you know your partner but I wouldn't be happy to find out that you had discussed it with other people first. Just my two pence worth but I would recommend buying a nice bottle of wine, have a cosy evening in and bring the subject up gently all the time reassuring her that it's no shortcoming on her part that makes you want to embrace this lifestyle. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started after a very open and candid conversation together after reading an article in a magazine about modern day swinging. At first the driving force in wanting to head into this lifestyle was the wife's curiosity in being with another woman and like most guys I was not going to object. We have in time evolved from soft swing, no kissing, couples and fems only to full swing, lots of kissing and meeting single guys. As time has gone on we have both realised what works and turn us on.Our advice would be take your time and always be open and honest with each other.

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By *arl2up OP   Man
over a year ago

BRADFORD

Thanks for all the help guys taken everything on board. She knows I visit this site so will bring the subject up sometime thanks again

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