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Share your memories of how/when you went from inexperienced & unsure to skilled & confident

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't sure which Forum to post this so apologies.

During meets for sex games with other Fab'rs the subject of eachothers experiences often comes up. It has reminded me (Jane) of how/when I went from inexperienced & unsure how to suck cock in a way that has been quoted

"in the top 3 of the best I've ever had "

by the majority of (Erm) receivers.

The point of this post is Not an ego boost,so bare with me.

(ps I know yr all thinking that's just what guys say - but you can tell when there is genuine surprise & unexpected pleasure.)

Anyways.. I was thinking back to when I first found out about BJ's at around 18yrs. The usual thing, 1st&2nd boyfriend blah blah. But when I was about 23yrs I got secretly involved with a very popular great looking guy at work who was basically a girl magnet so when he began giving me attention I was eager to please.

Now I'm getting to the point.. He introduced me to not just the act, but How to do it so that it Pleasured Me not just him.

He was like a teacher.he literally instructed as I was doing it. The tempo, the lips, the tongue, the breathing, the tricks. Even the hands & eyes.

Hence over the years I have instinctively honed in on which techniques achieves the right responses,which for me seems to have become my reward.

SOOOO.. It'd be great to hear from anyone else what their defining moment was.

No fantasy stories please. Keep it real life yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still inexperienced & unsure doubtful I will ever be skilled & confident . Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awww

I'm sure that's not the case.

Could be anything at all. Not necessarily a sex act even??.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

My husband was my first love, and until my introduction to swinging/Hot Wifeing/Cuckolding his was the only cock I'd really seen close up.....

The first time I sat on the edge of of a hotel bed with a different gorgeous tall guy standing in front of me and unzipped his trousers and pulled out his enormous cock was unforgettable.

Releasing that snake from his briefs also released my inhibitions and Ive never been the same since.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

As a teenage I suppose with my first long term gf. Just had to explore a woman's body properly. Meeting my wife at 21 really ramped it up though as she open3d up all sorts of new avenues I'd previously never considered.

Thing is, every woman is different and what works for one woman won't always work for another. I'm certainly confident with my wife and ladies I know well from repeat meets but with a new partner, I'm confident I can learn to find what works for her rather than assume I'm going to take her to heaven just because..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't sure which Forum to post this so apologies.

During meets for sex games with other Fab'rs the subject of eachothers experiences often comes up. It has reminded me (Jane) of how/when I went from inexperienced & unsure how to suck cock in a way that has been quoted

"in the top 3 of the best I've ever had "

by the majority of (Erm) receivers.

The point of this post is Not an ego boost,so bare with me.

(ps I know yr all thinking that's just what guys say - but you can tell when there is genuine surprise & unexpected pleasure.)

Anyways.. I was thinking back to when I first found out about BJ's at around 18yrs. The usual thing, 1st&2nd boyfriend blah blah. But when I was about 23yrs I got secretly involved with a very popular great looking guy at work who was basically a girl magnet so when he began giving me attention I was eager to please.

Now I'm getting to the point.. He introduced me to not just the act, but How to do it so that it Pleasured Me not just him.

He was like a teacher.he literally instructed as I was doing it. The tempo, the lips, the tongue, the breathing, the tricks. Even the hands & eyes.

Hence over the years I have instinctively honed in on which techniques achieves the right responses,which for me seems to have become my reward.

SOOOO.. It'd be great to hear from anyone else what their defining moment was.

No fantasy stories please. Keep it real life yeah

"

Until I (F - Mrs) got with J (Mr), I’d never felt sexually confident, always felt frustrated and never felt satisfied and always thought that there must be something wrong with me. I love sex, but just never seemed to get it right.

The very first time we met, something clicked in my head and, shall we say, it released some kind of inner porn star in me Everything about him, from the way he looks, to the sound of his voice, to the connection we felt, just made me suddenly feel like I realised this is everything I’d been missing all my life haha. Then to discover that we both wanted to explore swinging, and to do it together….well, it’s been so liberating for the both of us, but more so for me because for the first time in my life I feel confident and sexy. Bit of a ramble, but that’s standard for me lol

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice to hear such a relatable realistic approach from a male.

(so disappointing when guys say what a stud they are to ALL women.. Like you rightly say, what works for one won't necessarily work for another)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Adventurous 2.. That's the sort of relationship I bet soooo many people would love to have. Marvellous that you found eachother. Lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few years ago just before the pandemic, I found myself in a situation completely the opposite. We were in 4some with another mfcouple, as I slowly started getting into licking-sucking-etc the other guy to get an idea of which style was going to get the best reaction, he had to stop me! Turns out he was circumcised... Which was a first for me,i had never seen or touched one before. Had literally no clue what to do

Hahaha

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