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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for a newbie for a social meet this coming Friday to join myself and another fab user for a few drinks.

Newbie must meet following requirements.

Be unverified, we wanna pop your verification cherry

Be aged between 26-40.

Be a white Caucasian male.

Have a face picture either on profile or one that can't be sent privately.

If interested comment below so both myself and other fab user can see interest, and, inbox myself if no face pic in your public gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if after a meet then do not be so fecking lazy and get looking for one as so many guys out there waiting to meet a sexy girl

to post a message here is either d*unkenness drivel or just plain stupid

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum."

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? "
photo verified or verified

So to post for this, photo I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? photo verified or verified

So to post for this, photo I guess"

Learn something new everyday

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? photo verified or verified

So to post for this, photo I guess"

Cue massive photo-veri drive from the new guys.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? photo verified or verified

So to post for this, photo I guess

Cue massive photo-veri drive from the new guys. "

Yup...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you all the luck, I have met many unverified guys (i was on here for a few years before now) and found them to be my best meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's if they can be bothered to read through to the end of the list of demands.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a great idea, bit like buddying up at work with the newbies!!'

And at the end of the day we were all new once and un verified!! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you all the luck, I have met many unverified guys (i was on here for a few years before now) and found them to be my best meets! "

This is our joint account, we see so many posts from singles guys moaning no one gives them a break, we have couple hours this Friday, and happy to meet someone for couple drinks, help them get their foot on the ladder so to speak.

Re unverified, that is why we have also given the option to reply to us privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's if they can be bothered to read through to the end of the list of demands......... "

3 things.... Hardly a list of demands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the profile......."

Our profile on this account hasn't been updated yet, for the meet we are looking for on Friday, we are looking for what is written in OP.

God, no trying to help some people on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the profile......."

Think these are the 3 things the OP would like,

Newbie must meet following requirements.

Be unverified, we wanna pop your verification cherry

Be aged between 26-40.

Be a white Caucasian male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a great idea, bit like buddying up at work with the newbies!!'

And at the end of the day we were all new once and un verified!! Good luck "

Thank you, glad you have seen this post for how it was intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you all the luck, I have met many unverified guys (i was on here for a few years before now) and found them to be my best meets!

This is our joint account, we see so many posts from singles guys moaning no one gives them a break, we have couple hours this Friday, and happy to meet someone for couple drinks, help them get their foot on the ladder so to speak.

Re unverified, that is why we have also given the option to reply to us privately"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the profile.......

Think these are the 3 things the OP would like,

Newbie must meet following requirements.

Be unverified, we wanna pop your verification cherry

Be aged between 26-40.

Be a white Caucasian male."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, if only I was 4 years older...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if after a meet then do not be so fecking lazy and get looking for one as so many guys out there waiting to meet a sexy girl

to post a message here is either d*unkenness drivel or just plain stupid

"

Why? It's the forums we often see posts from single men saying they can get meets, so surely perfect place to make the post

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I only pointed out the verified bit. I am not passing comment on the rest.

Good luck with the pm's... I think that may be the more popular route.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only pointed out the verified bit. I am not passing comment on the rest.

Good luck with the pm's... I think that may be the more popular route.

Have fun"

Took no offence to what you had written _iew, we have posted the standard meet me, just shocked to be honest as some responses, after all, just trying to help newbies out, and newbies read forums, so why not post here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol at replies. No point helping on here. U still get moaned at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

York social ...

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By *iddlesbroughmaleMan
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Bout time someone give the newbies chance if you arnt verified people dont want to no good on you pet

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? photo verified or verified

So to post for this, photo I guess

Cue massive photo-veri drive from the new guys. "

Cue a load of guys making second new accounts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had 3 genuine messages from guys so far. If that's all that are interested may invite them all to the social for a mini meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only had 3 genuine messages from guys so far. If that's all that are interested may invite them all to the social for a mini meet. "

Wow we are shocked...plenty of time before Friday though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and good on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? "

No you don't but you have to wait a week I think before you can post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If unverified they may not be able to post on the forum.

Do you have to be verified to post on the forums? photo verified or verified

So to post for this, photo I guess

Cue massive photo-veri drive from the new guys.

Cue a load of guys making second new accounts lol"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"York social ..."

Very few single guys there, new or otherwise - mostly couples. One of the reasons I'm not going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if after a meet then do not be so fecking lazy and get looking for one as so many guys out there waiting to meet a sexy girl

to post a message here is either d*unkenness drivel or just plain stupid

"

please explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bout time someone give the newbies chance if you arnt verified people dont want to no good on you pet "

That's not true. I'm always breaking in newbies lol. It's actually become a bit of a joke at local club when a new guy walks in lol

Good luck to op

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from the op's profile ...

"Once you have _iewed my profile, I would appreciate that you don't _iew again unless you fit criteria I am looking for in a meet. I will block those that constantly looks without striking up some sort of conversation."

fuck me ive seen it all now.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

What a good idea OP, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, so many people making unwarranted comments, I was warned about this so called flaming and forum clique and assassination of profiles, I thought it was just people sulking but from 3 posts I have read this morning its all TRUE, if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything, many seem to like attacking others on here then they take the woe is me stance when its them in the firing line. So many judgemental people from people who.partake in a lifestyle that they don't want people to pass judgement on.

The mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from the op's profile ...

"Once you have _iewed my profile, I would appreciate that you don't _iew again unless you fit criteria I am looking for in a meet. I will block those that constantly looks without striking up some sort of conversation."

fuck me ive seen it all now. "

The OP wasn't looking to have their profile evaluated, if you read the opening post the 3 requirements are on there, what the OP is trying to good to do is great, inviting single uncertified males to a social meet with them, single male gets verified and may stand more of a chance for further meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say good on you dirty eyes! If I had more free time, I would do the same!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am interested, only veri is cam veri x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for a newbie for a social meet this coming Friday to join myself and another fab user for a few drinks.

Newbie must meet following requirements.

Be unverified, we wanna pop your verification cherry

Be aged between 26-40.

Be a white Caucasian male.

Have a face picture either on profile or one that can't be sent privately.

If interested comment below so both myself and other fab user can see interest, and, inbox myself if no face pic in your public gallery."

Give me 5 minutes to set up a new profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to let you know I'm the male half of the meet. Just thought I'd show my face but don't let it out you off saying hi. You can mail me any questions too

Will.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Looking for a newbie for a social meet this coming Friday to join myself and another fab user for a few drinks.

Newbie must meet following requirements.

Be unverified, we wanna pop your verification cherry

Be aged between 26-40.

Be a white Caucasian male.

Have a face picture either on profile or one that can't be sent privately.

If interested comment below so both myself and other fab user can see interest, and, inbox myself if no face pic in your public gallery."

Hang on a minute - I'll just create a second profile.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"from the op's profile ...

"Once you have _iewed my profile, I would appreciate that you don't _iew again unless you fit criteria I am looking for in a meet. I will block those that constantly looks without striking up some sort of conversation."

fuck me ive seen it all now. "

Reason for this on my profile if you had bothered to ask, is many many people were _iewing 20 or so times a day, without having decency to say hi, so obviously picture hunters, which I have a right to block!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow, so many people making unwarranted comments, I was warned about this so called flaming and forum clique and assassination of profiles, I thought it was just people sulking but from 3 posts I have read this morning its all TRUE, if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything, many seem to like attacking others on here then they take the woe is me stance when its them in the firing line. So many judgemental people from people who.partake in a lifestyle that they don't want people to pass judgement on.

The mind boggles"

Couldn't agree more, be damned if you do, be damned if you don't with this site sometimes. Try to offer a social to unverified people and get ripped to shreds for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say good on you dirty eyes! If I had more free time, I would do the same!x"

Thank you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, so many people making unwarranted comments, I was warned about this so called flaming and forum clique and assassination of profiles, I thought it was just people sulking but from 3 posts I have read this morning its all TRUE, if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything, many seem to like attacking others on here then they take the woe is me stance when its them in the firing line. So many judgemental people from people who.partake in a lifestyle that they don't want people to pass judgement on.

The mind boggles

Couldn't agree more, be damned if you do, be damned if you don't with this site sometimes. Try to offer a social to unverified people and get ripped to shreds for it."

And there was me thinking (and hoping!) that things had gotten a little friendlier in her of late!

There's been a few blatant digs on threads today that have been pretty unnecessary - not sure if there's something in the air today!

This seemed like a great idea to me - given the number of times you see posts from those who feel they're not given a chance to get started in life on here. Surely posts like this should be welcomed and applauded for trying to give newbies a chance, rather than have holes picked in them and profiles criticised?

If I was a newbie i'd be messaging like a shot and keeping my fingers tightly crossed! Good luck guys - hope it works out for you and from a personal point of _iew - ignore the negatives and focus on the positives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow, so many people making unwarranted comments, I was warned about this so called flaming and forum clique and assassination of profiles, I thought it was just people sulking but from 3 posts I have read this morning its all TRUE, if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything, many seem to like attacking others on here then they take the woe is me stance when its them in the firing line. So many judgemental people from people who.partake in a lifestyle that they don't want people to pass judgement on.

The mind boggles

Couldn't agree more, be damned if you do, be damned if you don't with this site sometimes. Try to offer a social to unverified people and get ripped to shreds for it.

And there was me thinking (and hoping!) that things had gotten a little friendlier in her of late!

There's been a few blatant digs on threads today that have been pretty unnecessary - not sure if there's something in the air today!

This seemed like a great idea to me - given the number of times you see posts from those who feel they're not given a chance to get started in life on here. Surely posts like this should be welcomed and applauded for trying to give newbies a chance, rather than have holes picked in them and profiles criticised?

If I was a newbie i'd be messaging like a shot and keeping my fingers tightly crossed! Good luck guys - hope it works out for you and from a personal point of _iew - ignore the negatives and focus on the positives. "

Thank you Obi

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Once again how is it possible for anyone to find an issue with this very self explanatory, humane thing to do lol! I know what it is, people are either bored or broke... For me I don't have an issue with the world cause my bank balance makes me smile all day ;0)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I only pointed out the verified bit. I am not passing comment on the rest.

Good luck with the pm's... I think that may be the more popular route.

Have fun

Took no offence to what you had written _iew, we have posted the standard meet me, just shocked to be honest as some responses, after all, just trying to help newbies out, and newbies read forums, so why not post here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thanks for the positives guys. We have had only nice pvt messages from new guys. All saying they are so greatful for any help they can get. We will prob meet a few of them and get them onto the scene.

Will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, well only had 5 people message that fir criteria. And of those 5 only 2 can meet Friday. So it looks like it will be the 4 of us. Still time for others to say hi and join in though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once again how is it possible for anyone to find an issue with this very self explanatory, humane thing to do lol! I know what it is, people are either bored or broke... For me I don't have an issue with the world cause my bank balance makes me smile all day ;0)"

I thought it was a very nice thing to do too and a great idea

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"from the op's profile ...

"Once you have _iewed my profile, I would appreciate that you don't _iew again unless you fit criteria I am looking for in a meet. I will block those that constantly looks without striking up some sort of conversation."

fuck me ive seen it all now. "

why its not written in our profile but we do that.. our profile us there to find people we want to play with not for people that we wont meet to keep _iewing it.. so we block.. nothing wrong with that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from the op's profile ...

"Once you have _iewed my profile, I would appreciate that you don't _iew again unless you fit criteria I am looking for in a meet. I will block those that constantly looks without striking up some sort of conversation."

fuck me ive seen it all now.

why its not written in our profile but we do that.. our profile us there to find people we want to play with not for people that we wont meet to keep _iewing it.. so we block.. nothing wrong with that..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm, well only had 5 people message that fir criteria. And of those 5 only 2 can meet Friday. So it looks like it will be the 4 of us. Still time for others to say hi and join in though "

The term 'fits criteria' confuses me somewhat.

Are you meeting anyone who is a white caucasian male that is 26-40, or do they need to be a white caucasian male 26-40 that on the basis of their pics you would consider shagging at some point ?

In other words, it is purely a social and an genuine attempt to help ANY white 26-40 year old guys get verified or is it a social with an agenda beyond that ?

Not trying to be mean or narky, just clarifying a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's purely a social, though if we get on, who's to say fun couldn't happen further down the line.

We have set age requirements to ages of people we socialise with outside FABS,

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's purely a social, though if we get on, who's to say fun couldn't happen further down the line.

We have set age requirements to ages of people we socialise with outside FABS, "

go do

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"

I thought it was a very nice thing to do too and a great idea"

Have skipped a few posts, but I think its a good idea.

Hope you have a fab time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, so far so good, meeting couple guys tomorrow, if any other unverified guys want to join us, drop us a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello here i am only slightly ut on the age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danofyork inbox us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

Thought we would update, met a lovely guy tonight called Rob, would also meet him again. Sadly one guy had to cancel due to work, and one couldn't make it.

Will be looking to meet more newbies next Friday

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Interesting results....

How many others predicted the outcome? I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are gonna give the ones that cancelled a second try next week. As things do happen. And see what happens.

It was still a good night. Rob was good company. And I think the pub regulars were enjoying listening to our conversations lol.

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