FabSwingers.com forum: Safety

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not a dig at all to anyone personally but more of mind opening scenario.

So I am single women - very BI ,unfortunately my type ( I didn't found my type on this page yet ) but when laddies smell nice hey magic may happen. But there r issues I am having during like chit chats when we all discuss safety measures before meeting

I won't go to people houses

Amouth of people getting upset, offended by it it's shocking.

They don't understand my point of view at all .

Single women going to strangers house

When doors are locked everything could happened.

As much as we got the idea of only pleasure and fucking good time

But ( bad experience that I won't talk about) sometimes it's just not the case .

You going to strangers house !

Some people act completely different in hotel then in their own place .

What I am saying is

My safety is my priority

Your bruised ego - not my problem!

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over a year ago

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

towcester

I get that and totally understandable. In todays world, you just don't know what could happen really. Even as a single guy, that thought often cross my mind too.

But also, I'm assuming that if you arranged to meet someone, it would be with someone that you have been chatting with for a while or perhaps met in a club or for a social. I won't exactly meet a complete stranger out of the blue though.

But at the same time, yes.. I do get your concern to be cautious as like you said, you never know what the other person you're meeting is like in person or behind closed doors

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is very tricky lately

Cos I put the non house meeting right at the beginning of meeting people.

So you know general chit chat , how they finding swinging- all the good stuff .

And then

Me saying

I dont do home visits

Respons is BUT WHY NOT ?

People getting absolutely offended.

Been told - hotels are to expensive

Fact they need pay for sitter and hassle with hotel - sounds like I am just a princess , oh been told I hope you are worth the effort ??. - dig !

I always offer to pay 3rd of the hotel room .

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

towcester

"This is very tricky lately

Cos I put the non house meeting right at the beginning of meeting people.

So you know general chit chat , how they finding swinging- all the good stuff .

And then

Me saying

I dont do home visits

Respons is BUT WHY NOT ?

People getting absolutely offended.

Been told - hotels are to expensive

Fact they need pay for sitter and hassle with hotel - sounds like I am just a princess , oh been told I hope you are worth the effort ??. - dig !

I always offer to pay 3rd of the hotel room .

Well, hotels are better in my book and plus, don't have to clean up the mess on the bed

lol

One point though.. if they are meeting someone anyway, regardless if at own home or in a hotel, surely they will need a sitter anyway. I would never dream of entering someone's home if the kids are upstairs in bed. That's kinda a no no really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds normal to me, I wouldnt meet at somebody's house either no matter how long I've known them for. A neutral ground for both parties is what works best for me and if someone isn't comfortable with that, then we aren't compatible anyway.

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