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By *aninthemiddle OP   Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

What are peoples feelings on winks i think its a good way to show first interest but everytime i send one i get nothing back might just be me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples feelings on winks i think its a good way to show first interest but everytime i send one i get nothing back might just be me lol"

No it's not just u it's the same with me lol

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Some people see it as being lazy.

I see it as being a quick and easy way to gauge someones interest.

However, I tend to message people as I feel I am more in control of 'advertising my wares' so-to-speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never reply to winks

I always think guys who wink just send them out to every women on the site in the hope that if they wink enough they will get someone to reply back

so im never sure if they winked me because they have a interest in me as a person or if they have winked me because im one of many women they have block winked

so i dont reply as i dont like the idea of someone meeting me bacause i was the only woman who replied lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

not a big deal. the site only allow you one wink to a profile per month...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never reply to winks

I always think guys who wink just send them out to every women on the site in the hope that if they wink enough they will get someone to reply back

so im never sure if they winked me because they have a interest in me as a person or if they have winked me because im one of many women they have block winked

so i dont reply as i dont like the idea of someone meeting me bacause i was the only woman who replied lol"

I message woman too still no reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get winks , if interested I wink back and what happens ? Absolutely nothing . What's all that about ?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"not a big deal. the site only allow you one wink to a profile per month..."

With Platinum membership you are allowed unlimited winks at the same person. I use it like a morse code. Some days it's like I have a severe nervous tick I wink so much.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"not a big deal. the site only allow you one wink to a profile per month...

With Platinum membership you are allowed unlimited winks at the same person. I use it like a morse code. Some days it's like I have a severe nervous tick I wink so much."
Platenium???? Cracking

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We use winks, on occasion, as a prelude to a msg, albeit if we get a wink back, i would think thats what they're there for......far too many wink snobs on here lol

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"i never reply to winks

I always think guys who wink just send them out to every women on the site in the hope that if they wink enough they will get someone to reply back

so im never sure if they winked me because they have a interest in me as a person or if they have winked me because im one of many women they have block winked

so i dont reply as i dont like the idea of someone meeting me bacause i was the only woman who replied lol"

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't look at them. Just delete them when they get into triple figures.

Same with friends requests.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my point of view i find it frustrating when someone winks me and i then reciprocate or send message then get no further contact.

You would think that by showing initial contact a reply would be forthcoming.

I send winks call it lazy maybe but way i look at it is females get tons of messages and so by winking it saves them time by quick view rather than long message. I do send messages too lol i am not just a winker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I winked at a milth last night and we got chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples feelings on winks i think its a good way to show first interest but everytime i send one i get nothing back might just be me lol"

We really don't mind getting winks, but often find the sender's profile has no pics and not much in the way of text. Makes us wonder why they bothered. If somebody really wants to get our attention a sensible message with pics attached is much better.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I sometimes send a wink a day or so before a message. Other times I wink if I don't quite meet the requirements of the recipient, so a couple of years too old or if they say they will look for single males when they want one etc.

I've had meets that started as a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples feelings on winks i think its a good way to show first interest but everytime i send one i get nothing back might just be me lol"

I don't send them and ignore in general.

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I just block delete all my winks without even checking them. People keep sending, I keep deleting lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"What are peoples feelings on winks i think its a good way to show first interest but everytime i send one i get nothing back might just be me lol"

Do you speed wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think winks are there to show your interested if you send or recieve a wink you look and if you like you wink back...then message if some dont like winks or think it lazy then they shoulf say no winks on profile as some do......myself i like winks ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples feelings on winks i think its a good way to show first interest but everytime i send one i get nothing back might just be me lol"

No it's not just you it's every male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple, we will respond to winks. But when I had a single male profile I quickly realised that sending them was utterly futile. If a woman is inundated with messages, it stands to reason that they are unlikely to reply to someone who is too lazy to even to send the briefest of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i like what i see...i give her a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont take much notice of winks.

just means they like your profile.

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I use winks but only with couples.., feel more intimidating messaging them for some reason...

Maybe cause I'm a three sum virgin lol

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