FabSwingers.com forum: How often?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we haven't met another couple since December. As a hotwife I met someone a month ago.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About once or twice a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies, either quite a few in a week or nothing for a month

Would love something regular though

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

It varies, some weeks I have 3 meets in a week, other times I can go 2-3 weeks between meets. Never more.

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By *areback_BullMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh and surrounding areas lol

Usually once a week but sometimes it’s 2 or 3, depending on how much work tires me out

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's v rare I meet at all nowadays ,I don't often find someone who ticks all the boxes.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Couple times a year normally

Hard to find time with everything else and obv have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now let’s see meet two amazing ladies off this site in the whole time been on here so not very often I’m afraid to say but have spoken to loads of amazing people in the forums so it’s all good

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I haven't even been close to getting a meet from 2019 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regulars weekly sometime many times over the week theres no limit its about how you feel and whats right for you ..not what others think

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"I haven't even been close to getting a meet from 2019 lol"

Maybe because your profile is hidden

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

I've met some lovely women on here that I've seen a few times.

The good ones are in relationships, with family or have demanding work lives (a nurse) so it's difficult to get to meet regularly

I retired early so have time on my hands and need regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still awaiting my first lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Its been a long time since i last met anyone from fab not because i cant find anyone but because ive not been looking to meet ,alot has been going on in life ..now settled down might just be the right time to get back to it

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Never had a chance to meet anyone yet, apart from a few very enjoyable coffee dates and one Fab social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting to see how people are using the site. I think I’ve been quite lucky with the people I’ve met all in all. Some terrible meets, of course.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We go to a club about once a month, sometimes we play with others, though often we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met more whilst I had a couple profile. I can't accomadate due to family back at home currently, and I don't drive... I'd say 'every so often?'. But depends on obviously the person/fit chat wise. I'm single, but view it as a letting my hair down once in a while occasion vs a regular thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't even been close to getting a meet from 2019 lol

Maybe because your profile is hidden "
that's what I thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on our mood and what else is going on in our lives. We sometimes go months without meeting anyone, especially if we’re going through a club place.

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It all depends on our mood and what else is going on in our lives. We sometimes go months without meeting anyone, especially if we’re going through a club place.

Viv"

*Phase not place

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I met a friend today and had a social last week but that is the first for a couple of months. I have however attended 2 parties and been to a club recently.

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have meet a few ladies on fab but lately none .to busy at present bricklaying .the trade as gone mad for extensions .

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Sadly no meets since before Covid.

Health issues hampering the chance of meets at the present time.

My age does not help

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

Since coming back to FAB I've only had 1 meet from here, but may have another this weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet pretty regularly depending on my availability. It's a mixed bag of social and play.

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

We message couples and get good feed back. They want to meet but they never do. So assume it’s all men and not a couple. As for adding a lady to our enjoyment, well that is also a non starter lol

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We'd like to do one meet per week, but what with Char's health issues and then half the guys not turning up, we're lucky if we do two per month.

(Bry)

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

Probably 2 - 3 times a year.

Fyi. I'm in Plymouth and well overdue a meet lol.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We've met 3 nw couples through fab this year. That's it.

Every other meet has been at the club or a repeat meet.

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By *ruz41Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m new to FAB and I have only had single men give me a shout. I like to play with lady’s or couples, so no luck as of yet

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I’m new to FAB and I have only had single men give me a shout. I like to play with lady’s or couples, so no luck as of yet

Five weeks is nothing. You've not asked for profile help so can't give it....but would you meet you?

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet quite regularly. Once or twice a week. However I’m much more fussy post-covid. Nothing to do with the virus - just for some reason I’ve become more reserved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t put a time on things they usually progress naturally

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By *rinceandPrincess2000Couple
over a year ago

this one

[Removed by poster at 11/08/22 17:24:37]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies but usually once a month sometimes more.

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By *rinceandPrincess2000Couple
over a year ago

this one

"I’m new to FAB and I have only had single men give me a shout. I like to play with lady’s or couples, so no luck as of yet

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yet you have a recent verification from a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not met anyone since rejoining… I’m very picky though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's v rare I meet at all nowadays ,I don't often find someone who ticks all the boxes."

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? "
you are a lucky lady x

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By *rinceandPrincess2000Couple
over a year ago

this one

"It's v rare I meet at all nowadays ,I don't often find someone who ticks all the boxes.

Same! "

Nothing wrong with picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a wee novice and only had one meet

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Not often enough!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's v rare I meet at all nowadays ,I don't often find someone who ticks all the boxes.

Same!

Nothing wrong with picky "

I wouldn’t have it any other way

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

depends sometimes once a month other times 3/4 in a week. life and other things get in the way with a mixture of new and regular couples and friends.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I haven't met anyone for a social or for a naughty meet in over a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been on much lately so not one as of yet

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We have 2 regular fwb away from fab... as for our last social meet it was back in April at the Manchester social, our last meet from fab that ended up in the bedroom was way back in February

(it is rather slow and thin on the ground around our area)

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We go out maybe 10 to12 times a year, playing 3/5 times, out of that,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that often these days as no longer seeing regular fbs. Started going to a club now as difficult to accommodate in the summer (no not in relationships). However have a meet arranged tonight, let's see if they show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meet every sat and usually play once a week from fab. Not enough time for much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet in clubs now. Anyone that I want to meet on fab is welcome to come to a club to come and have a drink and a chat there. If they don’t turn up it’s not a problem as there are others there already usually….

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I was averaging about one a month, but going through a bit of a dry spell at the moment, just can't find people I really click with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met in clubs, and a had a few social, and one meet with someone I already knew.

Haven’t done much since covid though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People meet? Lol

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"People meet? Lol"

Yep. We had a guy wink at us three days ago...we messaged him, short chat, mlhe and Char fucked last night. People meet

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me. I've got a couple of people where there seems to be a mutual desire to meet, but this time around I have no intentions of meeting anyone, I don't fancy, who there is some kind of connection/spark or whatever and isn't demanding and needy from the off.

I'm not at all bothered what anyone else thinks either

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By *ruz41Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have re done my profile an it was not written very well. What do you think?

Thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet when I have needs to be met. Pre covid that was probably twice a year with occasional trips to a local club in between but I’ve only had the one play meet and a few socials since covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does not matter how often you meet but suspect it is easy for meets for women young fit guys as opposed to a male with a CD profile.

End of day as long as no one is harmed, live your life as you wish. Ya only get one

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? "

3 times this year.

Not for lack of trying either. We don't meet single guys, just couples and women. Unfortunetly it's been a dead zone in our area for ages and we can't travel too far from home.

However we do do clubs and obviously still meet old freinds.

So there is that.

No idea how much of a factor it is

but we are not always available as a couple due to work but we can put a meet request up a week in advance for either the pair of us or just one of us and still get nothing.

And we know we are not alone either. Other local couples are saying similar things. No one is meeting outside of.clhbs and the only interest is single guys...which isnt their thing either.

Just how fab is. Expected it to have improved by now (be like it was pre lockdown) but maybe this is the new normal.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

The women im always connected too are ridiculous amounts of miles away.

Been on and off here for a while. Not met one.

Must be my bog brush hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I meet my friendly couple every 10 to 14 days; the husband and I get together maybe once a mo th for men only fun, and I meet single guys maybe every two months to see if there's any out we would like to include in our gatherings.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Things aren't going so well for me. I probably spend too much time on fab, sending messages, having the the conversation and trying to arrange a meet.

I probably have a meet a year if I'm lucky.

Desperate times call for desperate measures so I've reverted to even trying dogging and even that hasn't gone well for me lol.

I keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies tbh last week I had 4 meets (1 solo & 3 with my partner there as well, we play together & alone )

Might not play now for a few weeks. Just depends

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I used to meet a lovely friend every so often, which was pure bliss, but I haven't had a meet in six or seven years now... not great really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any meets yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? "

Alright alright don’t rub it in;)

Jokes x

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Met a few, but that was a while back.

Chat mostly now .

But no matter how often it is never enough .

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Once a year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started using fab it was once a week at least but now I'm lucky if it's once a month

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By *limeyoMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

When I lived in Yorkshire it was fairly regularly

Moved to Shropshire and it’s been once lol

The sheep are getting more and more tempting

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By *ietsenmakerMan
over a year ago

Hartford

Pre covid it was at least once a week...just back on the horse now ..we try and meet every 2 weeks ( work & life get in the way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m right out in sticks and don’t have any local regulars as they live south of the border

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Once a month, on average. Would love to meet more often but life gets in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I aim for once/twice a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aim for once/twice a year."

Didn’t get that over covid time

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

As an oldie, only a couple of meets so far, been stood up and blocked few times sadly!

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Things aren't going so well for me. I probably spend too much time on fab, sending messages, having the the conversation and trying to arrange a meet.

I probably have a meet a year if I'm lucky.

Desperate times call for desperate measures so I've reverted to even trying dogging and even that hasn't gone well for me lol.

I keep trying

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I know the feeling well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aim for once/twice a year.

Didn’t get that over covid time

Yeah I value my health over sex aswell.

Shocking behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy of a certain age not very often sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a local FWB so we meet regularly other than that I’m open to meeting others

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Once a week so far, still new on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an oldie, only a couple of meets so far, been stood up and blocked few times sadly! "

Welcome to my world !

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I'd like to have meets everyday. Generally once or twice a week though

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Sometimes life is really busy and I can't meet for a few weeks, other times I have a few meetings in a week.

Works out at about 4 meetings per week on average.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It's like buses, I've gone through periods of inactivity and then had multiple meets the same week.

If you want to meet more people, my top tip is to visit a club or find a social organised in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any meets, either social or sexual

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

If I go by an average over the duration of time I've been on Fab, it's approximately 1 meet every 10 months.

Some profiles simply aren't appealing enough and sadly for me I fall into that category. I'm on the same ship as many other single guys

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

For the guys that dont get many meets from fab...

Do you try to talk to women? When you say once a month is it you doing putting in the effort or them?

Im curious, on sites like that i usually wait as the women must be bombarded and it must get boring.

Suppose im asking should i do more to try and get in there or do you get better results waiting?

Rejection issues

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"For the guys that dont get many meets from fab...

Do you try to talk to women? When you say once a month is it you doing putting in the effort or them?

Im curious, on sites like that i usually wait as the women must be bombarded and it must get boring.

Suppose im asking should i do more to try and get in there or do you get better results waiting?

Rejection issues

Dude! My lack of social and or sexual meets are nothing to do with lack of effort. I spend hours on this site every week.

The messages I send are often lengthy enough, relevant and include face and body pics.

I'd like to think that women and couples are rejecting me for my looks and compatibility rather than my messaging efforts

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