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Couples- who does the Fabmin on your account?

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Mr here and I do the vast majority. Who does yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr here and I do the vast majority. Who does yours? "

I (max) do the forums as I find them great fun. Chesty does the majority of the messaging. but we both read everything

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I (Mr T) do all the Fabmin…Mrs T gets very frustrated with the site. She does read all messages etc, but it’s pretty much always me responding

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here.

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here."

A man after my own heart. Can we go for a beer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me the Mrs runs the page and fabs but hubby posts now and then and sometimes in the forums

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

80% of the time it's myself (mrs) Mr will always announce on our updates when it's him on fab (usually when im on nights)

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe."

Totally agree. We had the same on Swinging Heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe.

Totally agree. We had the same on Swinging Heaven "

Is it any good on there?? Or is it rubbish?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We both generally do, I (Mrs) tend to be the one to reply to messages etc, but we both enjoy the forums, fab, wink etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both look equally but I (Mrs) do most of the chatting and organizing because hubby works long hours

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By *evonNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

torquay

Mrs here, I do all the fabmin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here."

Yeap same for us, but it is amazing how many guys think that it must be the women on the account.

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By *avidanneCouple
over a year ago

bristol

David here does all the fabmin and that includes verifying people over a call

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

That's mainly me on the couples account. She likes a simple life. Although verifications and the bulk of messages we do together (hence our reply time can be very slow).

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I (Mr Brum) do most of the message replying and fabbing. Only because Mrs Brum is s little slow responding to messages etc. but we both view profile and read messages before I respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr does most, wife would of closed account by now if she did it due to the irritating single guys!

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It's shared 50/50 for us depending what we feel like.

She set up the account originally and she also has single account whilst I only use this one.

I am sure sometimes people think this account is fake as the pictures are obvious that both are accounts are same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr does most, wife would of closed account by now if she did it due to the irritating single guys! "

Same and very true.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m not even a couple

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

75% of the time it's (Pete)

Sam does the other 25% when she comes on to use the chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60% Pepsi 40% Max 0% Sugar

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

I do majority of the stuff and now she's her own single account

Sissy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr W&W does 99% of ours. I pop up on forums now and again , like now and you'll occasionally see me in chatrooms .

S xx

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

[Removed by poster at 08/08/22 20:19:54]

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here.

Yeap same for us, but it is amazing how many guys think that it must be the women on the account."

That's strange because I'm obviously a SF lol I always assume and most time I'm right by way chat goes I'm talking to the male half of the couple...BUT I never think to ask till a few messages later haha ... AND couples never seem to tell you who you are chatting with.

The actual worst ones are when they do actually both run the account and both chat but don't tell you when they have swapped over lol ... it can get very confusing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here , I mainly do the chatting on here but Mrs is aware of everything , and we normally sign each message to prevent any confusion

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Mostly Mr unless wife has something planned.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Mrs N here. I usually reply to the messages. Mr N uploads the photos and naughty videos x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i mrs .. pretty much run the account after all hes cuck i get to choose who i fuck ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great that we have a couples profile that we can both access (either at the same time or whenever one of us feels like it). we don't have to keep updating eachother as we can easily just see, so that's a definite good thing. HOWEVER..... IF one of us might want to write something that they might not really want the other to read then it can feel a little restricted.

NOT meaning things that are outside of our relationship boundaries like flirting or anything like that. Neither of us would do that.

Meant things like sharing thoughts on insecurities or past experiences, on forum subjects for example.

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By *enAndReginaCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just myself (Ken) does all the admin.

But most if jot all the pics are Regina most of the time.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

It’s all me (Lola)

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We take turns doing it, each of us can have higher levels of interest for dealing with messages etc

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Mr does but only replies after her approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) do all the admin but hubster does catch up with messages

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Mr does but mrs aware of all. She’s not been feeling the vibe lately but slowly getting her mojo back!

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By *lmcCouple
over a year ago

leicester

We both do but Mrs is a lot quicker so gets through messages quicker

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We both do but we try to sign off with our name so people know who they’re chatting with.

I can go days without logging on though, my husband tends to log on regularly but doesn’t read/respond to most of the messages from men as he just assumes they’re intended for me.

Lou x

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I (f) do everything. The hubby only comes on to check out and approve potential meets

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By *urvyD-and-J2Couple
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

male half here wear both Cheek and reply to messages on I'm in more of the time but wife also looks most days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male half deals with most the messages.

Blocking wise. Both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr does most, wife would of closed account by now if she did it due to the irritating single guys! "

Totally this!

MrJ OK KJ (me) is who posts on the forum and I also 90% of the Fabmin especially single guys.

K (Mrs KJ) will often chat to single ladies when those chats arise.

I can't imagine how many new single women make a sharp exit on this site due to some of the vulgar messages they receive. Considering there's 100 men to every 1 lady some guys really are there own worst enemy. In fact I think some of the nasty incel types do it deliberately tbh. The whole I can't have her so I'll spoil it for others mentality.

KJ

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

I do the majority (mr), keeps the clowns at arms length, we both read all the suitable messages and respond as one though.

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By *eardedandcurvyCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Mr here. As curvy doesn’t reply to my messages so getting her to reply on here won’t happen

She always reads everything and we always agree on meets and who we chat to

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport

Mr does most of it because he’s been on the scene before and knows the ropes. I do dip in sometimes, but it can be tiresome and frustrating when people aren’t as straightforward as we would like

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Interesting to see the variance. I usually assume it is the male half of an MF couple doing the bulk of the admin, and thus, messaging. But i do make a point of asking in the first instance.

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

It's fairly even with us, depends on what's happening.

Mrs deals with pretty much all the pics now, but we both reply to messages depending who's seen, it does sometimes result in a double reply.

I work away so she deals with everything when I'm gone.

Mr

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I do the messaging until it.goes to kik when she likes the face pics and then it's all her. 100% no.input from me - male

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We both do it depending on how we're feeling, and don't always tell each other when we've been messaging, this can be very entertaining K

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I (Bry) do everything on here. Char has her own, but she's lost interest in that due to the constant "hi" messages and lack of effort from guys.

It doesn't really work as I always feel that people think I'm a single guy hiding behind a couples profile, and our "HotWife" dynamic ends up far more "Stag/Vixen" than I'd like.

(Bry)

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe.

Totally agree. We had the same on Swinging Heaven

Is it any good on there?? Or is it rubbish?"

We had an account on there too, after 3 no shows we walked away. I called one out in chat and ended up getting a 24 hour ban - we never went back

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"Mr does most, wife would of closed account by now if she did it due to the irritating single guys! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr does it all, Mrs gave it a go but found it too overwhelming and took the edge off the fun.

That and the fact she's too polite so would reply and keep replying to anyone and everyone.

That then led people to believe they might be onto something.

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By *M_darksideCouple
over a year ago

Worksop

Mr does the Mail and vets them for me to view. We both do the forums as we find them great fun.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Our secretary does ours for us.

The butler proof reads it before it gets posted.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

We both do ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly me (Miss B) but Mr is actively on here. I do the majority of messaging and filtering through some of the stranger profiles on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do (nikki). Damien will do it but very rarely x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

On our couple's profile it's me that does it, but we mainly enjoy the forums together

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By *entlydoesit13Couple
over a year ago

newhaven

I do mostly (Mr). Mrs browses and messages but mainly me on the forum

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By *estwirralcoupleCouple
over a year ago

NW England

We’re probably 70% Mr online, Mrs mainly at weekends

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By * and G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

London


"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here."

Exactly the same here.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Vixen does the messaging but hound is always having a look... just that I have a bit more time on my hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although usually its only one of us at a time: reading/replying/messaging/

posting on Fab, we do try to remember to say who it is that's typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(Sin) do the forum chats & general messaging, but Boss is usually with me for the chats or aware of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both split the admin on here Mr does the forum work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it because she hasn’t the patience for all the fab bollocks.

I filter and point out anything she may be interested in.

She’ll do her own hotlist every now and again though. "

Same as us, except other way round. Zac isn't particularly interested in the forum's or light chit chat, he prefers to just dip in & out occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flysome - Totally think you're profile is awesome.

Sincerely intended as an honest compliment, not in a letchy way at all.

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By *ewClubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ms here, I do all the work and Mr can just log in to perv on the messages when he feels like it haha

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Mr 95% I don't have the patience to hunt the illusive male on many profile's or the same cock from a multitude of angle's!!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I (Jack) do almost all of ours. Alice is less and less interested in the site these days, but once the planning is done she's interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flysome - Totally think you're profile is awesome.

Sincerely intended as an honest compliment, not in a letchy way at all.

"

Thank you!

That’s very kind of you.

It’s our new profile after we got stalked on our last one.

Trying to build our verifications up again.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I (Mrs) use this 100% because Mr hasn’t the time really. Plus, it’s always my decision because of what we’re looking for. I tell him what he needs to know

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I (Mrs) use this 100% because Mr hasn’t the time really. Plus, it’s always my decision because of what we’re looking for. I tell him what he needs to know

"

You definitely wear the boots in that relationship x

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By *isa40Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Mr does most of the messages, I will reply every now and then, or once I get comfortable around the people we are chatting to, but read them all.

Both post of forums.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mr here and I do most of the Fabmin for us

It's always funny that people get pissy when only one of the couple messages...

C x

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

G is responsible for forum nonsense.

Ella is responsible for turning off the single male filter and waiting to see G's response....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs BB does ours. Mr BB occasionally comments in the forums

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