FabSwingers.com forum: Question for couples about swinging …. Of course. ;-)

By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Sex is always a good topic of conversation and I like to find out what makes people tick and I’m a nosey fucker

So question to couples …. Why do you like swinging?

Why do you like to see your partner getting fucked by someone else?

Look forward to hearing some of your answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is always a good topic of conversation and I like to find out what makes people tick and I’m a nosey fucker

So question to couples …. Why do you like swinging?

Why do you like to see your partner getting fucked by someone else?

Look forward to hearing some of your answers

We're not swingers as such. More poly tbh. And it's not I love seeing her get fucked it's that we love to develope a connection and bond between us all

Max

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Sex is always a good topic of conversation and I like to find out what makes people tick and I’m a nosey fucker

So question to couples …. Why do you like swinging?

Why do you like to see your partner getting fucked by someone else?

Look forward to hearing some of your answers

We're not swingers as such. More poly tbh. And it's not I love seeing her get fucked it's that we love to develope a connection and bond between us all

Max"

Thank you for replying

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Erm my guy brought me to this lifestyle x we enjoy chemistry and tease xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love how jealous it makes us feel and then the overwhelming desire to reconnect during or after

Its also so hot knowing how much others want to have their way with the other half

xxx

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Thanks for replying x

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Thanks for replying x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No longer part of a couple but, when I was, it was about the shared experience, the eroticism of it all and the fact it enabled us to explore sexual experiences that just weren't possible with just the two of us. The reclaim sex afterwards was also absolutely amazing.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we enjoy having sex with others and keeping it secret from friends and what away to spend a evening night better that sat in a pub watching darts lol

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

I’m here for the social/lifestyle side these days.

Sex is a fabulous happy bonus though x

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Thanks for your response, that's nearer to the reasons why we like it too x

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Definitely better than watching darts haha.

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We like the social side of it too, we only ever play at sex clubs but everytime we've been everyone is dead friendly and accepting. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the social side just as much as the sex, talking to likeminded people.

We love having something that's just for us.

We love seeing eachother enjoy other people together, just having sensual, hot, naughty fun

Miss S x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are lots of reasons.

Sex is something to be enjoyed and to indulge in. Society tries to tell us it should be monogamous. I (Luke) partly like the outrageousness of us having other people in our sex life.

Mostly I like it because it's indulgent. I love seeing Hannah enjoying sex and knowing we have such a good relationship that we can enjoy sex with other people without fear of damaging our relationship. In fact it makes me feel very close to her.

It is something we do together, like going on holiday or going to concerts. We actually had a threesome with a lady last night and it was very much something the three of us did together as equals. It wasn't more for one than another. We all gave each other orgasms. It was a shared experience. It was very bonding. I was looking at Hannah at Hannah and telling her how much I love her while I was having sex with our friend. It's kind of counterintuitive really, but it really heightened my feelings for the love if my life.

Also, Hannah is bisexual, and it's an opportunity for her to enjoy being with another woman. Being able to see these two beautiful women who are really into each other is a real privilege.

Those are my thoughts. I think Hannah feels much the same.

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"There are lots of reasons.

Sex is something to be enjoyed and to indulge in. Society tries to tell us it should be monogamous. I (Luke) partly like the outrageousness of us having other people in our sex life.

Also, Hannah is bisexual, and it's an opportunity for her to enjoy being with another woman. Being able to see these two beautiful women who are really into each other is a real privilege.

Those are my thoughts. I think Hannah feels much the same. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple that don’t get a lot of free time we like that it’s something we do together. Something just for us that nobody else knows about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree, there are some really fun and interesting people in the lifestyle

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By *witchedUpCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

We love meeting people and the social side is what kept us going when we were unsure at the beginning.

Now we love the relaxing feeling of being undressed at a club seeing the bodies and people having fun.

When it comes to the actual swinging we feel like it’s brought us closer trying this together.

It may sound strange but I think Pink looks so beautiful when we play with others and the stolen glances to each other and small touches during make it euphoric. X

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There are so many reasons why we have taken to the swinging lifestyle. Initially it was the excitement. The taboo feeling of naughtiness and exploring our sexuality together as a couple. That turned into something deeper. Discovering that we felt completely liberated when being around other swingers. People who share a non-monogomous lifestyle. That's why we now prefer clubs. The swinging community on the whole is filled with wonderful people that have far fewer hang ups than people in the vanilla world. Swingers often leave their judgement at the door. X

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

This essentially is us also, nail on the head!

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"We love meeting people and the social side is what kept us going when we were unsure at the beginning.

Now we love the relaxing feeling of being undressed at a club seeing the bodies and people having fun.

When it comes to the actual swinging we feel like it’s brought us closer trying this together.

It may sound strange but I think Pink looks so beautiful when we play with others and the stolen glances to each other and small touches during make it euphoric. X"

(Mark) think N looks beautiful when we play with others

, I love seeing her having fun and the looks we give each other during play, x

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

For us it's about being fully open with each other. We like sex, we like having sex with other people and this way we can. Mr is also bi and he can openly play with the men also lol

OWe can also have weird chats with our pants off friends that we can't really with our pants on friends

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Hubby loves seeing guys get worked up over me and us playing then having both guys focus on me is amazing . Makes us both very horny for each other after to xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We both like sex, I enjoy seeing him please another woman, it's like porn with my favourite person only better.

I've always been bicurious and we've been able to explore that together, it's a different level of trust and has made us much more open communication wise.

I love the social side it's great to chat to like-minded people and we've made some great friends.

Mrs

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"For us it's about being fully open with each other. We like sex, we like having sex with other people and this way we can. Mr is also bi and he can openly play with the men also lol

OWe can also have weird chats with our pants off friends that we can't really with our pants on friends"

Haha yes, we get the weird chats with pants off thing! X

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"We both like sex, I enjoy seeing him please another woman, it's like porn with my favourite person only better.

I've always been bicurious and we've been able to explore that together, it's a different level of trust and has made us much more open communication wise.

I love the social side it's great to chat to like-minded people and we've made some great friends.

Mrs "

Thanks for replying, we're just being nosey seeing what makes people tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us is the group sex be it MMF, MFF, MFMF or pure unadulterated orgies.

There's so many amazing sexual positions and experiences that are not possible between just a man and a woman. Swinger always me and K to shar ad indulge in these experiences for e.g fuck licking, DP, DVP, Spit Roast a lady ridings guys face and the other lady rides his cock and the ladies can kiss and embrace doing it.

When you add more variables in the case of swinging the combinations and possibilites become endless.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We both absolutely love sex and love the sexual possibilities that swinging can bring. I (James) love watching men fucking Isobel and I enjoy the variety of play and getting to play with other sexy, liberated women. We both love the social side and meeting and chatting to interesting people.

It definitely brings you closer together

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

He loves seeing me take as many cocks as I can. And, yes the answer is lots and always not enough. I love being shared! It turns me on knowing it's turning him on, watching me in action. Mr is always last in, and the claim back is second to none.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's difficult to explain! We've always been kinky, we love seeing each other play with others, it turns us on but can't explain why

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We wanted to add some extra to the routine.

Now swinging is our new routine and we need to slow it down.

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

For us is the group sex be it MMF, MFF, MFMF or pure unadulterated orgies.

When you add more variables in the case of swinging the combinations and possibilites become endless.

KJ"

Thanks for your input, we love lots of folk playing together too. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started off swinging as a couple. The sex was off the scale I just wanted more of him. I couldn't clone him so adding someone to the mix was the closest I was going to get

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I started off swinging as a couple. The sex was off the scale I just wanted more of him. I couldn't clone him so adding someone to the mix was the closest I was going to get

Haha OK cheers for responding

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"We wanted to add some extra to the routine.

Now swinging is our new routine and we need to slow it down. "

Cheers for responding

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"So question to couples …. Why do you like swinging?"

When we first got together Char was heavily into the kink scene. That does nothing much for me so I said that she ought to carry on with it. That developed into her asking if I'd like to join in or watch (not really) but that moved on to maybe I'd like to watch her fuck.

I have some issues with performance, especially in groups, so for me it's all about Char getting as much and as varied sex as she might want. I also get a big thrill out of knowing other people want her, and sort of sharing my favourite plaything with people.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wanted to experiment sexually , try some different things out. Wasnt sure the route it would take but 5 yrs later think we know what we like and have had amazing fun exploring and hopefuly will carry on doing so.

S&N xx

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"It's difficult to explain! We've always been kinky, we love seeing each other play with others, it turns us on but can't explain why

Thanks for replying x

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We both enjoy ourselves personally I love watching M letting herself go and having fun. Makes me appreciate what I have in her. When you have been together for such a long time there is a danger of not always seeing it.

Swinging really helps to see the other as a person not just mum and wife.

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"So question to couples …. Why do you like swinging?

(Bry)"

Thanks for your response, interesting reading x

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"We both enjoy ourselves personally I love watching M letting herself go and having fun. Makes me appreciate what I have in her. When you have been together for such a long time there is a danger of not always seeing it.

Swinging really helps to see the other as a person not just mum and wife. "

I also love watching N have fun too.

Thanks for replying.

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"There are so many reasons why we have taken to the swinging lifestyle. Initially it was the excitement. The taboo feeling of naughtiness and exploring our sexuality together as a couple. That turned into something deeper. Discovering that we felt completely liberated when being around other swingers. People who share a non-monogomous lifestyle. That's why we now prefer clubs. The swinging community on the whole is filled with wonderful people that have far fewer hang ups than people in the vanilla world. Swingers often leave their judgement at the door. X"

Thanks for your response, we've not been doing this very long but soon discovered that clubs is the way for us too x

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By *ervy wronguns OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"He loves seeing me take as many cocks as I can. And, yes the answer is lots and always not enough. I love being shared! It turns me on knowing it's turning him on, watching me in action. Mr is always last in, and the claim back is second to none. "

I also love sharing N, it's a massive turn on.

Thanks for the reply x

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