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By *inkyEssexGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

southend

Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

Bloody hope not mate

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

41 !!! Seriously ....just dig a hole and bury me now

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By *illanelleWoman
over a year ago

Ryde, Isle of Wight


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

I wouldn't say so

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Not at all, i met my wife 4 yrs ago when i was 44, shes hot

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years "

Does this also apply to women? Im 45

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By *inkyEssexGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

southend

Ha I promise you I didn’t mean to make any older guys feel worse .

I just wondered where the tipping point was.

When the mature lover becomes to mature ( well not mentally, that would never happen)

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

Certainly not! You're definitely on my radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

Not to you! You’re obviously getting hotter with age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

41 doesn't help with filters ...

But something about cheese and wine.

And birthday cake.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you're thinking that most of us are then fucked

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

We are DOOMED

Vx

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"If you're thinking that most of us are then fucked "

Chance would be a fine thing

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

I love men in their 50’s

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm 44, and at most of the clubs I go to there seem to be plenty of older looking guys (more so than younger ones) doing very well for themselves.

So definitely not.

I think swinging is something that a lot of people get into after already living a bit anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're thinking that most of us are then fucked "

This is the aim

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

You’ve been in Fab long enough to know the answer to that question lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is I’m well and truly up the creek without a paddle as I turn 42 in 2 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all , women in their 40’s have been some of the best sex I’ve ever had!

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Jeez hope not I've just turned 40 wait til your near 50 and that'll probably be the case...

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By *ps4funCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"No not at all , women in their 40’s have been some of the best sex I’ve ever had! "

It's a good answer

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Jeez hope not I've just turned 40 wait til your near 50 and that'll probably be the case..."

Err......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

And you look absolutely stunning, loving your boots and legs!!!!!! You look mighty fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because there’s snow on the roof doesn’t mean the fires gone out

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

Hope not else there no hope for me at 50

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

Oh shit! D is done.. Although that'd be denying other women, so I'll just start crushing pill's in his meals..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not always about the age. If I like the look of someone and we get along then age isn’t an issue as long as your legal of course. Saying that I don’t think I’d go below 30 or above 50 but never say never

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

definately not , best is yet to cum ??

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines

Certai ly hope not I'm 56 and my partner of 5 yrs is stunning and younger and keeps me young lol

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Not for 31s to 51s!

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford


"Not for 31s to 51s!"

Oh bugger In had best tell M she has only a few months left in this case and I’ve had it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait till you get to over 50, then most of the fun stops and you have to go back to regular exercise to keep fit and mobile, lol.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Oh my goodness no I hope not! 51 here and having loads of fun, got to enjoy it while you can

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

Send us a pic of the friend??

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Oh my goodness no I hope not! 51 here and having loads of fun, got to enjoy it while you can "
you look stunning for your age I LOVE older women xx

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

41 is the beginning

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"It’s not always about the age. If I like the look of someone and we get along then age isn’t an issue as long as your legal of course. Saying that I don’t think I’d go below 30 or above 50 but never say never "

I do hope you would think about over 50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

I'm fucked then.

Just turned 48.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as too old xx

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best I get booked into a care home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best I get booked into a care home"

Best not. I generally find that pumping the residents is frowned upon.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45

I'm fucked then.

Just turned 48."

you have tits and a fanny so the same rules that apply to men dont apply to you on ages here

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years "

Lol 45/46 is when you fall into my age range. X

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I met C when he'd just turned 41. Been together since, seems like more of an auspicious number to me

P

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I'm 37 But still feel 21,body feels mid 80's though

41 is not past it

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By *lderguylikesfunMan
over a year ago

Preston

Wait till you get to 54 lol, now I only get to look at photos and reminisce as literally nobody looks for guys above 51 lol

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I was still getting meets into my late 70s then along came Covid, which together with a couple of other health issues have brought any chance of meeting anyone to an abrupt halt.

Still on here for the Forums though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

No strangely only applies to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not at all ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That rules out probably 80% of male singers as to old lmao

When people post this do they ever think how would that make a guy in his 50/60s feel?. KJ

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"

When people post this do they ever think how would that make a guy in his 50/60s feel?. KJ"

I'm in my 50th year and boy I feel alienated on here

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Is over 41 past it, that’s me on the scrap heap then. Ouch!!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm definitely past it then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It’s very old.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Experience counts my friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not old

I'm 46 and I've never had it so good

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Depends - if the upper limit is 40 then yes - if not - your good to go!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When people post this do they ever think how would that make a guy in his 50/60s feel?. KJ

I'm in my 50th year and boy I feel alienated on here"

I’m 65 and I can tell you exactly how it feels !!!!

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years "

47 and still getting meets... of all ages!

So there is hope yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hope it’s not or I’ll get my coat and leave very quietly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too old and definitely not too young. For some you'll be just right

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Not at all, i met my wife 4 yrs ago when i was 44, shes hot "

She is sooooo hot you lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a disgusting thought!

No one should be having sex past 40 anyway.

Don't these old kodgers know they are past it?

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By *hisCharmingMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Hopefully not

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"No such thing as too old xx"

I find that doesn’t apply to milk...

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

No hun, experience is a good quality

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently it is I got called gran the other day

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

40 was the cut off point. Surprised you didn't realise this already.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

It's ancient, I'm surprised you haven't been put into a care home yet

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

Not at all! The day you turn 46 is when you fall off most people’s radar in Fab, so make the most of the next 5 years

Does this also apply to women? Im 45 "

45 and gorgeous I'd like to add...

Legs to die for.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

Will you still Fab me

Will you still grab me

Now I'm 64

With apologies to Sir Paul McCartney

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By *inkyEssexGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

southend


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course

It's ancient, I'm surprised you haven't been put into a care home yet "

Haha guess I’d get my fair share of older women there at least

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By *inkyEssexGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

southend


"Apparently it is I got called gran the other day "

I had a mate turn round to me at the bar and say , you are 50 arnt you ?

I’m still not totally sure he was joking or not if I’m honest. Fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 48 I’m hoping it’s not the end yet!

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By *ebedy_XMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is 41 with a bit of a post lockdown dad bod to past it to attract older women now?

Asking for a friend of course "

I hope not, I'm 42

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Success on here has a lot more to do with how you present yourself and how you treat people than how old you are.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Definitely not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Lilly ) love a older gentleman, xoxo

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

You are never to old. It is only a number at the end of the day.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

My hubby is 54 and in best shape of life only as old as you feel xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the downhill slide after 55!

Unless of course you happen to be stunning! Sadly not!

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

men age like wine , well that's what I hope anyway, I am in my 60s

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

still a young man at 41,, look after yourself still look good when your 60,, like me only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mate all you over 40s should leave I will stay to keep watch

No need to thank me

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

Bloody hope not!

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford

54 hopening am not to old for you sexy ladies on here

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford

Wow lovely looking hot there

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I do hope not

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford


"I do hope not"
wow i hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, me and Mr O are past it then. Oh well, we’ll just quit.

X

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford


"Well, me and Mr O are past it then. Oh well, we’ll just quit.

X"

you dont look past it very sexy looking from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, me and Mr O are past it then. Oh well, we’ll just quit.

X you dont look past it very sexy looking from here "

Awww thank you x

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford


"Well, me and Mr O are past it then. Oh well, we’ll just quit.

X you dont look past it very sexy looking from here

Awww thank you x"

all my pleasure loving your profil mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope not or im done

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only if you make an issue of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup far to old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, me and Mr O are past it then. Oh well, we’ll just quit.

X"

That means am finished also

Shall we all start going to local British legion

Ha ha

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford

You all still got it in my eyes

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By *annydevonMan
over a year ago

Exeter

my first experience of this amazing, open minded group of people was a club / party in Somerset, shortly after I got divorced, in my early 30s.

I met people of all ages and one thing I don't think I'll forget was seeing a woman in her late 60s or early 70s, on her knees, sucking off quite a few men, while her husband sat watching on.

It was quite a busy night, with over 100 people. I was a total newbie. Quite a few men were watching some of the action and wanking and she was happily offering her mouth to any of the guys there.

She looked like your typical older lady that you might chat to in the queue in the post office... very prim and proper.

So, no, I don;t think age is an issue

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes it's far too old.

Now leave the site, and that's one less out of the way.

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By *exyshoeburypartiesCouple
over a year ago

Shoeburyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my first experience of this amazing, open minded group of people was a club / party in Somerset, shortly after I got divorced, in my early 30s.

I met people of all ages and one thing I don't think I'll forget was seeing a woman in her late 60s or early 70s, on her knees, sucking off quite a few men, while her husband sat watching on.

It was quite a busy night, with over 100 people. I was a total newbie. Quite a few men were watching some of the action and wanking and she was happily offering her mouth to any of the guys there.

She looked like your typical older lady that you might chat to in the queue in the post office... very prim and proper.

So, no, I don;t think age is an issue"

It wasn't an issue for that nice old lady.

May have been for her husband!

I doubt a woman of any age would have difficulty getting some sort of interest on this site.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

41 In my prime.

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Try the downhill slide after 55!

Unless of course you happen to be stunning! Sadly not!

"

Looking fabulous at 55

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