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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few years back when i was relatively inexperienced at sex, I was seeing an older woman. She was in her late twenties and i was just about 21. Whenever we had sex it was the same routine, she'd cum very very quickly (usually within 2/3 mins), stop all play and get dressed leaving me very horny and feeling used . Yes some women dont take ages to get off .... In fact she only ever let me cum once but she had cum the second time and was getting very impatient. Wondering if there are any other fast cumming women on here or guys who have been in this situation before

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

My wife - 1 minute on average. Then it was no touching after that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife - 1 minute on average. Then it was no touching after that."

Wow... you'd expect thats every husbands dream... ... was it a case of being extremely good at it, or she just being quick of the mark?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"My wife - 1 minute on average. Then it was no touching after that.

Wow... you'd expect thats every husbands dream... ... was it a case of being extremely good at it, or she just being quick of the mark?"

Bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife - 1 minute on average. Then it was no touching after that."

a woman that cums faster than me - love it

i could hold my head up high

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife - 1 minute on average. Then it was no touching after that.

a woman that cums faster than me - love it

i could hold my head up high "

not if you are left very horny....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow i would never leave a guy unsaitisfied.. but i normally find alot of guys once they have cum the show is over regardless of if i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she was just doing what a lot of men usualy do.

have only met a few men who can make me cum, with their tongue or their finger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow i would never leave a guy unsaitisfied.. but i normally find alot of guys once they have cum the show is over regardless of if i have "

i had one guy say to me once

you can go now ive cum

men do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"she was just doing what a lot of men usualy do.

have only met a few men who can make me cum, with their tongue or their finger."

You need to meet me then... .... But really this one time she didn't wait for penetration... Just rubbed my cock all over her clit.... Got off and told me to,get dressed she had to leave.... Thankfully I had someone in line waiting...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum"

Hmmmm I think I shuld give u my oral special... I'd wait however long it takes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum"

same with me have to get my toy out.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I sometimes can cum quick.... but I certainly don't stop play and can come multiple times with the right person, so me cumming can just be the beginning...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum

Hmmmm I think I shuld give u my oral special... I'd wait however long it takes.... "

problem with me is i tend to cum after i have shagged, the few times i have cum it has been guys who have gone back down on me after sex and in reality not many men do that, once they have cum they stop, not carry on pleasurung the woman

even tho every guy who reads this will now insist they do, in reality very few men do, i think thats why i find it hard to cum as most guys want to make you cum before sex and that just never happens for me, my body dont work like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum

same with me have to get my toy out.

"

ive done it many times where i have got toys out and finished msyelf off after the guys cum and finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha"

So did you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum

Hmmmm I think I shuld give u my oral special... I'd wait however long it takes....

problem with me is i tend to cum after i have shagged, the few times i have cum it has been guys who have gone back down on me after sex and in reality not many men do that, once they have cum they stop, not carry on pleasurung the woman

even tho every guy who reads this will now insist they do, in reality very few men do, i think thats why i find it hard to cum as most guys want to make you cum before sex and that just never happens for me, my body dont work like that"

I understand where you cum from... I can't enjoy sex when I feel she's not having a good time... I'd stop at once not worth it... But now you mentioned... I'd we ever meet its duly noted and I'd eat you out b4 and after... That's a promise...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha

So did you? "

She most certainly did.... ... Maybe he was practicing for the Olympic Games.... Speed cummers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha

So did you? "

haha no and took all my effort to not send snidy remarks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha

So did you?

haha no and took all my effort to not send snidy remarks "

what a charmer eh! Bet you had to hold yourself back from not contacting him though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

slightly off topic here. I don't come easily if at all with people I don't know very well but it doesn't bother me in the least I get enormous pleasure from so many other aspects of sex. If a guy said to me he wasn't going to stop until I did come it would put immense pressure on me and actually guarantee that it would never happen. I know this sounds like it's just another thing that a guy has to take into account but for some women it isn't all about the orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"slightly off topic here. I don't come easily if at all with people I don't know very well but it doesn't bother me in the least I get enormous pleasure from so many other aspects of sex. If a guy said to me he wasn't going to stop until I did come it would put immense pressure on me and actually guarantee that it would never happen. I know this sounds like it's just another thing that a guy has to take into account but for some women it isn't all about the orgasm "

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"slightly off topic here. I don't come easily if at all with people I don't know very well but it doesn't bother me in the least I get enormous pleasure from so many other aspects of sex. If a guy said to me he wasn't going to stop until I did come it would put immense pressure on me and actually guarantee that it would never happen. I know this sounds like it's just another thing that a guy has to take into account but for some women it isn't all about the orgasm "

I met someone a few years back that told me up front that she never came. I didn't see it as a challenge to my masculinity that I wouldn't make the earth shake for her in that respect.

But our meetings were fun nonetheless.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I used to see a woman occasionally who only wanted a quick rough shagging .. shed literally just walk in head to the bedroom, strip and let me fuck her - no playing at all. She'd come then it was a case of "you can come now" when I hadnt even warmed up.

Ended up ignoring her as it was pretty lifeless sex in the end

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"slightly off topic here. I don't come easily if at all with people I don't know very well but it doesn't bother me in the least I get enormous pleasure from so many other aspects of sex. If a guy said to me he wasn't going to stop until I did come it would put immense pressure on me and actually guarantee that it would never happen. I know this sounds like it's just another thing that a guy has to take into account but for some women it isn't all about the orgasm

I met someone a few years back that told me up front that she never came. I didn't see it as a challenge to my masculinity that I wouldn't make the earth shake for her in that respect.

But our meetings were fun nonetheless."

exactly and good on you. Mind you there is nothing quite like a good oldfashioned quivering orgasm is there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was glad when i gave a girl her first and second penetrative orgasms in the same night never ever having one... add another one from oral and that makes me thrice as good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"slightly off topic here. I don't come easily if at all with people I don't know very well but it doesn't bother me in the least I get enormous pleasure from so many other aspects of sex. If a guy said to me he wasn't going to stop until I did come it would put immense pressure on me and actually guarantee that it would never happen. I know this sounds like it's just another thing that a guy has to take into account but for some women it isn't all about the orgasm "

I don't come either, but I do have absolutely brilliant fun. I don't like blokes that think they have to keep trying because it's too much pressure and makes me feel like a failure in a way. I never know if I should tell them up front though??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"slightly off topic here. I don't come easily if at all with people I don't know very well but it doesn't bother me in the least I get enormous pleasure from so many other aspects of sex. If a guy said to me he wasn't going to stop until I did come it would put immense pressure on me and actually guarantee that it would never happen. I know this sounds like it's just another thing that a guy has to take into account but for some women it isn't all about the orgasm

I don't come either, but I do have absolutely brilliant fun. I don't like blokes that think they have to keep trying because it's too much pressure and makes me feel like a failure in a way. I never know if I should tell them up front though?? "

Hmm it's a difficult one isn't it. Men feel there is a huge pressure on them and so it seems do women.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"it takes me ages to cum, mostly i dont cum with other people unless i do it myself while they watch, as most men just arnt willing to put that much time into it

Its very rare other people make me cum

same with me have to get my toy out.

ive done it many times where i have got toys out and finished msyelf off after the guys cum and finished"

Just a question then, can you not come with a bit of fore play a bit of sex a bit of oral finger a bit of sex a bit of oral.finger

well you get the way Im thining, that way the guy has not come you have then he can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more concerned if the man is enjoying himself, than my own enjoyment. I rarely orgasm with a man anyway, so it's important that he does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow i would never leave a guy unsaitisfied.. but i normally find alot of guys once they have cum the show is over regardless of if i have

i had one guy say to me once

you can go now ive cum

men do it all the time"
and they say romance is dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughtynymph there is nothing I like more than to give a woman oral with the intention of making her cum, and the more she cums the more I love to lick and suck that swollen clit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughtynymph there is nothing I like more than to give a woman oral with the intention of making her cum, and the more she cums the more I love to lick and suck that swollen clit."
A swollen Cliterous could be a sign of Non Specific Uretheitis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow i would never leave a guy unsaitisfied.. but i normally find alot of guys once they have cum the show is over regardless of if i have "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of my enjoyment in sex is to watch a gent climax, just love the sound and face that he makes as he cums.

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By *ukus 62Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Part of my enjoyment in sex is to watch a gent climax, just love the sound and face that he makes as he cums. "

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By *andykissesWoman
over a year ago

laugharne

Takes me ages to cum, I usually finish myself off wen I get home

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

again porn has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the fuck some are more exiting than others. Personally I like to orgasm over and over again until I collapse basically. Don't often get this tho.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

@op

When they do that, I just edge them and slow them down.

Never met a female panda yet though...

Wolf

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


" was it a case of being extremely good at it"

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You're a very naughty boy Jay, of course that's the inference you're wanting our lovely Fab ladies to draw from the OP with regards to your skills as a love maker, a display of 'woe is me' with a thinly veiled 'but what a luvmeister I must be' as the subtext. Brilliant!!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"some are more exiting than others. "

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You mean they make their excuses and leave?

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Takes me ages to cum, I usually finish myself off wen I get home"

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I usually empty the contents of the fridge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow i would never leave a guy unsaitisfied.. but i normally find alot of guys once they have cum the show is over regardless of if i have "

That's selfish

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By *imples12Man
over a year ago

london

Erm erm I have the keys to unlock it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to say, i too rarely cum with a guy, not that i dont enjoy myself tho.. and i do get noisy and alot of guys dont understand the signals of cumming.. and they think they have achieved it.. well im not gonna break their bubble XD

im pretty sure im far from alone in this too..

so when guys boast about how they make woman cum so much, i take it with a pinch of salt XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was about mutual enjoyment... I dont always cum on a meet, still I enjoy myself and would like to think (s)/he enjoyed themselves, (havent checked the contents of the condoms admitted) however Ive always been invited back for more.

Thats not to say I never cum on meets as I am very lucky in that I can enjoy myself over and over and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have to say, i too rarely cum with a guy, not that i dont enjoy myself tho.. and i do get noisy and alot of guys dont understand the signals of cumming.. and they think they have achieved it.. well im not gonna break their bubble XD

im pretty sure im far from alone in this too..

so when guys boast about how they make woman cum so much, i take it with a pinch of salt XD"

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I am more concerned if the man is enjoying himself, than my own enjoyment. I rarely orgasm with a man anyway, so it's important that he does"

Will you marry me...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow i would never leave a guy unsaitisfied.. but i normally find alot of guys once they have cum the show is over regardless of if i have "

Sorry to hear you've been meeting the wrong guys!

In my book, the lady always comes first, pun intended!

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"

...so when guys boast about how they make woman cum so much, i take it with a pinch of salt XD"

Don't do that, it'll sting!

Sometimes it is true though. I have failed to make some women orgasm, others have come so much they couldn't stand up - it all depends on the chemistry, or lack of it, between you.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have experienced this problem.

if someone is not giving you what your after just dont see them again.

it is selfish and for you frustrating.

problem i tend to have is bags of energy and that is a real issue.

as for people boosting they can do this or that. i would rather discover myself what they can do and be surprised (if thats possible).

and often those shouting about skills they claim to have are a let down.

be yourself, be normal.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"i have experienced this problem.

if someone is not giving you what your after just dont see them again.

it is selfish and for you frustrating.

problem i tend to have is bags of energy and that is a real issue.

as for people boosting they can do this or that. i would rather discover myself what they can do and be surprised (if thats possible).

and often those shouting about skills they claim to have are a let down.

be yourself, be normal.

"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and just to be fair its not just the ladies.

men can be very selfish and nasty leaving some women feeling like a piece of meat and that is a dreadful thing to do.

id feel bloody awful if i didnt make someone feel good and enjoyed in my company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alway make sure a wonan comes before i do and on the rare occasion that io have come firets i alway go back for more and make sure she does cum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I cum quite quickly through penetration if I'm turned on to begin with.

But I can then get on a roll and have several orgasms in quick succession.

That would never stop me from wanting to make the guy orgasm though as I am a very giving lover, I can get as much pleasure and satisfaction out of his orgasm as I can my own. T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha"

I think I've met him! And I took an afternoon off work! What a let down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember a beautiful model I used to see on a regular basis who loved me making her cum with my tongue .... 2 to 3 hours multiple orgasms sessions. She couldn't get enough :D

Tell you what, my tongue needed a massage each time afterwards though :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the perfect woman to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like the perfect woman to me"

She was very unique, she had had bad experiences with guys, but never dwelled on it. Another woman who needed a good man in her life, she deserves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually reminds me of a meet i had, this guy was local and very keen, always going on about the things he wanted to do..

so i agreed to meet, he wasnt far and i didnt have much time, so agreed to go pick him up, got to mine, he took it out his trousers and asked me to suck, took 10 seconds to cum..

i thought oh ok well now he can concentrate on me whiel he refuels..

no he did his fly up, stood up, said was i ok and i had to drop him home! lol

tho the really funny part was i didnt hear from again until 2 months later and he messaged me asking to meet agin.. hahahahahahahaha"

sounds like you've had a raw deal or two. I could take care of you

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Gotta laugh at all the guys claiming "I always make sure the woman cums first"!!!!

Love how you think you can make her cum at all..........

Its all about having FUN...and the sooner people realise that, the better!!

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