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By *hérie OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Wales

Hello all.

As I am new to this scene, I have had so many different thoughts.

I was wondering if you had any kind of rules.

Such as how many times you would be willing to meet the same person.

Or just go with the flow and see how it goes.

Any newbie 'golden rules' would be appreciated.

Have fun Fabstars.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Welcome and enjoy.

You make your rules, you are in charge of you and your expectations...

Have fun x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Golden rule for a single female..... filters x

They are your best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different things work for different people so you have to find what's right for you x we have regular meets as well as one offs, neither are better or worse ( however we do find more confidence with a regular ) we also tend to go with the flow but we have learnt to chat to the people first get to know them it s out the unsuitables lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome, set your own rules and boundaries, you can always tweak them from time to time.

Have fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello the best rule you can have is if it feels wrong don't go ahead, stick with that one and allow experience to inform your decisions about any others. Have a great time here and stay safe.

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By *hérie OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Wales

Thank you everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say a golden rule for anyone new is to always procede with extreme caution, u will encounter many an oddity on here.. but as u progress u learn and learn how to deal with certain situations.. but always be safe! always assume the person ur talking to is a stalker or murderer until u know better

so for meets, meet publically if alone, etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all.

As I am new to this scene, I have had so many different thoughts.

I was wondering if you had any kind of rules.

Such as how many times you would be willing to meet the same person.

Or just go with the flow and see how it goes.

Any newbie 'golden rules' would be appreciated.

Have fun Fabstars.

"

Set your rules in stone, then don't feel bad when you break them immediately, as you'll be in good company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello and welcome, set your own rules and boundaries, you can always tweak them from time to time.

Have fun "

Very good advice. This is what we have done over the years. Some rules we would never change but some we have decided to get rid of or change slightly.

Everyone is different and we have found that with experience our boundries and rules have changed.

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