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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
I saw this headed "I'm Not A Real Domme"
and because you can't put links to websites, I am setting it out almost in full which may explain the problem in an amusing way.
I'm Not A Real Domme
June 25, 2019|BDSM, Dominant Women, femdom, kink life
What makes a "real Domme"? How does a "real Domme" act? How can you tell if you are -in fact - a "real Domme"? If you happen to be an out & proud Dominant Woman on the internet, people will TELL YOU, that's for sure. People will critique your every move. People will measure you against some imaginary, perfect, Dominant Woman that exists in their heads. People will give your their opinion on how real you are, how you should be, and how you don't measure up. People have shit to say, and I've taken a thorough scientific sample, and it is just that. Shit.
I surveyed 100 dominant women on the internet (mostly professional Dommes) to see what they have heard from the FemDom/Kink/Fetish/BDSM community & general public. Turns out, we all hear the same damn story. It is a pathetic story. It is a stupid story. It is a one-dimensional stereotype of a story, and if it is the only story that can exist for a Dominant Woman ... than fuck. Fuck this. Fuck all of this. Chalk me up for fake, because I want no part of this story - that we all constantly hear- of what constitutes a "real Domme".
Y'all ready for the shit list?
I've ordered them from most commonly heard to least. How your breath. The stench is real.
1. Real Dommes don't charge for sessions. A real dominant woman engages in female domination & fetish activities for free, because she NEEDS it & WANTS it.
2. Real Dommes are never polite. Real Dommes do not smile. Real Dommes do not show kindness.
3. Real Dommes would NEVER, EVER, EVER, show ANY nudity whatsoever, AT ALL.
4. Real Dommes never switch.
5. Real Dommes wear fetish clothing 24/7. Real Dommes always dress the part.
6. Real Dommes never suck dick.
7. Real Dommes do not have vanilla jobs.
8. Real Dommes do not have limits.
9. Real Dommes do not have kids.
10. Real Dommes do not struggle materialistically, emotionally, or psychologically.
11. Real Dommes do not need any forms of affection or aftercare.
12. Real Dommes never have sex with their submissives.
13. Real Dommes love to use a strap-on. All dominant woman must love pegging.
14. Real Dommes work with & collar all subs who want it.
15. Real Dommes never cater to their submissive's fetishes. Real Dommes do whatever they want.
16. Real Domes don't use safe words.
17. Real Dommes travel with security.
18. Real Dommes have live-in sl#ves. Only lifestyle Dommes are real.
19. Real Dommes do not have Dominant partners.
20. Real Dommes have their own dungeon space.
21. Real Dommes show their face in pictures online.
22. Real Dommes aren't too sexual.
23. Real Dommes never do escorting, or any time of vanilla sex work.
24. Real Dommes are always active in their local kink communities.
25. Real Dommes always have fresh manicures & pedicures.
26. Real Dommes do not operate clip stores or webcam rooms.
27. Real Domes don't need to vet clients.
28. Real Dommes do not use social media.
29. Real Dommes do not have little sides.
30. Real Dommes do not engage in Findom.
31. Real Dommes do not serve other Dominant Women.
32. Real Dommes do not have interests outside of BDSM & kink.
33. Real Dommes are born with a whip in their hand.
I have to stop, or I'll barf all over my computer.
Who is this imaginary, idealized "Real Domme"? Batman? Because it sounds like Batman.
Seriously. Who on earth could live up to this abominable list? Certainly no male dominant. So, why the list of demands when it comes to Female Domination. |
