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By *aughty nerds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Hey we are looking for a single female for MFF...how do we go about it?

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Surprisingly so are we Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as us but its very difficult to find on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey we are looking for a single female for MFF...how do we go about it?"

I’d personally post a chat in one of the forums and watch the offers flood in

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Pop an advert in the window of your local newsagent. That's how it used to be done. (Apparently)

Gbat

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Go to a club ,most of the site are looking for the same I think

I've seen a few threads where people have been successful in clubs .

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

If you're serious about it, then be really clear in your profile about what kind of girl you're looking for and what sort of thing you want to do. Some couples want a sub that they can both play with whereas some want a girl just for soft play. Your profile doesn't really explain any of that. Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I tuck it between my legs can I come lol?

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Single ladies are the hardest to find

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Single lady here

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"Single ladies are the hardest to find "

They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish


"Single ladies are the hardest to find

They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx"

Maybe we should update our profile

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By *rish CougarWoman
over a year ago

Bray

Another single bi woman here

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By *xJustForFun!Couple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Called unicorns for that exact reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup it’s a hard one to find that’s for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely hard to create a connection with the ladies on fab. We’ve been trying for so long and no success. Gave up trying on here, probably next will go to a club and see how it goes…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club ,most of the site are looking for the same I think

I've seen a few threads where people have been successful in clubs ."

Even as a single man that’s where I had my first MFF

I think otherwise you’ve just got to really search far and wide they’re certainly hard to find

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"Single ladies are the hardest to find

They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx

Maybe we should update our profile "

Definitely! I do like some of your photos but not sure if that's just something you do yourselves (and not with others)

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Cannot understand why you find single ladies hard to find.

Don’t expect them to come to you.

The ones that connect to you can become special friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you may have to widen your search to include more mfcouples to join you, as single females are as mentioned above... 'unicorns'

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Single ladies are the hardest to find

They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx"

Just to point out, you guys are in London. Heavily populated with lots of clubs to choose from. It's not the same in other parts of the country and that really does play a factor in how hard it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.

My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been trying to find a couple to connect with on here for years now and had no luck

Either I only find 1 of them attractive, or they want only the female to play and the guy to watch, or they want a human sex toy to just use and disguard when it suits them.

Non of which appeals to me.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.

My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx"

Yikes.

We have no list of does and don't appart from the obvious saftey first one. We just have fun and a good time for all. How should we portray that in our profile so it's clear to the single ladies?

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By *hors fantasyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We like mff, mmf and mfmf but out of them all a decent mmf is harder to find than an mff clubs are the answer for most things though fab is 99% spam 1% keeping it touch with people we have met via a club

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Same here

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Try finding 2 females now thats hard lol

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

why only single woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been trying to find a couple to connect with on here for years now and had no luck

Either I only find 1 of them attractive, or they want only the female to play and the guy to watch, or they want a human sex toy to just use and disguard when it suits them.

Non of which appeals to me."

This is often not talked about enough and has been my experience too

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By *ewCoup7eCouple
over a year ago

Fulham


"I've been trying to find a couple to connect with on here for years now and had no luck

Either I only find 1 of them attractive, or they want only the female to play and the guy to watch, or they want a human sex toy to just use and disguard when it suits them.

Non of which appeals to me.

Indeed a tad difficult for all three parties to like each other. Now regarding the human toy comment, unfortunately we have run into fellow human beings who behaved that way… fuck em!( not literally obviously;) )

Perhaps all the couples can get together and agree to swap their other half from time to time…

This is often not talked about enough and has been my experience too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try finding 2 females now thats hard lol "

You call it hard. Others might call it greedy

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Try finding 2 females now thats hard lol

You call it hard. Others might call it greedy "

Its only greedy if you get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try finding 2 females now thats hard lol

You call it hard. Others might call it greedy

Its only greedy if you get it "

Your definitely in the right place to possibly get it. Happy fabbing

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Try finding 2 females now thats hard lol

You call it hard. Others might call it greedy

Its only greedy if you get it

Your definitely in the right place to possibly get it. Happy fabbing "

Ive been here many many many years still not found it lol

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"

Perhaps all the couples can get together and agree to swap their other half from time to time…

This is often not talked about enough and has been my experience too "

Two issues with that.

Firatly, we both meet seperatly. We've met a few others over the years who do as well bit not many

Can count on two hands how many we've met in 25 years. If im honest, the fact we do meet seperatly seems to surprise most couples we talk to. So for the most part (i assume) couples come as a couple in some form or another.

Secondly, we are a cuckqean couple primarily. Not the only thing we enjoy but because we are a cuckqean couple, we thought approaching cuckold/hotwife couples could be a good way to go.

It's not. They're not interested either. Which to be fair, on Fab, make sense. Two 3rds of the site is single males. Those ladies can pick and choose till their hearts content. Why bother with a couple

When you have ypur pick of single guys.

At the end of the day, single ladies who meet couples are rare and single ladies finding the right couples seems to be just as rare as well.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I sell Unicorn bait and traps. PM for details. Last few remaining.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Club couple and Single Ladies night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.

My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx

Yikes.

We have no list of does and don't appart from the obvious saftey first one. We just have fun and a good time for all. How should we portray that in our profile so it's clear to the single ladies?"
Exactly as you've said it there that's simple and refreshing as opposed to the list of dos and don't.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.

My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx

Yikes.

We have no list of does and don't appart from the obvious saftey first one. We just have fun and a good time for all. How should we portray that in our profile so it's clear to the single ladies? Exactly as you've said it there that's simple and refreshing as opposed to the list of dos and don't.

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Thank you. Aside from what we are not into or looking for, I didn't think we had anything that came off negatively to anyone be they a lady or couple but you never know. Never hurts to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway if any couples around West mids would be happy to meet a pretty little fat girl feel free to message me.

As long as 1. I get to fuck you both and 2. You won't use me and throw me away

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Anyway if any couples around West mids would be happy to meet a pretty little fat girl feel free to message me.

As long as 1. I get to fuck you both and 2. You won't use me and throw me away "

You're gonna have a full inbox in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey we are looking for a single female for MFF...how do we go about it?"

For the women to put on a show while Mr watches?

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

One of the hardest and rarest Pokemans to find.

We managed to find one but she left the scene.

Just looking for one as well for ff play or mff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always free me lol

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hey we are looking for a single female for MFF...how do we go about it?"

I've been lucky enough to be part of quite a few mff threesomes, some of them as part of a couple profile so I think there's some experience there to share.

* I can't recall us ever meeting any ladies where we initiated contact on the Internet, although we didn't contact many.

* *nothing* beats meeting people personally and talking and flirting. For this reason, clubs are by far your best bet to meet new people, including single ladies.

* we also attended and hosted house parties. We haven't done that for ages but you meet a lot of new people that way.

* once you have a few people in your network of sexy friends you will meet others. Somewhere along the way you will meet single ladies you both click with. That's where mff threesomes mostly occur.

* I guess something in our profile appealed to single ladies because sometimes someone would message us. That more often led to meeting up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for an assertive confident female …

Like an albino unicorn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.

My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx"

I've not met a couple yet..... But this is the exact reason I haven't very few I've spoke to I've felt comfortable enough to meet coz of the reasons you've mentioned

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By *uriousAWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree with this. Some couples make it all about them and don’t necessarily think of the females enjoyment so that can be a flag. Some couples are too pushy and rude if you decline. I would also agree with the above that you need to be specific on your profile about what you are looking for from someone in this situation.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

You’ve got to ask yourself, what can we offer single ladies?

You also have to consider why you want to meet them? Is it just male fantasy or the kink? Are you inviting them to be a active part of an equal threesome, or are you going to want them to be just part of your experience?

Many of of our threesomes have come from the ladies seeing how we play together and interact with each other rather than us actively approaching people.

I’d honestly suggest a club over messaging here. I’d also advise against using terms such as Unicorn. Also avoid the feeling that it’s a treat for one of you or a present!

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

As the male from a couple, the big turn on for me is the FF play. Our play is generally more about foreplay, and less about the male getting laid.

Couples are out there that value the experience of the third person, be them male or female

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We've had some luck in the past and loved it but it is the forever struggle.

We know we are on the niche side of the spectrum by being a cuckqean couple to begin with and accepted that years ago but we know we want it to be about all parties involved equally. I'd be a liar if I said I didn't like seeing my wife with another woman or enjoying that woman's company myself but at the same time my wife loves seeing me with other women and enjoying herself with that woman as well. but what is even better is the two of us working together for her pleasure.

At the end of the day, none of it works without honest open communication, mutual respect and all parties involved getting what they want out of it. We are well aware there are reason why some ladies avoid it, many of which are listed in this thread but hopefully one day, we find that special lady who likes our company and is on the same wave length as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my playmate are looking for a lady to join us. I’m 45 she’s 42

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By *ustus696969Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

We just want to find another couple that is hard Also

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

It’s not…just keep at it. Clubs are a good place to start

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd how we keep getting repeat verifications off the ladies.

Must be doing something wrong to not be making it hard enough for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought I would add to this thread my experience as a single female, who has met with a few couples for MFF.

There are a lot of couples here looking for this dynamic, but sadly the profiles I have visited in the past, never seem to consider the 3rd person.

A lot looking for the male half just to watch, like a single fem wants to be a performing monkey, along with couples who are only interested in what they can gain from a meet, never any mention of mutual fun for all.

It can be very exhausting at times trying to build a connection with a couple, whereby all are on the same page, it would help if those looking were very clear on their profile from the get go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thought I would add to this thread my experience as a single female, who has met with a few couples for MFF.

There are a lot of couples here looking for this dynamic, but sadly the profiles I have visited in the past, never seem to consider the 3rd person.

A lot looking for the male half just to watch, like a single fem wants to be a performing monkey, along with couples who are only interested in what they can gain from a meet, never any mention of mutual fun for all.

It can be very exhausting at times trying to build a connection with a couple, whereby all are on the same page, it would help if those looking were very clear on their profile from the get go "

We absolutely agree with you on that and we have stated that on our profile from the start. We agree that all 3 should have the fun together and the spark is a more better atmosphere

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Hey we are looking for a single female for MFF...how do we go about it?"

So would you both play with a single lady? The man just watching would be a no from me

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have been lucky enough to meet a few single women. Well I say lucky, but what helps is setting your profile up so that the single lady feels like she’s not going to be a performing seal.

We both chat beforehand and we both play and when we play with a third (male or female) it’s a three way play where we all get pleasure and we all pleasure.

OP, the only pics of Mr on your profile is his cock. I suspect a female would prefer to have an idea of what Mr actually looks like rather than just that.

Good luck

K

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