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"you shouldnt " people keep saying we won't reply to hellos and if you send a nice message they just delete you | |||
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"Why ? " I don't know. Why should you? | |||
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"are you absolutely sure that you have ticked all of their boxes? Are you definitely what they are looking for? " why would I send them a message with out reading the profile first they mite not be what I'm looking for | |||
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"I don't reply to messages if I'm not interested in the sender. It's not being rude, but I don't see the point in engaging in conversation if I'm not interested in someone; it's just a waste of my time and theirs and could raise false hopes. " is this another one of those moaning threads? wo is me...lets get the violins out lol | |||
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"Why ? " There is nothing wrong with short messages, but make sure u have a decent pic as ure avatar and an attractive reading profile to get a reply. In my experience long messages are just copy and paste material that is not worth reading. | |||
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"are you absolutely sure that you have ticked all of their boxes? Are you definitely what they are looking for? why would I send them a message with out reading the profile first they mite not be what I'm looking for " Because funnily enough, it happens. People like pictures and see that they are close by and send a message without actually reading what they are looking for. We have had messages asking for meets before now, despite the fact that we have NOT MEETING at the start of our profile. | |||
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"some people don't want to get caught up in conversations with people who they have no interest in. They feel that deleting and/or blocking will stop any further communication therefore not wasting anyone's time " they should just block | |||
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"I don't reply to messages if I'm not interested in the sender. It's not being rude, but I don't see the point in engaging in conversation if I'm not interested in someone; it's just a waste of my time and theirs and could raise false hopes. is this another one of those moaning threads? wo is me...lets get the violins out lol " as if anyone moans on here | |||
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"some people don't want to get caught up in conversations with people who they have no interest in. They feel that deleting and/or blocking will stop any further communication therefore not wasting anyone's time they should just block " after they have replied to you to say hi, how are you? And then you would be on here moaning that someone replied to you and then blocked you before you had a chance to respond | |||
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"Why ? There is nothing wrong with short messages, but make sure u have a decent pic as ure avatar and an attractive reading profile to get a reply. In my experience long messages are just copy and paste material that is not worth reading. " al send you a pic now you tell me if it a bad pic please | |||
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"The title to this thread is longer than most of the messages i get " | |||
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"I don't reply to messages if I'm not interested in the sender. It's not being rude, but I don't see the point in engaging in conversation if I'm not interested in someone; it's just a waste of my time and theirs and could raise false hopes. is this another one of those moaning threads? wo is me...lets get the violins out lol as if anyone moans on here " why you Evan getting involved if I'm boring you ??? | |||
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"The title to this thread is longer than most of the messages i get " | |||
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"is that justr shallow mayb if u did engage u mite find the person is in fact interesting and u may hav things in common... no?" im here for NSA.. yh shallow is the way it is.. i have to like the look of a person before finding out if there is any chemistry too.. i dont want to settle down with them so dont care that much about whats inside | |||
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"is that justr shallow mayb if u did engage u mite find the person is in fact interesting and u may hav things in common... no?" It may be shallow, but at the end of the day it's my choice who I engage with ands that's not every Tom, Dick & Harry who messages me | |||
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"I don't reply to messages if I'm not interested in the sender. It's not being rude, but I don't see the point in engaging in conversation if I'm not interested in someone; it's just a waste of my time and theirs and could raise false hopes. is this another one of those moaning threads? wo is me...lets get the violins out lol as if anyone moans on here why you Evan getting involved if I'm boring you ??? " cause works shit and im bored | |||
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"I don't reply to messages if I'm not interested in the sender. It's not being rude, but I don't see the point in engaging in conversation if I'm not interested in someone; it's just a waste of my time and theirs and could raise false hopes. is this another one of those moaning threads? wo is me...lets get the violins out lol as if anyone moans on here why you Evan getting involved if I'm boring you ??? cause works shit and im bored " well go and have a cup of tea or something | |||
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"well go and have a cup of tea or something " good plan i may go for a pee while im at it anyone want to watch | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile ." at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input " If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! | |||
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"well go and have a cup of tea or something good plan i may go for a pee while im at it anyone want to watch " haha | |||
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"Why ? " up to you.... no one is holding a gun to your head.... I am just finding more people are finding things to complain about just for the sake of complaining.... | |||
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"I live with gingerkisses and we find it really funny when we both receive the same msg off the same person lol " Hmmm, I might have to add to your amusement I think | |||
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"is that justr shallow mayb if u did engage u mite find the person is in fact interesting and u may hav things in common... no?" Shallow, maybe! But if we get a one line message like 'Hi How are you?' then we won't reply (that's from men/couples and females) Send us a half decent message that shows you have read our profile and we always reply if only to send a polite thanks but no thanks. | |||
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"Have to admit it makes queenoftease and me chuckle, even more so when the message is the same, word for word...eg:- I'm close by fancy meeting up for a shag?....really, they'd have a bloody heart attack if we both said yes at the same time haha " | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile ." . Good point, becoming frustrated because women don't respond to messages is the epitome of desperation and I'm sure we've all been there! But the point (to the OP) is you put in whatever work you need to in order to get what you want out of this lifestyle, improve your chances of getting a reply and then that elusive meet...one thing I can tell you is no woman/couple has ever said my approach messages are too detailed, so what's the point in sending a one liner..that's almost a guaranteed waste of energy..unless you're George Clooney! | |||
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"I must have missed the rules where it says you have to reply to every message you receive .. shame on me !" | |||
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"Have to admit it makes queenoftease and me chuckle, even more so when the message is the same, word for word...eg:- I'm close by fancy meeting up for a shag?....really, they'd have a bloody heart attack if we both said yes at the same time haha " Ooh, a two for one deal! I like bargains! | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! " yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all | |||
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"most long messages are copy and paste and they get deleted anyway" . Most short messages are bespoke efforts, that get deleted anyway! | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all " Hahahaha | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha " Lol and a wink | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink" Lol...stop bragging | |||
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"I live with gingerkisses and we find it really funny when we both receive the same msg off the same person lol " Shit! Rumbled! | |||
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"I live with gingerkisses and we find it really funny when we both receive the same msg off the same person lol Shit! Rumbled!" Haha nothing we haven't seen before | |||
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"I live with gingerkisses and we find it really funny when we both receive the same msg off the same person lol Shit! Rumbled! Haha nothing we haven't seen before " Really? I thought the bit about the industrial sized tin of swarfega, a pair of snowshoes and a pigeon loft was pretty original. | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging " Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board | |||
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"I live with gingerkisses and we find it really funny when we both receive the same msg off the same person lol Shit! Rumbled! Haha nothing we haven't seen before Really? I thought the bit about the industrial sized tin of swarfega, a pair of snowshoes and a pigeon loft was pretty original." You think? if it had been used axel grease, a pair of hobnail boots and a tortoise enclosure...that might have been original | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board" Well that's because you're a greedy bugger | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board Well that's because you're a greedy bugger " Yep I'm greedy. | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board Well that's because you're a greedy bugger Yep I'm greedy. " Funny that...I'm greedy too apparantly | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board Well that's because you're a greedy bugger Yep I'm greedy. " As Gordon Gecko once said - "Greed is good!" | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board Well that's because you're a greedy bugger Yep I'm greedy. Funny that...I'm greedy too apparantly " checks how far redditch is on google and picks up the big box of rubbery friends | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board Well that's because you're a greedy bugger Yep I'm greedy. Funny that...I'm greedy too apparantly checks how far redditch is on google and picks up the big box of rubbery friends " I've done Nottingham in an hour and half, but thats girly night time driving lol | |||
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"Why should I send a long message if your just going to delete it why not just a hi how's it going Why ? " Why go to either extreme? However, I would guess it not so much he length of your message as it is 'content' ... nobdoy wants a dull fuck, so why reply to a dull fucker? | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . at what point on this page did I say I was desperate to get laid I'm asking a question but thanks for you input If you read what he said properly, it says that your profile says you are NOT desperate! yes i thought i wrote it correctly. Just to add some spice to the thread have recieved 6 messages from different women today saying hi. And me being me have replied to them all Hahahaha Lol and a wink Lol...stop bragging Lol still waiting for your house guest too send me a message first. Not coming round till your both on board Well that's because you're a greedy bugger Yep I'm greedy. Funny that...I'm greedy too apparantly checks how far redditch is on google and picks up the big box of rubbery friends I've done Nottingham in an hour and half, but thats girly night time driving lol " Well that means it will take me two. I've seen how you women drive | |||
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"I find a short and witty message that shows you've read their profile is the best, attach a facepic as well... still odds on it will be deleted though. If they delete mine I follow up with a 'Do you know who I am!' message " Ok.. i'll bite.. who are you? heehee... | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile ." Hmm, is that before or after that first lengthy message you sent me Will, good job I'm a replied lol | |||
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"Sit back and let the women message you. You say in your profile your not desperate to get laid so don't waste your time messaging. If a woman clicks on your profile and likes it odds are she will message you . If you get no messages then change your profile . Hmm, is that before or after that first lengthy message you sent me Will, good job I'm a replied lol" Lol on another thread I did put I had an exception xx | |||
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"Is it best to be to the point or no ??? " No don't go straight to the point. Just use words from their profile jumble round a bit and make a sentence and send it back . | |||
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"Why ? up to you.... no one is holding a gun to your head.... I am just finding more people are finding things to complain about just for the sake of complaining...." The OP wasn't actually complaining, he was asking a QUESTION - big difference! | |||
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"Well if a woman has put I'm looking for nights out and socials with a tall athletic guy then your message should go hi my names blah I love meeting with people and having socials I'm a tall guy some might say I'm fairly athletic lol and I enjoy all kinda if sports . I also like movies and nights out hope to hear from you soon blah" What if you're short, fat, and hate socials? | |||
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"Why do so many seem to think the alternative to "How's it going" is an essay? I'd explain what the real alternative is, but I don't want to give a heads-up to the thick fuckers." | |||
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"I don't reply to messages if I'm not interested in the sender. It's not being rude, but I don't see the point in engaging in conversation if I'm not interested in someone; it's just a waste of my time and theirs and could raise false hopes. is this another one of those moaning threads? wo is me...lets get the violins out lol as if anyone moans on here " lol there are a lot that mopan and it all seems to be men that dont get any haha | |||
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"Well if a woman has put I'm looking for nights out and socials with a tall athletic guy then your message should go hi my names blah I love meeting with people and having socials I'm a tall guy some might say I'm fairly athletic lol and I enjoy all kinda if sports . I also like movies and nights out hope to hear from you soon blah" |What if you're 5'2" and never seen a gym in your life, I'm sure she'd realise when you turned up to meet at McDonalds | |||
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"Well if a woman has put I'm looking for nights out and socials with a tall athletic guy then your message should go hi my names blah I love meeting with people and having socials I'm a tall guy some might say I'm fairly athletic lol and I enjoy all kinda if sports . I also like movies and nights out hope to hear from you soon blah |What if you're 5'2" and never seen a gym in your life, I'm sure she'd realise when you turned up to meet at McDonalds " Lol if that's the case then u wouldn't message as u don't fit the criteria . U would be silly to pretend to be someone your not on here | |||
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"Well if a woman has put I'm looking for nights out and socials with a tall athletic guy then your message should go hi my names blah I love meeting with people and having socials I'm a tall guy some might say I'm fairly athletic lol and I enjoy all kinda if sports . I also like movies and nights out hope to hear from you soon blah |What if you're 5'2" and never seen a gym in your life, I'm sure she'd realise when you turned up to meet at McDonalds Lol if that's the case then u wouldn't message as u don't fit the criteria . U would be silly to pretend to be someone your not on here " Wouldn't that be nice, if people really were who they say they are, with up to date pics and everything lol | |||
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"Why ? We always delete 'hi how are you' messages." and the rest u read before deleting | |||
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