FabSwingers.com forum: What makes the perfect profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm fairly new and comparatively I am just getting started. I was wondering, in your opinion what makes the perfect profile for someone when you check it after receiving a message? What is it you look for to know that this is someone that's your type and worth your time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be really clear with what you’re looking for and what you’re interested in, good variety of pictures too

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What will be perfect for one viewer will be imperfect for the next.

There's no such thing as one size fits all.

As long as it's a true reflection of you, is consistent across bio and pics and not a box ticking exercise trying to keep everyone else happy then it's perfect.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Honesty

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Good picture a well written bio

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Good pics, well written bio, set age range (set to 18 - 99yo is always a put off)

State what your looking for what you can offer, not 100 cock pics and your all good.

Mrs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Whatever you think represents you best and captures your essence…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There no one size fits all here as everyone is different so just make n honest profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good pics, well written bio, set age range (set to 18 - 99yo is always a put off)

State what your looking for what you can offer, not 100 cock pics and your all good.

Mrs "

This…..

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No such thing as everyone looking for different things.

Generally speaking :

A well written personalised bio, don’t try and appeal to everyone and be honest what speaks to you

Variety of well taken pics, not just cock pics, use some imagination.

Can accommodate and travel

Has considered age range

Hasn’t just ticked all the boxes in the likes section

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There is no perfect profile .. only ones that appeal to YOU and ones that dont .. everyone has a different idea of what they like and dont

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

"What will be perfect for one viewer will be imperfect for the next.

There's no such thing as one size fits all.

As long as it's a true reflection of you, is consistent across bio and pics and not a box ticking exercise trying to keep everyone else happy then it's perfect. "

Exactly this! In this world you can’t please everyone! So be clear and be you!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"So I'm fairly new and comparatively I am just getting started. I was wondering, in your opinion what makes the perfect profile for someone when you check it after receiving a message? What is it you look for to know that this is someone that's your type and worth your time?"

One that you can read back and say:

"Yeah, that sounds like me and if it wasn't I'd like to meet this person"

It doesn't really matter what others think, as long as you are happy. If you target it for them, you are targeting the wrong people.

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Review your second paragraph.

Last paragraph, remove the watersports your not for me.

Instead, put what you want to do.

And maybe add a line, I'm not into water sports. Remove the bit saying, your not for me.

Looks good though

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"Good pics, well written bio, set age range (set to 18 - 99yo is always a put off)

State what your looking for what you can offer, not 100 cock pics and your all good.

Mrs "

Aha. I just changed our age range to that. I better change it to 18-98, and cover up.

I'm sure there is a fine science to creating a perfect profile. But much to do with this site I think is putting a lot of hours in at particular times to catch attention.

status: Online is probably one of the key parts of a profile.

The cock thing is a double edged sword. Profiles where there is no cock pic, or the guy is covering his crotch is a red flag to us (unfortunately I'm on the big end of the spectrum). For others a any photo that happens to reveal a cock is a red flag for them.

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

I think I may conduct a social experiment and remove all the male pics on this couple profile.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

We like a profile to have something written... rather than just 'fill in later'... Try and show personality.. And yes, a good range of recent pictures.. (Not from 2012)

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By *orfolk777Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Honesty "

You can be as honest as you like on here and everyone still thinks you’re lieing

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"Honesty

You can be as honest as you like on here and everyone still thinks you’re lieing"

Too good to be true syndrome. A consequence of people being scammed too many times

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

A clear bio that gives the reader a idea if what the person in question is looking for and a good variety of tastefully taken pics

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Good pics, well written bio, set age range (set to 18 - 99yo is always a put off)

State what your looking for what you can offer, not 100 cock pics and your all good.

Mrs

Aha. I just changed our age range to that. I better change it to 18-98, and cover up.

I'm sure there is a fine science to creating a perfect profile. But much to do with this site I think is putting a lot of hours in at particular times to catch attention.

status: Online is probably one of the key parts of a profile.

Really? I'm suprised by that tbh.

You can't ask 'not' to see a cock upfront if it's on the profile, but if it's hidden and you like the rest of the profile you can always ask to see it.

I guess if the most /only important thing to you is the penis then that is what you'd want.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I think I may conduct a social experiment and remove all the male pics on this couple profile. "

I think having pics of the male is a good thing.

I wouldn't contemplate meeting a couple if I've not got even the slightest idea of what both of the couple look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Detailed bio. Face pic you're at least willing to send if not in public gallery. Dont have tons of cock pics. Be nice. Also stating you're vwe or what you can do will turn off so many folks.

But it's not all just about your profile. It's also how you interact with others on here. Get to know people better and you may get a better response to messages. Also learn that no means No.

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"Good pics, well written bio, set age range (set to 18 - 99yo is always a put off)

State what your looking for what you can offer, not 100 cock pics and your all good.

Mrs

Aha. I just changed our age range to that. I better change it to 18-98, and cover up.

I'm sure there is a fine science to creating a perfect profile. But much to do with this site I think is putting a lot of hours in at particular times to catch attention.

status: Online is probably one of the key parts of a profile.

Really? I'm suprised by that tbh.

You can't ask 'not' to see a cock upfront if it's on the profile, but if it's hidden and you like the rest of the profile you can always ask to see it.

I guess if the most /only important thing to you is the penis then that is what you'd want."

Well, I just checked out your profile

, correct me if I'm wrong but you don't have a single photo publicly revealing your penis (sorry, I mean cock. Mr Saurus :D), and you've done not too bad judging by your veris.

Come to think of it, I've been more successful in real life and on other sites (forums/sperm donor sites) when people did not know anything about my penis, or even body, just my face & content I write. A married woman at work approached me, and there is no way she knew my penis size or body definition. We had more sexual meet ups than I had with most swingers. She had a very curvy body to boot, and had a thing for Black guys.

Maybe some want to see a cock/fit body. But I think it's probably a waste of time and energy to show these to people (at least publicly).

I was initially of the thought: Show people everything, so they know for sure what they're getting, no awkward surprises upon meet, and saves time when people are scanning profiles, not having to message each one and say "can I see your dick/body/face". As we had been fake-dick/fake body pic deceived too many times. But now I'm thinking less is more.

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"Detailed bio. Face pic you're at least willing to send if not in public gallery. Dont have tons of cock pics. Be nice. Also stating you're vwe or what you can do will turn off so many folks.

But it's not all just about your profile. It's also how you interact with others on here. Get to know people better and you may get a better response to messages. Also learn that no means No."

I'm never putting my face on a publicly searchable website (funnily enough I recall seeing a Facebook friend recommendation from someone we had met up with. His profile pic had fabswingers watermark on it. I don't think he realised lol).

What comes first? Getting to know people better, or getting someone to respond to messages. No response = Not interested. The forum, webcam, parties, or socials is probably the only ways this can be achieved. Perhaps this is what others do?

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Read other people's profiles and borrow with pride as long as it's applicable to you. You'll see some great examples and some awful examples.

But whatever you write will never be perfect. Some will love what others hate.

Happy fabbing,

Gbat

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Good pics, well written bio, set age range (set to 18 - 99yo is always a put off)

State what your looking for what you can offer, not 100 cock pics and your all good.

Mrs

Aha. I just changed our age range to that. I better change it to 18-98, and cover up.

I'm sure there is a fine science to creating a perfect profile. But much to do with this site I think is putting a lot of hours in at particular times to catch attention.

status: Online is probably one of the key parts of a profile.

Really? I'm suprised by that tbh.

You can't ask 'not' to see a cock upfront if it's on the profile, but if it's hidden and you like the rest of the profile you can always ask to see it.

I guess if the most /only important thing to you is the penis then that is what you'd want.

Well, I just checked out your profile

, correct me if I'm wrong but you don't have a single photo publicly revealing your penis (sorry, I mean cock. Mr Saurus :D), and you've done not too bad judging by your veris.

Maybe some want to see a cock/fit body. But I think it's probably a waste of time and energy to show these to people (at least publicly).

You're correct. No cock photos, just some teasing ones and I don't do too bad thanks

Tbh, most veris are from social events and clubs, but that's what I enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Originality

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

"But now I'm thinking less is more.

You're correct. No cock photos, just some teasing ones and I don't do too bad thanks

Tbh, most veris are from social events and clubs, but that's what I enjoy. "

Updated. Thanks.

Trust me I'm too original. So much so that I usually miss what everyone else sees. So I think copying other profiles works better.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No such thing as a perfect profile.perfect to who,as everyone has different tastes

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Being genuine. And no writing that you are genuine is not it. You need to demonstrate it and be yourself. Would be wrong to advise on how to create attractive but fake profile which doesnt reflect who you are.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Honesty "

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