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Women and their libido

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on and off this site for years. I've seen some fems and couples join this site, and literally within 2 months they will have 20 plus meets from guys. Then it will stop and then nothing and then they leave. Some return but there different second time round. I've also known fems personally who have embraced the lifestyle for a short period and then just walked away from it and not being bothered with it again. So as a bloke who keeps coming back lol. I wanna know if fems find it easy to switch their libido on and off whenever they want??? Because as a bloke mines going 24/7 and it's impossible to switch it off

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I don’t think it is a case that women switch their Libidos on and off at all but most people experience fluctuations in their libido for a multitude of reasons. I would say that Women’s libidos are prone to more attacks than mens as they have so many fluctuations in hormone levels.

My wife and I are frequently on opposite ends of libido levels which was one of the reasons we went for an ENM relationship, that way when one person’s libido is tanking and the other’s is raging no one goes without and no one feels guilty because they just aren’t feeling it.

If your libido is always full on I’d count yourself lucky but bear in mind that is not the case for others and some really struggle with it.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Libido waxes and wanes for a lot of reasons. Same as for men I suspect despite your claim yours is always present.

Stress, physical illness, family responsibilities, work ones…

For women yes also hormones can play a key part, especially at particular stages in our lives eg just after having children you’re shattered, you’re “touched out” and emotional overwhelmed so the libido tanks!

Sometimes I feel like I never want to fuck again others all the time! Others somewhere in between where I could be tempted if the right person shows interest

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By *rnyCpl45Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

My libido goes so up and down and for years I didn't care for sex at all. Didn't want it at all. Didn't even think about it. But the last 3 months it's been sky high and I can't get enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby has a relatively low libido, but we do workaround and make things work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My libido goes so up and down and for years I didn't care for sex at all. Didn't want it at all. Didn't even think about it. But the last 3 months it's been sky high and I can't get enough "

Sounds like me! Plus the more I have the more I want

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