FabSwingers.com forum: Who introduced you to swinging?

By *lackshadow7 OP Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Exactly what it says on the tin.

If you are single, or play solo, who or what introduced you to the lifestyle?

If you are a couple, which of you prepared the pitch to the other? Or was it a mutual decision?

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Mark but kinda came about as I’m bi and we had played with a few friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boss

haha

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By *lackshadow7 OP Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"My boss

haha"

Oh wow

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I was always intrigued and came across the details on a profile on a dating site

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

My wife. 25-ish years ago or so.

Not long after we met she admitted to being attracted to other women but had never do e anything about it. Didn't do anything about it, just a conversation.

After we had been together sometime she said she was also having fantasies about me being with other women as well (later worked out she's got a big cuckqean kink). I jokingly said yeah right and ypu sort it then (throught she was winding me up cos that only happened in stories right?).

A short while later, after one drink to many on a girls night out, she told her freind about it....who was totally into the idea and I was sent off to see her the following evening.

The rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boss

haha

Oh wow

We are the same age and friends before boss. Never ‘been there’ either

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By *lackshadow7 OP Man
over a year ago

Toronto

A short while later, after one drink to many on a girls night out, she told her freind about it....who was totally into the idea and I was sent off to see her the following evening.

The rest is history

Love this. Kinky and wholesome all at once.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Am old fwbs that I knew 7/8 years we wanted to add more people into our fun together but unfortunately he had other ideas and other women lined up over numerous years...am now friends with many women he messed over like me...but it hasn't put me off! But haven't really been upto meeting folk unless at socials x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex girlfriend. Still great friends but unfortunately not together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy featured in 2 of my profile photos. We met on Tinder but he told me all about this place. A year later and I joined.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

An old FWB and I were taking photos together and decided we needed someone to take them for us. We ended up being watched by the photographer and his mate, and by the third session he was banging her too!

Fond memories!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That pesky Internet!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

My own mind introduced me to swinging, intrigue and excitement

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

It's been a journey that I started alone.

Not looked back either

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Was on a night out around Camden..A random couple.The woman enjoyed flashing herself to random men.They then said about this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been curious about it but it's really taboo in my culture

Coming to the UK I started looking for swing clubs an I came across Shhh website.. an ad for fab came up on their site and here I am

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

South

I was a dirty perve and discovered it myself.

Since then I have introduced a number of acquaintances to the scene

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

My beautician!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got interduced by a couple who we met up with to find out what dogging was all about in our very early 20s .... they were in there 50s then oh boy thoses days were real headturner's lol and loads of fun had since..

this was the days before the newspapers were writing about sports stars and mps dogging there were no clubs in the southwest then very few parties ... the nearest club was the west midlands those were real fun days ...on the net it was via chap groups like yahoo..xcite.. or mags

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Mr has a solo profile for a number of years. He introduced Ms to the lifestyle last year

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Someone was recommending this site to someone else in the comments as a good place to find hook ups on a banter group on Facebook. I'd always been interested in this kind of thing though.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

No one we found our own way we also believe not to pull people into swinging but letting them find their way as it is not for everyone and just because we like it they may Not or May break their relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I met threw a social group many years ago so I signed up to see what it was all about! He was a seasoned swinger and would attend clubs etc but I don’t think he uses this site anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one we found our own way we also believe not to pull people into swinging but letting them find their way as it is not for everyone and just because we like it they may Not or May break their relationship..."

we also agree with this a couple helpped us but we did all the searching before a couple reached out ...

have see so many relationships go bad from swinging mainly because they were doing it for the wrong reasons or the relationship was very onesided

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Just discovered it and began exploring myself, still v early in my swinging journey

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Introduced ourselves. Wanted to explore and push our boundaries and ended up on here x

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We have both been chatting about it for a while ( years in fact) and with a little bit persuading we ended up on here.

Covid made us realise that life is too short and that we should try stuff (which we have)

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Eek what defines you as a swinger? That you partner swap?

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

"Eek what defines you as a swinger? That you partner swap?"

For us it’s that we’re playful, rather than necessarily playing. A bit of camming, flirting, and yes, some swapping. Definitely brought us closer together (and our marriage was bloody brilliant anyway)!

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Hound visited clubs and introduced me to them to see what I thought.... the first couple of times I wasn't very relaxed but now I love it!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

1997.......An admirer through my work in London, wasn't deterred by the fact that I was married, in fact the opposite.

Not only was he only attracted to married women but only married women with total knowledge of the husband.

He wasn't taking no for an answer and he dragged my other half and I into the hotwife/cuckold scene.

Totally changed our sexlife......for good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple from down south.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

We haven't 'swung' in the true sense of the word but my curiosity about adding people to our sex life came from a few chats I had with a married couple many many years ago

Since those chats we (my now wife and i) have sampled MFM, MMF hotwifing & now cuckolding.

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By *astle321Man
over a year ago

pershore

A magazine called "Experience"back in the late seventies.

All initial contact was by post.

Happy days.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Mom and dad at the park. I wanted to go to the moon!!

Oh.

Stumbled across it on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kinky friend mentioned it to me

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By *ooroo2019Woman
over a year ago

Chester

After coming out of a long relationship I decided I wanted to explore my bi-cur side. Someone suggested this site.

I met up with a lovely couple local to me, loved it and since then I’ve been to clubs and this year made it to a couple of parties. I’ve met some of the best people. An ffm is still my favourite kind of meet.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When I was 20 I was seduced by a sexy older cuckold couple I was doing some work for

They gradualy introduced me to MMF fun, and I've never looked back from there...

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By *zmukMan
over a year ago

doncaster

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By *zmukMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Stumbled across a 'contact mag' in the late eighties. Initially just interested in the pics of real people, but then started replying to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexcetera and Louis Theroux

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Husband teased and tempted me about it in bed when having sex and it grew from there.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

a couple we used to know

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

He suggested it to me and after I considered it I agreed to try. Not looked back since

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

"A magazine called "Experience"back in the late seventies.

All initial contact was by post.

Happy days."

Haha. How we started finding people. Long and drawn out process in those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A magazine called "Experience"back in the late seventies.

All initial contact was by post.

Happy days.

Haha. How we started finding people. Long and drawn out process in those days "

Same with Wife and I through Forum magazine. Only got together with one couple but saw them a couple of times a year for 5 years until they emigrated.

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By *lackshadow7 OP Man
over a year ago

Toronto

For me, i discovered it when a guy I used to play rugby with, approached me about having sex with his wife while he was away (and taking some pics/ video for her to send to him)

After that experience, I started searching for more. Discovered a few sites (including Fab), went to some clubs, and started having more meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew about it for years, no idea how. Probably a TV programme or something. I finally took the step to do it after talking to my best mate who swings.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Fem workmate

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

A lady I was seeing knew my bi curiosity and got turned on by it. Because of my job I have to be discreet so she researched and found fab and fab guys. Joined and several years later am still here.

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By *ubiaWoman
over a year ago

Manchester/ Portugal

An ex told me that a few of his friends thought I was really hot and it would really turn him on to watch them fuck me.

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