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By *tirling Dark OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

We see numerous posts for cream pie and bare back appreciation in the forums so why not a safe sex appreciation post. Not as "sexy' but with the rates of STI amongst swinger's being higher than average we thought why not?

"More than half (55%) of all the STI diagnoses in the over-45s were made in swingers, compared with about one-third (31%) in gay men."

https://www.nicswell.co.uk/health-news/swingers-at-greater-risk-of-stis#:~:text=between%20one%20and%20two%20in,higher%20infection%20rates%20than%20men

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We see numerous posts for cream pie and bare back appreciation in the forums so why not a safe sex appreciation post. Not as "sexy' but with the rates of STI amongst swinger's being higher than average we thought why not?

"More than half (55%) of all the STI diagnoses in the over-45s were made in swingers, compared with about one-third (31%) in gay men."

https://www.nicswell.co.uk/health-news/swingers-at-greater-risk-of-stis#:~:text=between%20one%20and%20two%20in,higher%20infection%20rates%20than%20men"

Yes, it’s not sexy but it’s important. Play safe and stay safe everyone! Unless you don’t want to, which is also entirely up to you.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’m one for safe sex. 80% of adults will have HPV at some point in their lives. A cervical cancer causing virus. Most people with that are asymptomatic. The majority of STDs detected and treated are asymptomatic. I believe less people get tested than do. Obviously others won’t agree. If two people consent to bareback then fair enough. That’s up to them. I’d hope both partners got tested beforehand but not my business. I’ll take responsibility for my own sexual health.

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By *ooroo2019Woman
over a year ago

Chester

Yes, this is definitely the club for me. Safe sex all the way, people may argue that it isn’t as sexy, but it’s sexier than having to deal with an STD

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

This is definitely the group for me.

Dont get me wrong I love cream pies and filling all holes with my cum but, but would only ever do this with a life partner.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Yeah I only play safe with people who aren't my partner.

I block anyone who messages me asking for bare back. My profile says sex safe only. If they can't read that then It's not very reassuring that they'll take safe sex seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only play safe but we respect other people that prefer not to buy it's not for us.

Safe sex appreciation from us

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

Yep I've been refused entry because I don't go BB. I'll be honest I'd rather cum out of a woman then in her..face, breasts, A-hole and the like. Giving a woman a cream pie and Mr cuck getting sloppy seconds will remain a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only play safe but we respect other people that prefer not to buy it's not for us.

Safe sex appreciation from us "

I agree health is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex all the way. I don’t think barebacking is that much better… my question has always been over oral…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here Here!

Rather be safe

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always play safe on here! Don’t understand how people can be so careless but each to their own I guess

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Why the sudden "my shite is bigger than your shite" with the bareback crowd?

As the article states-

It should be highlighted that the study relies on self-reported sexual behaviour and so may be prone to error. Also, this is a study of the population from the Netherlands and its figures may not apply to other countries including the UK. It is also unclear how the STI rates of infection in the Netherlands compare to the UK.

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By *tirling Dark OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

One of us worked in a STD clinic and saw so many life's devastated because of a moment (or two) of pleasure. The more recent studies looking particularly at swingers are worrying, more accurate to say scary as fck.

Surprised the site doesn't promote safe sex more than it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically like playing Russian roulette with your cock, I’d rather not thanks!

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It's not the responsibility of the site how individuals act.

You either play safe or you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the responsibility of the site how individuals act.

You either play safe or you don't. "

Safe sex always with others. Bareback only with each other.

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By *tirling Dark OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"It's not the responsibility of the site how individuals act.

You either play safe or you don't. "

It is evident that to many swingers are unaware that they fall into the HIGH RISK category.

Some of those playing unsafe are swinging solo, when in a relationship, their partner doesn't get the option on playing safe, their partner has made that decision for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the self preservation society.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"It's not the responsibility of the site how individuals act.

You either play safe or you don't.

It is evident that to many swingers are unaware that they fall into the HIGH RISK category.

Some of those playing unsafe are swinging solo, when in a relationship, their partner doesn't get the option on playing safe, their partner has made that decision for them.

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Unfortunately that's something you will have no control over.

You do however have control of playing safe.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Rather be safe than sorry. If you living in Wales, frisky Wales provides free sti test. No excuse not get tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shame they don’t offer the free postal STI testing for all ages all over the Uk. Maybe more people would test as it’s in the comfort of their own home and only a visit to the clinic in the event of a positive result. I am fortunate enough to live in an area where you can get one of those postal kits.

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By *nly us 4448Couple
over a year ago

London

Safe sex or no sex. That's one of the 1st things we put across to people if they want to meet. It really isn't worth the risk

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I only play safe now, wasnt always that way, but when I lost a family member to aids it was a wake up call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex all the way, even oral which is a grey area I know for folk, actually like condoms, nothing says playing with strangers more than opening a condom, anyone tried vagina barriers for oral sex on ladies?

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Safe penetrative sex for us, why worry the next day when you can simply bag it?

Also we get tested every 3 months, only takes an hour, is free, and seems the responsible thing to do. Not sure how many people here get tested? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safe penetrative sex for us, why worry the next day when you can simply bag it?

Also we get tested every 3 months, only takes an hour, is free, and seems the responsible thing to do. Not sure how many people here get tested? xx"

I test regularly. I have the free postal kits sent to my home. I know not available in all area though. I think more people would test is they did it this way everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safe sex all the way. I don’t think barebacking is that much better… my question has always been over oral… "

And that's where the problem lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see numerous posts for cream pie and bare back appreciation in the forums so why not a safe sex appreciation post. Not as "sexy' but with the rates of STI amongst swinger's being higher than average we thought why not?

I only do safe sex, It is just as fun!

"More than half (55%) of all the STI diagnoses in the over-45s were made in swingers, compared with about one-third (31%) in gay men."

https://www.nicswell.co.uk/health-news/swingers-at-greater-risk-of-stis#:~:text=between%20one%20and%20two%20in,higher%20infection%20rates%20than%20men

Yes, it’s not sexy but it’s important. Play safe and stay safe everyone! Unless you don’t want to, which is also entirely up to you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safe sex or no sex. That's one of the 1st things we put across to people if they want to meet. It really isn't worth the risk"

100% agree!

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