FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Ladies, answer this...

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you're out in a public/social setting and you see a man who you think 'I'd let him fuck me,' is there something you'll do to send a signal to him to approach, or are you pokerface and super subtle?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle Miss PuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Your fantasies

The main problem with your question is your assumed submissive perspective of women.

When I see a guy I fancy I don't think in terms of "letting him fuck me", I think "Oh I'd like to fuck him"

Do you see the subtle but important difference?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle Miss PuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Your fantasies


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him"

Yes. Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Since joining fab I'm even more careful how I interact with men than I was before. Some people think anything is a signal including what I'm wearing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The main problem with your question is your assumed submissive perspective of women.

When I see a guy I fancy I don't think in terms of "letting him fuck me", I think "Oh I'd like to fuck him"

Do you see the subtle but important difference?

"

I know the difference, yes. I was talking moreso to ones who lean towards submissive, though. In my mind the woman is usually the one being fucked (unless she's into pegging).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since joining fab I'm even more careful how I interact with men than I was before. Some people think anything is a signal including what I'm wearing. "

Yeah, it is tricky for women. Some men can be wild and take anything as an invitation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him"

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You only need to read the forum to know that!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger."

I genuinely think you need to consider what consent means.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger.

I genuinely think you need to consider what consent means. "

Very well aware, thanks.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle Miss PuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Your fantasies


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger."

This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.

Takes all sorts I suppose

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

He’ll be moaning on the forums soon about why he can’t get any meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Being subtle towards me doesnt work i miss all the signs, you gotta be as plain and simple as possible and just spit it out lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger.

This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.

Takes all sorts I suppose "

Yep! It’s all gone right over his head

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger.

This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.

Takes all sorts I suppose "

And how much do you understand male sexuality? :D continue to shame.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He’ll be moaning on the forums soon about why he can’t get any meets"

I know you pair ain't talking. Keep thinking it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him

Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.

Don't shoot the messenger.

This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.

Takes all sorts I suppose

Yep! It’s all gone right over his head "

Ok, sexperts.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top