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when you realise it's time to stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not a "Im leaving please beg me to stay thread"

But I have decided that I am going to hang up my swinging shoes. I have had lots of time to think and try different ways to do things but I have found that my loyalty to the man I love with all my heart has meant that to be alone that I get no pleasure from any of this anymore.

I have made such friends on here and for now will stop to participate on the forums. I just am not cut out for this without my companion by my side

So thanks to all those that have supported me and I hope to still give advice.

Cali

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

All the very best to you, Cali.

xxx @}-}-- xxx

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By *erseypairCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

pity we never got the chance to meet you- all the best xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to do what you have to do, Cali. xx

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

All the best Cali glad you are staying on the forums for nwo tho to spread your wise words you have given some great advice to plenty myself included.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

As said before, this is a massive change for you and you are going to need time to adjust.

You never know, after a period of re adjustment you might feel like joining in again but for the mean time take the time you need for you x x

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

All the best Cali - do whatever you need to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so pleased for you, you have found what so many of us are looking for (if only we would admit it) and I wish you every happiness.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

well that's a shame because I've always noticed how you are not at all judgemental, always give a considered and thoughtful answer and contribute in a very positive way and these fora need people like that.

All the best to you and hope to see you back here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

I have had many that think I'm being premature about this but I am no longer getting anything from play. The magic spark that once made me feel so alive is not there

I wish it was as easy as people keep messaging me to just find someone new but this was something deeply special to me. I believe a once in a lifetime bond

I would actually prefer to not feel like this

But I just know that playing still would ruin me totally. As I'm doing it and not getting anything from it

Cali

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

Best of Luck Cali, certainly The Attic & Xotix clubs are going to miss your presence.

Will look forward to reading your continued contribution in the forums though, where you argue your points pertinantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and take care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I just know that playing still would ruin me totally. As I'm doing it and not getting anything from it

Cali"

Then you are right to stop, hide your profile, but stick around, the forums need you.

All the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you enjoy your new lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill miss u cali, there arent enough dirty bitches on the forum as it is. Best wished x

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By *corcherMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Had the pleasure of meeting you once & can tell you'll be missed, but you neee to do what makes you happy. Whatever & wherever it is enjoy yourself!

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

cali you will be missed by lots on here, and im one of them, your advise was and always is most appreciated and you give it straight and no bullshit.i hope you can find a happy place in your heart once again.

take care, stay safe, and concentrate on those loved ones who need you.

sarah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I just know that playing still would ruin me totally. As I'm doing it and not getting anything from it

Cali

Then you are right to stop, hide your profile, but stick around, the forums need you.

All the best x"

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By *TUDLY_GOOD_FUCKMan
over a year ago

mansfield

Hey Cali im so sorry to hear your leaving.

You will be sorely missed

I Wish you all the best in life honey.

Lee x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

do what you have to do......

no regrets xxxxxxx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Take care Cali

Maybe a bit of distance and perspective will help you to return at some point with a renewed vigour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am giving up swinging not the forums. So you don't quite get rid of me that easy.

Thanks all. I just see no point playing when I'm not enjoying it anymore.

Cali

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Taking time out won't do you any harm, and it sounds like it is needed.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the best xx"

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