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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx" Unicorns are very rare even on fab? | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx" Over two thirds of the site is single guys. Out of the couples and single ladies left, many ladies don't meet couples for their own reasons. Those that do meet couples rarely meet newbie couples to pop their cherry. For mutlipe reasons, finding a single lady on Fab is hard. Really really hard. It's own made worse if you are a new couple to the scene. What if one of you freaks out? What if you treat them like a object rather than an equal. They are there for their fun as much as yours etc etc etc Try social events or go to a club on a couples and single ladies night. We've been swinging 25 years and finding a willing single lady has been like finding a needle in a haystack. Not impossible but takes a long time. Clubs and social events however, still not guaranteed but have had a lot of luck there. | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx" You want to have a threesome with a lady but she's not allowed to sleep with the male? So what will he be doing watching and wanking in a corner? | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx You want to have a threesome with a lady but she's not allowed to sleep with the male? So what will he be doing watching and wanking in a corner?" This is a bit of a deal breaker for me too. I'm not looking to 'put on a show' for anyone's husband. Add in if the lady is unexperienced with other ladies and that's a whole new level of concerns to add in. Nothing worse than her realising it isn't for her after all, or it being a totally one way street. | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx You want to have a threesome with a lady but she's not allowed to sleep with the male? So what will he be doing watching and wanking in a corner? This is a bit of a deal breaker for me too. I'm not looking to 'put on a show' for anyone's husband. Add in if the lady is unexperienced with other ladies and that's a whole new level of concerns to add in. Nothing worse than her realising it isn't for her after all, or it being a totally one way street. " That's the issue isn't it. You're as much there for yourself as them. Unfortunetly some couples have rules where one sits it out or what not and why would you put yourself in a position where it can go wrong. Just bad news all round. We on the other hand are all about the single lady and whatever she wants from it. Full insolvent of all 3 or other (the Joy's of being married to a bi sexual cuckquean). Dosent get us far on fab to be fair but we do OK at socials and clubs lol. So yeah, OP might want to change the game plan. | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx" not really a 3sum cherry if the guy isn't really involved. | |||
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" Try social events or go to a club on a couples and single ladies night. We've been swinging 25 years and finding a willing single lady has been like finding a needle in a haystack. Not impossible but takes a long time. Clubs and social events however, still not guaranteed but have had a lot of luck there." This is sound advice. You need to make friends in the lifestyle and connections. You do this via chats on kik, Fab, going to clubs and engaging with people and going to local socials. Once you make a few friends at socials or clubs your foot is in the door amd you'll find it leads to more connections and friends. Meeting a single female on Fab is super tough. Not impossible but you have such a great deal of competition that it will feel like it is. | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xxnot really a 3sum cherry if the guy isn't really involved. " Couldn't it be cuckolding situation with 2 women and the guy watches? I have many couples message me asking for ffm where the guy wants to see us perform but they don't seem to read my profile stating I'm not bi | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xxnot really a 3sum cherry if the guy isn't really involved. Couldn't it be cuckolding situation with 2 women and the guy watches? I have many couples message me asking for ffm where the guy wants to see us perform but they don't seem to read my profile stating I'm not bi" No...maybe? Looked into this ages ago and never got a headache. By old definitions and terminology, a cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife who is having sexual relations with another man. Just as the wife of an adulterous husband who is having sexual relations with another woman is a cuckquean. the terms themselves go back to the middle ages. used as far back as the 12th century. These days the use and meaning has changed. Now most definitions of a cuckold recognised it as a man who finds arousement in watching his girlfriend/wife having sex with another man. The key word here being "men". But if you where to meet a cuckquean couple, have sex with him whilst his wife watched that that would be a cuckqueaning situation. You would be cuckqueaning her. Unless she joined in then it becomes a threesome and then it gets weird in deifinition. So technically speaking, you cant cuckold him in the situation you describe because you're a woman. But you could cuckquean a woman because you are a woman. She couldnt be cuckqueaned if you where a guy having sex with her husband. And if you've gone cross eye'd and have a headache at this point, I don't blame you. It's all a bit gender specific in terminology and can be confusing. Broadly speaking, yes it would be a form of cuckoldry but it falls more into the area of voyeurism and there isn't a definition for a guy watching his wife with another woman other than "really happy and enjoying it". I joke but there isnt one in swinging terms "afaik". If there is it's not widely used and I've never heard it. Just to put that in perspective, all the husbands on Fab who enjoy posting or sharing nude pictures of their wives (or just stripping their wives off at clubs but no one else touching them...thats called Candaulism and very few know that term. It's a known kink that involves flashing your naked wife or images of your naked wife and has been around for centuries. But not once have I've ever seen any guy on fab refer to himself as a "candualist". | |||
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"Looking for advice as a newbie couple who are looking for a lady to pop our threesome cherry. We are a very solid couple but want to try something exciting and different. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated xx You want to have a threesome with a lady but she's not allowed to sleep with the male? So what will he be doing watching and wanking in a corner?" Think you have read that wrong. He will be involved, he just won't f**k the female. | |||
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