FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys profile, hard to meet

By *ikerb0y OP Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Any tips, new profile, I've messaged some ladies that really like to connect with but nothing, is it my profile, me or just over crowded on here with other males?

Any advice be really appreciated as I'd like to explore this life style.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

The site is two thirds single guys, if not more.

Factor that in with the fact not all couples and single ladies want to meet single guys and the reality is, youre playing a numbers game where the odds are stacked against you. Women and couples can get hundreds of messages a day. As such a lot of single guys just won't get meets on here. You have to ask yourself what makes you different from other guys on here.

You need to do extra leg work. Go to clubs or go to social events. Get yourself seen noticed and start networking. Relying purely on fab will.only get you so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very generic text

What makes you stand out. Write about that. As above poster says there are numerous men fir every lady / couple on here.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Any tips, new profile, I've messaged some ladies that really like to connect with but nothing, is it my profile, me or just over crowded on here with other males?

Any advice be really appreciated as I'd like to explore this life style."

The first thing that anyone looks at when they get a message is the profile. Yours is pretty poor compared to a lot on here.

Then of course as you correctly said the place is overcrowded with single guys looking for free sex, therefore ladies and couples get the choice of the very best.

Being blunt, there are guys on here who will just never get a meet.

And the warning? Total waste of time. Holds absolutely no value legally.

In fact some people will ignore you just because of that.

Presentation is everything.

Good luck.

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By *ikerb0y OP Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Thanks everyone so far, I find it hard to write about myself, big myself up hence poor content, I wouldn't know what to put and not a gym body just a normal down to earth guy.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone so far, I find it hard to write about myself, big myself up hence poor content, I wouldn't know what to put and not a gym body just a normal down to earth guy."

Then we would politely suggest that maybe this site isn't for you.

Without a decent bio you stand next to no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social and meet swingers there

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Any tips, new profile, I've messaged some ladies that really like to connect with but nothing, is it my profile, me or just over crowded on here with other males?

Any advice be really appreciated as I'd like to explore this life style."

Got to ask, do you actually think being a professional needs to be mentioned??

Does it make you look a better catch?

Just asking the question. Could it not be seen as a bit pretentious??

We guess you are still looking for advice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips, new profile, I've messaged some ladies that really like to connect with but nothing, is it my profile, me or just over crowded on here with other males?

Any advice be really appreciated as I'd like to explore this life style."

They are fun, friendly and social too… oh and the added bonus of if someone likes you enough you may have some other fun if your brave enough to venture wheee the rooms are darker. Haha

Do what I done… went to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know where the first line went?

Was supposed to say… go to a club

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By *elvetqueenukWoman
over a year ago

norwich

i would definately try and go to socials first, to meet new people off here to chat and get to know others, and others can get to know you, as behind screens its harder. And then yes, even though your nervous etc go to a club, and try and say hi to some people, don't leave it for others to come to you, and see how it goes.

and hope you give it time, be patient, message lots and yes look at others profiles, that have been verified from meets, to see what they have on their profiles to help you make yours better? x

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By *ikerb0y OP Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Thanks everyone great advice, much appreciated.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

For the love of fab lose the Christian grey crap! That alone would get you a deletion from me.

It’s a very template boring profile tells us NOTHING about you aside from what you look like facially.

Face pics are good but people will want to see body/torso pics too, show a little imagination guys can dress up, use different angles, lighting etc too. Personally I’m a sucker for a very smartly dressed guy, tailored suits, tux, the kilt, military uniform etc others like more rough and ready - but if that’s not you DON’T FAKE IT!

The bio needs to be MUCH more personalised.

Personal bugbear - are you actually a professional as in you have a graduate/post graduate profession or are you just trying to get across you’re in meaningful employment?

You need to say what you have to offer that hundreds even thousands of other guys don’t.

What are your skills, desires, interests? (Strongly suggest given the christian grey you DON’T Claim to be a knowledgeable/experienced dom!)

What do you enjoy existentially? Eg you say about going out to eat etc what cuisines do you enjoy? Such things can be good ice breakers and show a little personality.

You’ll get lost on here if you don’t make an effort to stand out.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone great advice, much appreciated."

What are your thoughts on being professional???

Still waiting for your answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a mooch around the site on lone make profiles that seem to do well? What are they offering? How do the stand out from the crowd? Obviously don't carbon copy, but think about what you're saying, offering too?

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