FabSwingers.com forum: Accoming

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I know it's been done to death and I won't name, names but I don't accom, if others don't that's also fine but it's a little frustrating when you get timewasters who you chat with, swap pics arrange a meet then all of a sudden it's "oh I can't accom at the moment cos......"

Is it so hard just to say this at the beginning, when it's clear on my profile that I don't accom!!! Rant over

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutly share your frustration and i have even got it in my profile text grrrrr and still they ask grrrrrrrr

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here , so frustrating so we tend only to meet in clubs now

By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

People just don't read profile texts half the time.

I get: want to meet this afternoon (I can't - I work); want to meet in the week (I only meet weekends); me and my oh are looking for a bi female (I am straight); I am a dom and I want to tie you up and fuck you (I need to trust you); I would love to give that arse a good beating (I don't do pain); I am looking for someone to go to a club to (I don't do clubs); I would love to do some camming with you (I don't cam).

I just delete the message. If they can't be arsed reading why should I be arsed answering.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not make it clear at the start of the conversation?

or better yet, just meet them for a social drink and stop with the back and forth messages that make you excited and then you crash and burn when you dont get what you asked.