FabSwingers.com forum: Is there people who prefer bareback only?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No judgement please

Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Every person prefers bareback but for us it’s just not worth the risk

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Bareback only with my husband.

The risk is not worth it.

People may get tested, but can you trust that they haven't fucked bareback before the results of that test come back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback only with my husband.

The risk is not worth it.

People may get tested, but can you trust that they haven't fucked bareback before the results of that test come back...."
Absolutely.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

of course there is OP ... just like there is people that like shitting while reading a paper ..

many will only want safer sex ,many will be happy for natural sex ... human nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100% however I will only do it with 1 trusted regular fwb after both being tested. Everyone else has to wrap.

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By *ork and MindyMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It happens

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some will,some won't,I'd prefer limiting the risk and understanding those.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

The world seems to be divided into those who do bareback and those who don't.

Nee'r the twain shall meet.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Every person prefers bareback but for us it’s just not worth the risk"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have a trusted fwb yes

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"No judgement please

Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake "

It's more the icing in the cake

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Bareback but only cum in mouth for us

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

Yes, and I make it clear on my profile and messages. And yes I do miss out on meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bareback but only cum in mouth for us"

Can I ask why? Do you keep cum inside exclusive for partner etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"of course there is OP ... just like there is people that like shitting while reading a paper ..

many will only want safer sex ,many will be happy for natural sex ... human nature "

I rarely get the opportunity to read the paper much these days.

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By *andG2018Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Nottingham

YES !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We love it

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I would love it with the right partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with my lady if others want bb then you have to be trusted friends that test regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my husband is allowed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually bareback with my hand.....I treat myself and use a condom for a posh wank...usually on my birthday lol

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

Yes we do it and enjoy it

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

There's plenty of us that only do bare meets and are open about it too, so if anyone doesn't like it they can look the other way.

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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Every person prefers bareback but for us it’s just not worth the risk"

Oh I absolutely would love to bareback

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I love bareback with my wife, but I would not risk it with anyone else.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

My wife has always insisted on bareback only. I only ever put a condom on once and she was like - “No, no, no, never again put that stinking bit of squishy rubber up me again”!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Of course there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I hate it ??

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've only gone with others on club nights and always have and always will use protection. It's just not worth the risk or paranoia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with ppl I have never met before !

With regular I always use a condom as it is safer.

#sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No condom's, just make them jizz on my feet instead.

Perfectly safe.

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

we clearly state on our profile. Bareback only.

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Yes, of course there are. Unfortunately many feel the need to not show it on their profile because of the judgement they will receive but plenty are open to it despite the profile text saying different.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

It depends doesn't it? I do love bareback but I prefer with someone regular or someone I know for a while rather than just on a first meet. As great as the feeling is going bareback, most often it's not worth the risk but the fantasy is there though lol

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

This is how we play and always will.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"No judgement please

Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake "

Yes, we ‘missed out’ having fun with a couple, because they wanted bareback only. It wasn’t noted on their profile, but just hours before meeting them, I noticed they hadn’t listed ‘safe sex’ in the interests. We still met them and asked about it during the social. We didn’t continue after being lectured how ‘pointless’ it was using a condom.

It’s none of our business if people want bareback - each to their own, but it’s not for us. We always use condoms with playmates, as I rather than be safe than sorry. And yes, I do get tested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is how we play and always will."

.. have you ever caught anything? We would prefer BB if we was to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always love bareback, it’s just so artificial with a condom. Most ladies and couples I’ve met always prefer bareback, even ‘single’ ladies returning to their husbands afterwards. On my old profile I met 20 singles/couples and easily 80% wanted bareback.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Its no different to Covid.

Some people understand the consequences and protect themselves by keeping a distance, sterilising hands and most importantly wearing masks.

Others don't. I know people who have had covid19 and have carried on there daily activities with total disregard to other peoples heath.

It's the same with sex. Some think with their head, others fuck with it

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By *tr4455Man
over a year ago

nr wigan

I'd miss out because I hate condoms.. If your clean and they are .. You don't have any worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The world seems to be divided into those who do bareback and those who don't.

Nee'r the twain shall meet."

Truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No judgement please

Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake

It's more the icing in the cake

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By *oneycakesCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

We prefer bareback but use condoms at meets, clubs, parties etc. We've considered getting Prep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d certainly love to try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Bareback for me not ashamed to admit to it. Bareback is my choice, everyone is entitled to make theirs.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Bareback for me not ashamed to admit to it. Bareback is my choice, everyone is entitled to make theirs. "
everyone to their own i love bareback myself but I've no bother wearing a condom if she wants me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback for me not ashamed to admit to it. Bareback is my choice, everyone is entitled to make theirs. "

Each to there own I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bareback is always nice, just make sure that they’re clean!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"bareback is always nice, just make sure that they’re clean!"
100% agree

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By *ebelmelMan
over a year ago

dewsbury

Gets me how lots wont do it but happy to have oral which carries risks as well or have they forgot that side been a bi all my life and prefer bb and im 71

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gets me how lots wont do it but happy to have oral which carries risks as well or have they forgot that side been a bi all my life and prefer bb and im 71 "

Because the risk from oral is significantly lower! It’s not equal risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIV

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIV"
everyone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIVeveryone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too "

It’s not about judgement it’s about responding with actual facts! My post is in response to someone else after all.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIVeveryone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too

It’s not about judgement it’s about responding with actual facts! My post is in response to someone else after all."
Fair enough

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Yes, and I make it clear on my profile and messages. And yes I do miss out on meets"

Same here - pre-Covid, a couple who apparently visit this area quite frequently messaged me numerous times wanting to meet while they were here...

....but insisted condoms would be required - although the lady was both persistent and persuasive, I maintained my 'bareback only' stance...

....eventually, she 'gave up' when she realised I wasn't going to 'give in' - but did tell me if I changed my mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback for me not ashamed to admit to it. Bareback is my choice, everyone is entitled to make theirs. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIVeveryone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too

It’s not about judgement it’s about responding with actual facts! My post is in response to someone else after all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was literally just talking about how contentious this thread is and now it's popped back up.

Personally I prefer bb, who doesn't?! BUT it's dodgy ground on here and too risky so reserved for special people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re bare all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was literally just talking about how contentious this thread is and now it's popped back up.

Personally I prefer bb, who doesn't?! BUT it's dodgy ground on here and too risky so reserved for special people. "

I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who prefers sex with a condom but I agree I wouldn’t do BB with someone from here

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"Yes, and I make it clear on my profile and messages. And yes I do miss out on meets

Same here - pre-Covid, a couple who apparently visit this area quite frequently messaged me numerous times wanting to meet while they were here...

....but insisted condoms would be required - although the lady was both persistent and persuasive, I maintained my 'bareback only' stance...

....eventually, she 'gave up' when she realised I wasn't going to 'give in' - but did tell me if I changed my mind..."

I like bareback but safe sex trumps it every time if requested by the other party.

I think the above poster shows an incredibly selfish attitude but I suppose that's his choice and if he wants to adopt that approach then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferred but needs be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is my fave, feels so sensual but obviously the reality is something else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bareback

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"I like bareback but safe sex trumps it every time if requested by the other party.

I think the above poster shows an incredibly selfish attitude but I suppose that's his choice and if he wants to adopt that approach then so be it."

I can't quite work out how I'm the one with an "incredibly selfish attitude", when it was the couple who contacted me that wanted me to change the way that I play...

....if you're vegan, you don't walk into a butcher's shop and demand a veggie burger...

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

If everyone involved is scrubbed up clean prior to playing I have no problem and never have had any problems.

I also don't have any problem with wearing a condom, so with me it's down to preference.

I respect playmates preferences.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I think most people prefer it bare, but not for casual sex

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Every person prefers bareback but for us it’s just not worth the risk"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback feels great but can't dot it with just anyone

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By *blacklondonmanMan
over a year ago

Golders Green, London

Yes and do sometimes rather miss out on sex if I feel a really strong urge to spunk in a pussy such that I know I won't get full satisfaction by using a condom. That being said, I do not want to bareback or even fuck every pussy.

Bonus is I eat and clean up after me as any self respecting gent would. After care is good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely everyone prefers BB, however the reality is, if you're meeting new sexual partners on a regular basis and those people are meeting other new people on a regular basis, the risks obviously goes up. I don't meet lots of new people, prefer BB, but do play safe usually unless with a trusted a fb and even this carries risk. I get myself tested regularly and regardless if you play BB or safe with lots of different people, it's probably a good idea to get tested regularly. However we're all adults here, I'm pretty sure we all know the facts, so we all make choices which are right for ourselves. Personally no judgement on either side. Their bodies, their choice.

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