FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I regularly see that it is desirable to have verifications. Which are important? Photo verification, cam verification, meeting verification or all of these?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on what you're looking for

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm only interested in meet verifications and even those can be faked for an hour over coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not overly bothered about verifications. I’ve met people and had 2 prev meets offer to verify and said no to both!

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"I'm only interested in meet verifications and even those can be faked for an hour over coffee. "

"An hour over coffee" meet is still a meet- the person/people turned up, didn't they? Not all meets are purely sexual, therefore not all verifications need to be.

To answer the OP: meet verifications are better than just photo veris, as they mean the person/people in question turned up.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm only interested in meet verifications and even those can be faked for an hour over coffee.

"An hour over coffee" meet is still a meet- the person/people turned up, didn't they? Not all meets are purely sexual, therefore not all verifications need to be.

To answer the OP: meet verifications are better than just photo veris, as they mean the person/people in question turned up. "

I'm not talking about sexual verifications. I've never given one and won't accept one.

You can verify someone as real over coffee and they turn out to be completely different people immediately afterwards.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"I'm only interested in meet verifications and even those can be faked for an hour over coffee.

"An hour over coffee" meet is still a meet- the person/people turned up, didn't they? Not all meets are purely sexual, therefore not all verifications need to be.

To answer the OP: meet verifications are better than just photo veris, as they mean the person/people in question turned up.

I'm not talking about sexual verifications. I've never given one and won't accept one.

You can verify someone as real over coffee and they turn out to be completely different people immediately afterwards.

You are still missing my point- the person/people made an effort, turned up to a (coffee or whatever) meet when they could have just not bother. This certainly deserves a verification and it wouldn't be a fake one, no matter what happened later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always wary of ‘female’ profiles that aren’t photo verified but are verified by meet. But when you click the men that have verified them they’re nearly always only verified by one person… her!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm only interested in meet verifications and even those can be faked for an hour over coffee.

"An hour over coffee" meet is still a meet- the person/people turned up, didn't they? Not all meets are purely sexual, therefore not all verifications need to be.

To answer the OP: meet verifications are better than just photo veris, as they mean the person/people in question turned up.

I'm not talking about sexual verifications. I've never given one and won't accept one.

You can verify someone as real over coffee and they turn out to be completely different people immediately afterwards.

I think you are missing my point which is not to rely on verifications alone.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I regularly see that it is desirable to have verifications. Which are important? Photo verification, cam verification, meeting verification or all of these?"

To us they're not as important for Men as Couples and Women. Personally we only reply to Couples or Ladies who show genuine meet verifications. There's a lot of fake profiles with fake veris, so we're very cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only interested in meet verifications and even those can be faked for an hour over coffee.

"An hour over coffee" meet is still a meet- the person/people turned up, didn't they? Not all meets are purely sexual, therefore not all verifications need to be.

To answer the OP: meet verifications are better than just photo veris, as they mean the person/people in question turned up.

I'm not talking about sexual verifications. I've never given one and won't accept one.

You can verify someone as real over coffee and they turn out to be completely different people immediately afterwards.

This is the point. Verified by meet is to say they turned up.

It's not a trust pilot review of what the Sex was like. How they performed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean in reality nobody leaves a bad one do they? Or if they do then they just get hidden. Add in that it's based on personal opinion and it doesn't count for much at all. I mean if someoneeets someone without a facetime first, and then seems surprised if they don't look the same well fool on them

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Doesn’t bother me.

I always have a video call before hand to make sure they are who they say they are……

Not that I meet much out of clubs these days.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I regularly see that it is desirable to have verifications. Which are important? Photo verification, cam verification, meeting verification or all of these?"

You see people post that they want you to be verified, that they don't, that you have too few, or too many. I think on that front you probably just want to find your own balance.

What I can say, as an anecdote from personal experience, is that, as a male profile at least, you will get less attention if you are not verified than if you are and that meet verifications are best on that front.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Veris don't mean a lot. I've met some people who had none who were really nice and I've met some who have had veris who were borderline predatory and stalker like. So no I don't pay a lot of heed to veris at all. I go on my own gut instinct on here. Just because some has veris and show up to meets does not mean they are a safer option than those who have none.

The only time I use them is to stay away from people who certain people may have met cos I can't be dealing with the drama that follows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always wary of ‘female’ profiles that aren’t photo verified but are verified by meet. But when you click the men that have verified them they’re nearly always only verified by one person… her! "

You can't verify someone unless you're verified so that wouldn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to put some thought into it at the beginning of talking, probably a meet verification. But otherwise, I make up my own mind if they’re real or not.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Meeting. Gives you an idea that people will actually show up.

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By *ardAndWetCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

We prefer someone to be meet verified but again it doesn't always pan out

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I’m very unlikely to meet someone or people (outside of a club/party first) if they do not have any verifications by meet

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We would entertain accounts that are not verified in some manner. To many fakes, gawkers and people looking for wank material.

We will meet with people who are photo verified (everyone has to start somewhere) but we are a little wary. Had a few fakes to deal with on that front. I.e accounts that got verified as a couple but them somehow becomes just a single guy.

Then again, we've also had well verified people completely misrepresent themselves but that is rare also.

Just gotta use common sense i guess. For the most part though, a few good meet veris, especially social ones usually mean they're on the level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather see meet verifications than cam

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

We want to see verifications of meets and care about what is said and who gave the veri. Need to filter people some way and this is a good starting point. Doesn't mean everybody with no veris or just one or two is bad of course but swinging time is precious so try to focus on those with the highest likelihood of being fun.

This is especially true for us when it comes to inviting people to parties we arrange. We want people who we feel fairly confident will fit in and hopefully play. Veris are a good guide as to whether people just talk and dream (which is a lot of people when it comes to parties) or will actually turn up and hopefully join the fun. (And this applies to men, ladies and couples)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I regularly see that it is desirable to have verifications. Which are important? Photo verification, cam verification, meeting verification or all of these?"

Get photo verified by the site, I feel that proves your intent

Any face to face meet veri is important. When you do a veri, the final tab you click states ‘Verify genuine’……..this is all anyone needs to know! The person is genuine, and matches what you see in their profile, all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Load of b/s

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

That could be down to the fact there are just so few genuine solo females in here, who actually meet. A solo female can very easily rack up any number of meet veris in a very short space of time, compared to a ten-a-penny solo male…….

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