FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging

By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Do you think there are more swingers out there than you actually think, Even tho we try to hide it as much as possible,And everyone thinks we are angels , we have noticed a few couples from both our work places , and even family who have been on the swinging scene , I think there are so many more people out there having fun , and why not after the last couple of years

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I read some where it was about one in 10 couples who dabbled or enjoyed. Certainly found a few from our own social circles on here when we joined lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lurking in the shadows, loads of them

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Our next door neighbours could be swingers. After all, they wouldn't have a clue that we are. Add up how many attend clubs or paries or private meets and it's a lot. Also some only meet up occasionally. Quite a lot who go to clubs aren't even on Fab. It adds up to a lot of Swingers!

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

I think if it wasn’t so taboo , I think a lot more would come out of the closet , I’ve actually spoken to a few couples who are quite open , it hasn’t affected their life what so ever , it’s just taking that final turn , I suppose it depends on who and what there family are like , I know my cousin got caught out a few years back , it was the talk of the family , but no one mentions it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s much more common now. I’m proud to be able to be me and express my sexuality . I spent 20 yrs in a restrained relationship so I’m

Now openly a swinger and don’t give a shite. This attitude may be due to reaching a certain age I don’t know?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"I think if it wasn’t so taboo , I think a lot more would come out of the closet , I’ve actually spoken to a few couples who are quite open , it hasn’t affected their life what so ever , it’s just taking that final turn , I suppose it depends on who and what there family are like , I know my cousin got caught out a few years back , it was the talk of the family , but no one mentions it now "

We where open about it with freinds and they couldnt care less. Wasn't for them, the sometimes ask questions but that's it. Got outed by family as they worked it out with all the weekends away but again non issue.

Don't have time for people who want to make an issue out of what we do in our spare time.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I think it’s much more common now. I’m proud to be able to be me and express my sexuality . I spent 20 yrs in a restrained relationship so I’m

Now openly a swinger and don’t give a shite. This attitude may be due to reaching a certain age I don’t know? "

I agree. I think my confidence to be who I want to be has come with my maturity.

I dont advertise the fact that I lead this lifestyle, but never hide it if I'm questioned, or it's difficult to avoid mentioning it for whatever reason.

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By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

"I think it’s much more common now. I’m proud to be able to be me and express my sexuality . I spent 20 yrs in a restrained relationship so I’m

Now openly a swinger and don’t give a shite. This attitude may be due to reaching a certain age I don’t know? "
well done to you , your still a fine looking woman , live your life to the full , ps I would not worry about age you are still hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s much more common now. I’m proud to be able to be me and express my sexuality . I spent 20 yrs in a restrained relationship so I’m

Now openly a swinger and don’t give a shite. This attitude may be due to reaching a certain age I don’t know? well done to you , your still a fine looking woman , live your life to the full , ps I would not worry about age you are still hot x"

Thank you your looking rather hot too

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
over a year ago

Angus

We are all adults at the end of the day xx

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

It's more common now and more accepted. And let's be honest it's in our genes. Thank the Romans for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We saw our youngest daughters school teacher at a club last week.. small world lol

Yes we made a sharp exit lol

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm sure there are a lot of couples outside the lifestyle who have thought about it at some point, or just haven't got round to talking about it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes lurking in the shadows, loads of them "

Very true. Found someone at work on fab. Lurking isn’t a great trait though

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Been swinging over the years. Met my former boss and his wife at a club. We had a good night back at there hotel. Hence we now have reguler meets. Bumped in to my childs games teacher. She was shocked as i was but we talked and laughed it off. But i think there are more peoole swinging now than 10 years ago.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Been swinging over the years. Met my former boss and his wife at a club. We had a good night back at there hotel. Hence we now have reguler meets. Bumped in to my childs games teacher. She was shocked as i was but we talked and laughed it off. But i think there are more peoole swinging now than 10 years ago."

Wouldn't surprise me. Met a few couples in clubs recently wo said they found it by accident. Either something in channel 4 or a sly mention to this site on Facebook of all places. Never looked back once they joined.

The willingness to try it has to be there like obviously.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think a lot of adults come a certain age are open to it or interested deep down.

My partner has a real ability to pull it out of people. She/we have in the seduced non swingers we've met out and about before on a fair few occasions. It's amazing how many adults 30+ are at least interested in our experience. Some of are best swinging experiences have been with people outside of the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if there are more couples and women getting into swinging then its not showing on fab .... also we started this 28 years ago and we think there were far bore women and couples vack then with less men alot less men ... swinging was everywhere as was dogging back then so im not sure there are more playing today ...more men yes that go up a million% nut i dont think women and couples have

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I’d say the majority of our friends are partial…from conversations we have and also speaking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread. The owners of Fab have very powerful data to answer this but yes much more common than we’d all admit in vanilla life.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know at least 2 of my “real life” friends participate they’re not on fab different routes. 1 I only learned of recently the other she and her husband have always had an open marriage just don’t advertise it.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Why worry about what others are up to? Just enjoy yourselves.

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

"I know at least 2 of my “real life” friends participate they’re not on fab different routes. 1 I only learned of recently the other she and her husband have always had an open marriage just don’t advertise it. "

My sister and her husband were in an “open” marriage. Only one of them knew it though

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

My sister and her husband were in an “open” marriage. Only one of them knew it though"

Ouch!

Been there

But no I know this couple and the lady very very well

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