FabSwingers.com forum: How did you bring up the topic of pegging?

By *ristol Bite OP Man
over a year ago

all over

Couples, men and woman who've engaged in pegging how did you bring up the subject for the first time?

Was it the man or the woman who said they wanted to try it? How did it go?

Has anyone asked a partner to try it and they refused?

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Couples, men and woman who've engaged in pegging how did you bring up the subject for the first time?

Most women I've been with like tom play with my ass and my oans have signified I like it. After wards we spoken about how I liked it and then it moved onto anal toys and then pegging.

Was it the man or the woman who said they wanted to try it? How did it go?

Has anyone asked a partner to try it and they refused?"

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Couples, men and woman who've engaged in pegging how did you bring up the subject for the first time?

Was it the man or the woman who said they wanted to try it? How did it go?

Has anyone asked a partner to try it and they refused?"

An ex had a thing for bi mmf threesome porn and asked me if I ever would. I said yes so we bought a strap on for her

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

It was an ex who initiated it after a very d*unken night out, we got home and one thing led to another... If you want details dm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a forum post. My fwb mentioned that she'd stuck her fingers up a guys arse before whilst giving a BJ but would like to try pegging one day. I hadn't had anything in my arse before and it went from there as she explored my boundaries

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By *ristol Bite OP Man
over a year ago

all over

"Saw a forum post. My fwb mentioned that she'd stuck her fingers up a guys arse before whilst giving a BJ but would like to try pegging one day. I hadn't had anything in my arse before and it went from there as she explored my boundaries

My ex used to finger my ass now and then when giving me a BJ and that's how I found out how nice it can feel.

We used to play Infront of eachother asking eachother to do things too and she would ask me to finger myself too.

Ever since then I've wanted to explore it a bit more but haven't had the opportunity, maybe I should buy a toy ha?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples, men and woman who've engaged in pegging how did you bring up the subject for the first time?

Was it the man or the woman who said they wanted to try it? How did it go?

Has anyone asked a partner to try it and they refused?"

It's simple...you just ask...

If you can't...you are with the wrong partner

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By *ristol Bite OP Man
over a year ago

all over

It's simple...you just ask...

If you can't...you are with the wrong partner

There's still such a taboo around it and some people get so freaked out or get unexpectedly weird.

I think there's some truth to what you said but I do wonder if some people need to be eased in for lack of a better description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple...you just ask...

If you can't...you are with the wrong partner

There's still such a taboo around it and some people get so freaked out or get unexpectedly weird.

I think there's some truth to what you said but I do wonder if some people need to be eased in for lack of a better description."

Like i said...if you can't ask,you definitely with the wrong partner.

We can talk about everything...even some weirdest shit that turns us on.not afraid to be judged.

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By *estEndFun69Man
over a year ago

london/belfast

I have a thing for edging an milking which is less awkward to bring up with a new partner. I usually end up asking for her to play with my ass during edging, if she into it, it usually progresses from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to finger my ass now and then when giving me a BJ and that's how I found out how nice it can feel.

We used to play Infront of eachother asking eachother to do things too and she would ask me to finger myself too.

Ever since then I've wanted to explore it a bit more but haven't had the opportunity, maybe I should buy a toy ha?"

Worth investing in

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By *ticky69Man
over a year ago

Preston

If a woman is prepared to let me in her ass then it's only polite to offer to return the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked her to do it so she bought it from love honey it came with 2 sizes and it wasn't long before I could take the big 10 inch one.

We both loved it but it's for special occasions not regular use only when I am in bitch Jane mode.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

My ex used to finger my ass now and then when giving me a BJ and that's how I found out how nice it can feel.

We used to play Infront of eachother asking eachother to do things too and she would ask me to finger myself too.

Ever since then I've wanted to explore it a bit more but haven't had the opportunity, maybe I should buy a toy ha?"

Those stories are so hot.

What I usually do when I'm interested in someone sexually is ask if they've experienced penetration, what it was like, if they'd want to try it or try it some more. I never specify if it was/is fingers, toys or penises, I let the discussion progress and see what they think. Alternatively here I can post a pic of my strapon and get some requests, there is also visuals men use to signal interest.

I've only had one regular partner who was into it, the rest have indulged me in a fingering session or two over the years but that's that - it really isn't for everyone.

I think it's easier for a woman to suggest it though than for a man to ask for it. You are right, people do freak out or get weird - a lot of people believe receiving penetration is not a masculine thing to do or is homoerotic etc. I'm not proud to admit I've had similar reactions despite the fact that this had been a hot fantasy since my early 20s (I blame my programming!). So yeah some people's view of you will be affected cos you have and are expressing these desires. But if you're meeting casually, does it matter? It won't be affecting your everyday life. I think it's worth being open about it, especially anonymously, to stand a chance of experiencing what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just need someone to bring the subject up with lol. It’s on my sexual bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said and yes some men don't like the idea of being pegged or having a finger in their bum.

When I met my wife I was to nervous to ask her to do it but she asked me if I would like a finger and it progresses from there to a 10 inch strap on.

We're both into anal sex and rimmimg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I raised it with my O/H and she freaked big time, said that surely that made me gay, etc etc. Tbh, it probably wasn't a surprise, she doesn't like anal herself, she has a big thing about it being a one way hole, I guess that was too much for her to get her head round!! I'm still hoping that one day she will see things differently..... Until then I shall continue to wear my plug while working from home!!

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By *e Platypuss de ErotiqueMan
over a year ago

Bristol

A partner and I were indulging in some mutural masterbation, when she unexpectedly stuck her finger in my ass while wanking me. She then asked if she could fuck me with her dildo which made me cum loads. She was so excited I agreed to it the next day we ordered are first strap on and never looked back.

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

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