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"I just simplify it. You are either straight. Bi or gay. How you play in that category is upto the person. " I'd agree with this comment. There are straight people who won't kiss on meets. It's all down to the individual. | |||
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"I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are. I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that. " I'd class that as hetexible, I'd put myself in that category too. Mrs | |||
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"Looks like they need to add some more options to clarify. I'd agree with comment above if you include kissing men that's gay. I don't fancy men but in certain situations / positions in a 3 some it would be hot to suck on her and him. Fucking a bloke or sucking to put on a show isn't as appealing as all 3 being involved is. Kissing men doesn't make you gay if you're still attracted to women? It makes you bi? In fact I'd say sucking a guy makes you more bi than kissing a guy but that's just me lol " Interesting perspective. I only kiss people I fancy so I wouldn't kiss all women. But blokes is a definite no. | |||
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"No idea why the emoji appeared hetro flexible is what I was trying to say." Lol I got the general idea. My flexibility came from feeling that fuck licking as it seems to have been named is very appealing. | |||
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"How about people stop putting labels on each other. Sex isn't a straight line or two-dimensional. Just do what your comfortable with and what you enjoy and stop worrying what box society says you should be in." The problem for single guys is that couples are very specific about what they want so won't even look at you without the right clarification. Hence trying to get a measure for what's what. | |||
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"I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are. I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that. " Totally agree. To us “curious” means not yet sure, trying it out or want try it out. If you have had a few experiments and keep coming back for more than you are way past the “curious” stage. Labels are simultaneously useful and reductive. They help reduce the chance of a misunderstanding but to be truly helpful there needs to be more of them because people can be anywhere on a broad spectrum of preferences. | |||
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"I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are. I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that. Totally agree. To us “curious” means not yet sure, trying it out or want try it out. If you have had a few experiments and keep coming back for more than you are way past the “curious” stage. Labels are simultaneously useful and reductive. They help reduce the chance of a misunderstanding but to be truly helpful there needs to be more of them because people can be anywhere on a broad spectrum of preferences." Absolutely agree with this. | |||
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"I use the terms bicurious/hetexible because I'm still exploring but also because I'm not romantically interested in men." Me too | |||
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"I use the terms bicurious/hetexible because I'm still exploring but also because I'm not romantically interested in men." Me too | |||
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"Does fully bisexual mean kissing men ? As I'm not into that. But I assume that's what the term means hence I use bi curious." No, most of my messages or potential meets with guys we always discuss kissing. Not all bi guys do and find it a massive turn off. Same as not all bisexual guys or TV’s engage in anal sex. Previous comment about Bi Romantic comes across as something I’d agree with. | |||
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"Does fully bisexual mean kissing men ? As I'm not into that. But I assume that's what the term means hence I use bi curious." My view is that the moment you come into contact with another mans cock you lose the label of being bi curious and you become bisexual - whether you kiss or not. Again, just my view. | |||
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"Does fully bisexual mean kissing men ? As I'm not into that. But I assume that's what the term means hence I use bi curious. My view is that the moment you come into contact with another mans cock you lose the label of being bi curious and you become bisexual - whether you kiss or not. Again, just my view." Agreed | |||
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"Fully bisexual in my mind is I go all the way taking cock in my man pussy! Oh and kissing is an essential part of that too! If you don’t want to kiss the guy fucking you Why are you letting him fuck you " Kissing isn’t an issue, I love a tongue up my arse but don’t think I could take much more than a finger, dunno | |||
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"If a woman doesn't like taking Anal does that mean she is not fully hetrosexual? Of course not, that would be fucking idiotic! So why do so many people say I'm not fully bisexual because I'm 'top only' when it comes to anal?" Interesting point. In Arabic and North African cultures if you fuck (top), you're "straight", even if you fuck a man or a woman up the arse. If you're bottom and a man, you're gay. Kinda ties in with your point but the reverse. | |||
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"Sexuality is fluid. Why put yourself in a box Just be you " I like that attitude Tilly x | |||
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"I consider myself straight I'm not attracted to men in any way would never meet a guy alone it just doesn't interest me but in a group situation or a 3sum I have sucked cock and had mine sucked by a man sharing it with sue and vice versa so I put bi curious but there's some men I wouldn't suck the shape and size of thier cocks is the deciding point,strange I know but it works for us !" What works for you is cool by me | |||
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"As far as I'm concerned, any repeat sexual activity with someone of the same sex makes you bi. People flip it as "orally bi" on here but that's bollocks because I don't call my wife "orally bi" for licking pussy any more than i say im orally straight for just getting a bj or licking pussy. My wifes bi. Im.straight (not fab I'll lie about it straight). That's it. If you are bi you're bi regardless of if you engage in penetrative sex or not. Curious just means you want to explore it or have only dabbled a bit of curiosity. Honestly...people should just accept themselves for themselves and just be honest with themselves and others. Be so much easier." | |||
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"As far as I'm concerned, any repeat sexual activity with someone of the same sex makes you bi. People flip it as "orally bi" on here but that's bollocks because I don't call my wife "orally bi" for licking pussy any more than i say im orally straight for just getting a bj or licking pussy. My wifes bi. Im.straight (not fab I'll lie about it straight). That's it. If you are bi you're bi regardless of if you engage in penetrative sex or not. Curious just means you want to explore it or have only dabbled a bit of curiosity. Honestly...people should just accept themselves for themselves and just be honest with themselves and others. Be so much easier." Sorry hit the wrong button on phone . Ah but that's my predicament. As you can see everyone has their own version of what bi is so it's very difficult for us single men to know what to do. | |||
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"I use the term "fully bi" to mean orally and anally - and to both give and receive. Kissing is a bonus but not necessary." I classify as fully bi, but I've never had anal sex with a man. (I've only ever had anal sex with a woman once!) As for oral or masturbation with a man, I'm happy both ways. A lot of straight couples might not have anal sex but I'm sure they are still straight. I've been with a MF couple who didn't kiss. (Well they kissed each other but not me). I had a GF that would kiss the other woman, but not the guy. It's all a bit confusing isn't it! Gbat | |||
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