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Vanilla and kinky sex ratio

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I personally need more kink in my life but question to everyone, how much of each style do you get on a yearly basic? Kink 30 % vanilla 70%...sad times for me What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally need more kink in my life but question to everyone, how much of each style do you get on a yearly basic? Kink 30 % vanilla 70%...sad times for me What about you?"

Kink probably about 70-75% of the time tbh

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By *ugarandTexCouple
over a year ago

leicester

But what would you quantify as kink? We feel like some of our likes and things that we really like are filthy and kink but others would probably think and vanilla.

We love our kinks and they are ever evolving if you like it don’t over think it. We’ve added a few things to our bucket list and crossed a few off and love every second.

S xx

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"But what would you quantify as kink? We feel like some of our likes and things that we really like are filthy and kink but others would probably think and vanilla.

We love our kinks and they are ever evolving if you like it don’t over think it. We’ve added a few things to our bucket list and crossed a few off and love every second.

S xx"

Ok this is dictionary definition of vanilla sex: means it's any sex that does not involve things like: slapping, gripping, spitting, strangulation, hair pulling, biting, gagging, or domination/submission, consensual exchange of power, role playing, discipline, restraint, humiliation, or pain of any kind which is kinky sex.

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Ok this is dictionary definition of vanilla sex: means it's any sex that does not involve things like: slapping, gripping, spitting, strangulation, hair pulling, biting, gagging, or domination/submission, consensual exchange of power, role playing, discipline, restraint, humiliation, or pain of any kind which is kinky sex."

Using that definition probably 90% kink but it doesn't feel like it, just normal sex to us.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham


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Ok this is dictionary definition of vanilla sex: means it's any sex that does not involve things like: slapping, gripping, spitting, strangulation, hair pulling, biting, gagging, or domination/submission, consensual exchange of power, role playing, discipline, restraint, humiliation, or pain of any kind which is kinky sex."

So use of vegetables, fisting, dp, dogging, water sports, foot fetish, ddlg, exhibitionism, spit roasting, glory holes, pegging ... none of these is kinky? I think you need a new dictionary. No list will ever match the creativity of kinksters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ok this is dictionary definition of vanilla sex: means it's any sex that does not involve things like: slapping, gripping, spitting, strangulation, hair pulling, biting, gagging, or domination/submission, consensual exchange of power, role playing, discipline, restraint, humiliation, or pain of any kind which is kinky sex.

So use of vegetables, fisting, dp, dogging, water sports, foot fetish, ddlg, exhibitionism, spit roasting, glory holes, pegging ... none of these is kinky? I think you need a new dictionary. No list will ever match the creativity of kinksters. "

So if I am to take out every thing in the lists above then I would say 1% of my sex life is vanilla , but I would not say that I am kinky just enjoy a wider variety of sex. X

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