FabSwingers.com forum: Asking For A Face Pic But Not Willing To Send one In Return

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am relatively new to the site, had my profile a few months but only really started using it the past couple of weeks.

One of the things that is annoying me a bit is people asking for a face pic which is fair enough but then not willing to send one in return. I find this hypocritical.

I am not having ago at anyone who wants to remain anonymous and requires discretion but i just feel its unfair for people to request something that they are not willing to do them selves.

Just wondering what others think about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people have odd little rules.....and some do appear hypocritical. But I suggest deep breath and move on rather than stressing over it. All that will happen is you get wound up...

Generally not worth it!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just don't message those profiles who demand a face pic op

People can ask for what they choose,but you don't have to do it.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Just to play devil's advocate, OP....

..why would you want a photo of someone that didn't want to meet you?

I get that it feels uneven, but if, seeing your face is the end of the conversation, what's the practical purpose of reciprocation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make it clear on your profile you want a face pic, if they don’t send one, they have either ignored or not read your profile. Helps you identify those more likely to respond. It is something I do receive sometimes as well, from people asking for a face pictures without sending their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said, if when face pic sent its a definite no then its conversation over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to play devil's advocate, OP....

..why would you want a photo of someone that didn't want to meet you?

I get that it feels uneven, but if, seeing your face is the end of the conversation, what's the practical purpose of reciprocation?"

Exactly! Not only that but we've had it where guys just harass us after turning them down. So many people can't take rejection.

So why risk sharing face pics at that point? Also some guys seem to get kicks in sharing our naughty pics, the last thing we want is face pics included in that too!

We don't ask single guys for face pics, as so many message us we've decided to only reply to those that include them in their first message (unless that first message was awesome}. Otherwise being on this site and answering messages would be a full time job for most couples and females.

So my advice to Op, if you want to stand a chance of meeting females or couples on here then include a face pic in your first message. And get used to being knocked back, unfortunately thats gonna be the case for probably 19 / 20 you message. Thats how it is for single males due to the amount on here vs how many females and couples there are x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If someone asks first for a face pic then they should be prepared to send one first. Basic stuff

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

I've had this tonnes in the past, where people pop up first, ask to see a face pic, and one of the following happens:

I send one, and get left on "read" and that's the end of it (which I hate)

I don't send one, I ask them to send one first and still get no response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a simple rule if you message first you send the pics first if we message first then we send first ..

but lets be real if you send a pic and its not what others want then they are hardly going to return one are they ?????

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