FabSwingers.com forum: So hard to get verified by someone

By *oppabear82 OP Man
over a year ago

near you

So.

I guess every male on here has had the same problem more or less.

Getting verified.

Its easy to message someone and start chatting or at least try but it all comes down to verifications.

You cant meet anyone unless your verified. Well they don't want to meet you unless your verified and I understand that.

But you csnt get verified until you meet someone.

It's a shit merry-go-round

Can say your genuine till your blue in the face. But you need that tick.

There are pic collectors on here, fakes and people that mess couples and ladies about. We all know that.

But the genuine ones suffer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself involved in the forums, the more you chat to people & be yourself the greater the chance of someone wanting to maybe chat privately.

Don’t expect them to be handed out on a plate for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try webcam in chat rooms and get chatting there and someone will verify you that way

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

If you suddenly got 3 verifications right now, do you think it would me any easier?

The majority of the site don’t care too much about verifications if your what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it was really easy for me to get verified.

The fakes, pic’ collectors, etc that you say make it more difficult…….actually make it easier for me to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the verification. Sex on tap once you get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris mean nothing to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s plenty of ways to get verified. You just haven’t tried hard enough.

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By *oppabear82 OP Man
over a year ago

near you

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Go to a swingers club, talk to a few people, get verified. Job done.

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

After my first verification my inbox was an endless stream of people wanting to fuck.

And then I woke up.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

It’s not a magic tool to get lots of meets you know. Best idea is go to a club

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

"So.

I guess every male on here has had the same problem more or less.

Getting verified.

Its easy to message someone and start chatting or at least try but it all comes down to verifications.

You cant meet anyone unless your verified. Well they don't want to meet you unless your verified and I understand that.

But you csnt get verified until you meet someone.

It's a shit merry-go-round

Can say your genuine till your blue in the face. But you need that tick.

There are pic collectors on here, fakes and people that mess couples and ladies about. We all know that.

But the genuine ones suffer "

So think this has been mentioned but I would say go into the chat rooms and put your cam on. Speak nicely to people without being crude. Also do face cam as opposed to naked and playing with yourself. It may take effort but eventually you will get verified. Its not a silver bullet though

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow

"Go to a swingers club, talk to a few people, get verified. Job done. "

Exactly this. We no longer invite unverified gents to meets, no mater how genuine they say they are, or what guarantees they give. Simple reason; every unverified gent, bar none, who have been invited in the past have failed to show.

We are more than happy to meet, chat and even have some fun at a club and then verify them as being who their profile says they are. However, verifications also don’t guarantee someone will turn up to a meet. Just that at some point, they did. We have also had gents with many, many good verifications let us down and just like all those who aren’t verified, often without notice, apologies or any further contact.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Honestly makes no difference don’t sweat it, it’s not a free ticket to ride. It’s a misconception that Fab makes it any easier to meet people than any other the usual methods (Tinder, pub etc) IME.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Getting verified is easy. Go to a club and chat to everyone and you will end up with several. This is also the case if you go to organise socials.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I have met alot of unverified people... Find a local, group social, they are a good way of meeting people and he known, aswell as getting verified. Also, sometimes people don't like to tell you, you aren't what they are looking for, so use it as a less upsetting excuse to not meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris mean nothing to be honest. "

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

Webcam veris are not going to help much. Whilst lots of men masquerade as women here, I dont think it happens much the other way round. All a cam veris proves is that you are male.

After several experiences with unverified males letting me down, I vowed never to meet unless the guy had at least a couple of meeting in person verifications. I stuck to that for years.

Recently I was contacted by a lovely gent, who sent a well written, interesting,personalised message. But he was new and had no veris, I took a chance and he’s become a good friend.

Why am I telling you this OP, probably to highlight that you might just be able to make a good impression even if the lady you are messaging doesn’t usually meet unverified gents. It’s all in the approach!

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