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Do you call yourself a Swinger ?

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By *aughtycp1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There is so much mockery and ignorance about swingers from the outside Vanilla world. This isn't helped by the media that often refer to the lifestyle as seedy or treat it as a comedy topic to be mocked. It took me a while to admit to myself that I am a Swinger and very proud to be part of the lifestyle community. Who else found it difficult in the beginning to admit to themselves that they were indeed a Swinger, and realised that the lifestyle in reality is completely different to what is portrayed in the media.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we are swingers ( our secret little hobby) Certainly not bothered how the media portray swinging or the people who do .

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

No I don’t as i am single. My view is swinging started from couples Singles have just exploded into it over time.

I just see myself as shagging about at times meeting new people

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

Yes I do.

I have enjoyed couples as a couple and I enjoy meeting both couples and single ladies as a single guy now.

Oh...just if any ladies are interested, I’m looking for a swinging partner, a partner in crime sonto speak

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Yes, if anybody asks us about it. Although the term Ethically Non-Monogamous is a better conversation starter. Even though once we explain the term, it’s obvious we’re swingers, people don’t seem to jump to the stereotype of keys in a bowl

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By *reakfast Not IncludedCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Yes, if anybody asks us about it. Although the term Ethically Non-Monogamous is a better conversation starter. Even though once we explain the term, it’s obvious we’re swingers, people don’t seem to jump to the stereotype of keys in a bowl"

Such a mouthful though isn't it but it's true.... I think it's a more on trend term that's generally more accepted than swingers.

I can't deny though, we are swingers haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I'm single I class myself as a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do.

I have enjoyed couples as a couple and I enjoy meeting both couples and single ladies as a single guy now.

Oh...just if any ladies are interested, I’m looking for a swinging partner, a partner in crime sonto speak "

Snap. Not the easiest thing to find lol

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Me alone am just a single guy who understands the swing lifestyle. When I'm with the wife we are swingers.

We have admitted to a few people, most have been ok about it a few have been judgy and one (who has tried the lifestyle) takes the piss due to some lame American "reality" show about swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I’m single I still class myself as a swinger

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We do call ourselves swingers

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I don't think we're uninhibited enough to call ourselves swingers. Swinger-adjacent maybe? Or just exhibitionists

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By *aughtycp1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Although I'm single I class myself as a swinger."

You can definitely be single and be a swinger x

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Our secret hobby x

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By *aughtycp1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I don't think we're uninhibited enough to call ourselves swingers. Swinger-adjacent maybe? Or just exhibitionists "

I was just the same in the very beginning of our journey so I totally understand where you are coming from. The lifestyle over the years has given me so much confidence I'm very happy to call myself a swinger. It's an interesting topic. It's a shame the media as a whole still has that dated image of swingers from the 1970s x

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If its a label I need then yes I am. But the scene is alot more than what alot of people see it as. So many layers in preference and kinks.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

So true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consider ourselves swingers.

In a previous relationship, my then partner spoke openly with her sister about it.

She was intrigued and enjoyed hearing what was shared with her.

She said to me one day, that we're weird because of it.

I pointed out that she was currently (whilst we were talking) sexting with a friend of the Man she intends to marry and that she'd already cheated him several times.

I said, one big difference between us is you find it normal to sneak, hide and lie.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Good point

Swingers are free of lies x

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Swingers and proud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed I’m in the same boat

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I proud to be a swinger, I'm proud to enjoy this lifestyle and I have no shame in what I do. This is my life and my sexuality. Luckily I am also able to share this lifestyle with My Girl who is also a proud swinger.

Let the fools snigger and hate if they want. Age has taught me to give less fucks and we will continue to live our best lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% we've never been shy about admitting it!

Don't care what people think about us, at the end of the day it's our life and we're having fun

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not a swinger mever will be im far too selective and not into sharing im too competitive and also dont think iv ever called myself names to myself i only do 3rd person talk when im in superhero mode and awesome

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

South

Yes we are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we're poly and class ourselves as that.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Very much so and have done since my (then) wife and I started in out twenties.

Now I tend to only meet couples who want an extra man (exceptions to every rule!) and 'swinging' seems to fit what we enjoy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I'm single I class myself as a swinger."

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I'm single I class myself as a swinger."

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a swinger but I don't use the term to describe me as I think it still has bad connotations.

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