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By *llaandG OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

This is a question for the couples out there...

E and I have been to a couple of Porn Star / Greedy Girl Parties that attract a mainly male clientele. We have had a great time though we've kept ourselves to ourselves, in part due to a sense of not being sure how to explore in that space! We've been aware that couples are definitely in the minority at some of these events.

We were hoping to connect with other couples that go to these parties to learn from their experiences, but also curious to see what puts couples off going (we have thoughts about both but would love to know what others think)

Thanks in advance,

E&G

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We would love to go to one of these parties but are put off by the numbers of men who may think it's just a freebie. If we could select 3 or 4 men that Mrs Skyblue might actually fancy then we could relax into a naughty group session but having been to clubs with single guy's it just doesn't work like that in reality.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Can't answer your question, but you may be able to help with mine. We haven't been to events like that out of concern that there would be an overwhelming expectation or pressure to play. What's your experience please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s important to have agreement between yourselves first about what’s ok and what’s not. We like to encourage each other to have whatever takes your fancy. We often play together first and then with others later. It’s good to take the first few steps and see where it leads!

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON


"We would love to go to one of these parties but are put off by the numbers of men who may think it's just a freebie. If we could select 3 or 4 men that Mrs Skyblue might actually fancy then we could relax into a naughty group session but having been to clubs with single guy's it just doesn't work like that in reality."

We agree completely. This has always put us off too

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By *llaandG OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"We would love to go to one of these parties but are put off by the numbers of men who may think it's just a freebie. If we could select 3 or 4 men that Mrs Skyblue might actually fancy then we could relax into a naughty group session but having been to clubs with single guy's it just doesn't work like that in reality.

We agree completely. This has always put us off too"

Interestingly we've never felt pressured. Actually we've found the men very respectful and actually often surprised that couples turn up. We've had people ask us if Ella wants to play, but she's never been propositioned on her own and never in a pushy fashion.

Also the hostesses are really friendly and welcoming. I think there may be lists of reasons why, but the organisers seem keen to have couples along!

G

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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago

East Devon & London

Mrs Smith had a very enjoyable blow-bang at Le Boudoir on Friday, 7 respectful guys who didn’t push their luck, just one guy that I had to say no to. The management run a tight ship there which is great, Mrs Smith can dress up, relax, be rude and everyone have a good time. Happy days. Or nights…

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We don't go to organised parties as the numbers attending would be lower than a club and as it would be by invitation (I'm assuming) then what if we didn't gel with the invited guests. With a club there are always a wider choice of playmates.

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By *llaandG OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

I'd go out on a limb and say that the men at these parties are much less intrusive than at other places we've been!

G

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By *llaandG OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"We don't go to organised parties as the numbers attending would be lower than a club and as it would be by invitation (I'm assuming) then what if we didn't gel with the invited guests. With a club there are always a wider choice of playmates. "

No, I'm more talking about more commercial parties, not private parties

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"We don't go to organised parties as the numbers attending would be lower than a club and as it would be by invitation (I'm assuming) then what if we didn't gel with the invited guests. With a club there are always a wider choice of playmates.

No, I'm more talking about more commercial parties, not private parties"

Ah ok, then that sounds similar to a club if anyone can attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only been to restricted male number nights at clubs and yet when we play in the open every time we have had at least 20 men standing round desperately trying to get in on the action. For Rachel she doesn't seem to notice as she loses herself in the moment but for Me it is an issue as I start to worry about her safety.

It has been fine to start with when there are 4 or 5 guys and I am concentrating on us then within a few minutes the crowds arrive and it all gets too much for me and Mr perky takes a run for the hills.

We are really seeking couples at clubs however not succeed yet.

I now prefer lockable rooms with people viewing from outside.

God only knows what it must be like at a greedy girls night.

The desperation of some men is a worry

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We have been to a number of greedy girl events and though there have been many men at them we have never found them pushy or disrespectful.

That seems to happen more often on a

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We avoid parties where its male heavy. Not our thing. Usually opt for ones that are couples or couples and single ladies focused with limited single guys.

Ultimetly you just have to pick and choose the right events / parties for you. A greedy girls night isn't gonna work if your both into couples or women rather than multiple guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread , has answered few questions for us

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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago

East Devon & London


"We have only been to restricted male number nights at clubs and yet when we play in the open every time we have had at least 20 men standing round desperately trying to get in on the action. For Rachel she doesn't seem to notice as she loses herself in the moment but for Me it is an issue as I start to worry about her safety.

It has been fine to start with when there are 4 or 5 guys and I am concentrating on us then within a few minutes the crowds arrive and it all gets too much for me and Mr perky takes a run for the hills.

We are really seeking couples at clubs however not succeed yet.

I now prefer lockable rooms with people viewing from outside.

God only knows what it must be like at a greedy girls night.

The desperation of some men is a worry

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That’s why we like LB, the ratio of men to couples/singles (yes, single women there on an Friday) is controlled. The management regularly patrol the public rooms to ensure situations don’t arise.

It works for us, we had a great time last weekend.

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