FabSwingers.com forum: Safe sex ,think not

By *lbec OP Couple
over a year ago

Whitstable

Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

That happens a lot, much more than the safe sex brigade admit.

My _iew... Consider your own exposure to risk and everyone you may meet..may have shagged someone without the use of a condom for penetrative sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That happens a lot, much more than the safe sex brigade admit.

My _iew... Consider your own exposure to risk and everyone you may meet..may have shagged someone without the use of a condom for penetrative sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In it's own way it's no different from the fake profile issue on here i.e.

Assume everyone you contact online is a guy until you can verify otherwise.

So therefore assume every meet has fucked bareback recently and take suitible precautions until you feel safe enough to verify otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I _iew every meet as a "barebacker", I take the neccessary precautions and have fun. Thats all you can do apart from walking away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always say treat everyone as if they play bare and protect yourself accordinly, you not go far wrong then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I had no idea that some people lie. Everyone seems so genuine.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Wow I had no idea that some people lie. Everyone seems so genuine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!"

heres a crazy idea, i do have them every now and again

but many the guys she has met before did play safe, all because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Thats very common on here.Plenty given the chance will do bareback,esspecially in a gangbang situation,which is just crazy!

Allways safeplay for us including re-peat meets!!!!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Wow I had no idea that some people lie. Everyone seems so genuine."

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Wow I had no idea that some people lie. Everyone seems so genuine."

And in other news, a bear was seen today taking a shit in the woods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow I had no idea that some people lie. Everyone seems so genuine."

Well yes everyone does sound genuine.

I don't think anyones figured out that I'm a 67 year old bloke yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol each to there own.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

One hell of a risk in my _iew for all concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How others choose to play is their business, can't understand why people get so wound up over other people's profiles and over people they will probably never meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state that at times I play bare. Funny that guys I've done it with don't show verifications as I do put that it was bare.

However just because on occasion I do. Certainly doesn't mean that other guys I've met haven't played safe

Oh and if I'm ever looking for bare I actually get more messages than normal.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what the issue is and why all the anti bare back threads are doing the rounds???....everyone knows the risks and its there choice...its up to the individual to way up the risks surely??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

heres a crazy idea, i do have them every now and again

but many the guys she has met before did play safe, all because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea"

Do you mean that you never jumped to a conclusion? And judged someone on the evidence at hand? Rather than read between the lines and make your own sensational _iewpoint then spread it on a forum as 100% truth

Don't be so bloody ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!"

You mean like the black guy on your verification has pics with different women doing bareback lol

Get your own house in order before slinging mud at others, I actually thought id have to get a few verifications in before I found one.

Now do we all judge you like you have this woman??

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

heres a crazy idea, i do have them every now and again

but many the guys she has met before did play safe, all because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea"

This ^^^^ Saved me typing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop being so judgemental ffs, this is a sex site, people are adults, they can fuck as they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!"

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By *lbec OP Couple
over a year ago

Whitstable

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

heres a crazy idea, i do have them every now and again

but many the guys she has met before did play safe, all because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea"

On her p

ie she says only does bareback !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

heres a crazy idea, i do have them every now and again

but many the guys she has met before did play safe, all because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea

On her p

ie she says only does bareback !!"

pls pm me her username x

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By *lbec OP Couple
over a year ago

Whitstable

"How others choose to play is their business, can't understand why people get so wound up over other people's profiles and over people they will probably never meet x"

Who said we was not going to meet one of theses guys until we looked at the verification trial

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"...because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"stop being so judgemental ffs, this is a sex site, people are adults, they can fuck as they like"

well said

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"stop being so judgemental ffs, this is a sex site, people are adults, they can fuck as they like

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How others choose to play is their business, can't understand why people get so wound up over other people's profiles and over people they will probably never meet x

Who said we was not going to meet one of theses guys until we looked at the verification trial"

You haven't answered me, the black guy who has verified you states he plays safe yet has pics of him fucking different women bareback.

Shall we judge you for playing with a " dirty barebacker "? Or shall we just let people get on with what they enjoy, and if uts something we don't enjoy, perhaps we just ignore it rather than rant like an idiot.

Your whining cause guys who profess to play safe have fucked this girl bareback, yet you have verification from a guy who fucks bareback.

Pot kettle and black ffs

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By *lbec OP Couple
over a year ago

Whitstable

"How others choose to play is their business, can't understand why people get so wound up over other people's profiles and over people they will probably never meet x

Who said we was not going to meet one of theses guys until we looked at the verification trial

You haven't answered me, the black guy who has verified you states he plays safe yet has pics of him fucking different women bareback.

Your whining cause guys who profess to play safe have fucked this girl bareback, yet you have verification from a guy who fucks bareback.

Pot kettle and black ffs"

You should read what I said before comments, did not say would not fuck anyone who has done bareback, I will play with them but always be safe. Your profile says you are looking for bareback, thats fine ,have no problem with that. What I have is a problem with people who lie and say only play safe when they do not.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

this old chestnut again yawn!!, its up to the person people involved surely? i myself dont trust anyone, so always cover up 4 my own safety, and if uv half a brain thats wht most wld do?. i got asked the other day id love to go bare back wth u she said ive just been tested im all good bla bla realy ?? i just thought if shes sayin it to me im nt special, who else is she sayin and doin it to aswell so out come the condoms sorry !!xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!"

Assume everyone you meet has fucked 100 people bb, and they all have done the same. You want 10,000 peoples problems, thats up to you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"What I have is a problem with people who lie and say only play safe when they do not."

Yet the woman whose profile you quoted was being 100% honest about what she wanted.

So why did you feel you needed to post about it here? Hmmm?

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

"How others choose to play is their business, can't understand why people get so wound up over other people's profiles and over people they will probably never meet x

Who said we was not going to meet one of theses guys until we looked at the verification trial

You haven't answered me, the black guy who has verified you states he plays safe yet has pics of him fucking different women bareback.

Your whining cause guys who profess to play safe have fucked this girl bareback, yet you have verification from a guy who fucks bareback.

Pot kettle and black ffs

OP... why does it matter? You play how you want to play and others will play how they want to play. You will find that sometimes people do actually tell fibs to get what they want, if you think otherwise maybe you should find a different hobby.

Otherwise just assume everyone is a bare-backer and always insist on a condom so you may feel 100% safe in the knowledge that the perpetuation of STI's is nothing to do with you

Oh yeah, except that you are a swinger and as such are likely to be relatively promiscuous which is a behaviour that does not compliment the practice of safe-sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly I would only play bareback if me and the girl went and got tested together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even play safe having a wank! I never know where I've been.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Your profile says you are looking for bareback, thats fine ,have no problem with that. What I have is a problem with people who lie and say only play safe when they do not."

If honesty leads to people feeling that they are being judged, victimised or excluded, just for exercising their free will, then many will resort to lies in order to get what they want from you ...or at least, to protect themselves from feeling marginalised. That is human nature, and no amount of moaning about it will change the fact. The more negative anti-barebacking responses displayed in some of these threads only serves to encourage more lies and deceit...

If you don't like what you see or read, then move on. There is nothing at all to be gained from dissecting profiles, picking holes in them and trying to catch someone out by setting traps ...as some idiot admitted to doing, on one of the recent anti-barebacking threads.

Bottom line: do you really think a thread like this encourages people to be more honest when writing their profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

heres a crazy idea, i do have them every now and again

but many the guys she has met before did play safe, all because she is asking for a bare back gang bang that does not mean everyone on her verification list have fucked her bare

just a idea"

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By *ovlad1986Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

I would always have a rubber on to many risks now of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I even play safe having a wank! I never know where I've been."

on a serious note i know a guy who does wank with a condom on

He said he sometimes goes soft as soon as he puts one on so thought wanking in a condom would help his cock get used to being hard with one on, he said its helped a bit

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By *ovlad1986Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

I have done that myself but I don't get the whole blow job with one on as need feeling for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How others choose to play is their business, can't understand why people get so wound up over other people's profiles and over people they will probably never meet x

Who said we was not going to meet one of theses guys until we looked at the verification trial

You haven't answered me, the black guy who has verified you states he plays safe yet has pics of him fucking different women bareback.

Your whining cause guys who profess to play safe have fucked this girl bareback, yet you have verification from a guy who fucks bareback.

Pot kettle and black ffs

You mean like the black guy you met who you verified and he verified you lol.

Or was that ok cause he was a hung black guy and they are harder to come by??

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By *lbec OP Couple
over a year ago

Whitstable

"What I have is a problem with people who lie and say only play safe when they do not.

Yet the woman whose profile you quoted was being 100% honest about what she wanted.

So why did you feel you needed to post about it here? Hmmm?"

was posting about people whi lie and say they only play safe when they dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I have is a problem with people who lie and say only play safe when they do not.

Yet the woman whose profile you quoted was being 100% honest about what she wanted.

So why did you feel you needed to post about it here? Hmmm?

was posting about people whi lie and say they only play safe when they dont"

Like the guy who you verified.

You come on ranting about something you have condoned yourself by meeting and indeed verifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen a womans profile.She is after being Gangbanged by 8 to 10 guys and wants bareback and for them to cum inside her !!

On her verications of guys who she has met (all recent) say they only play safe !!!!

Cover up you cannot trust anybody !!!!

Assume everyone you meet has fucked 100 people bb, and they all have done the same. You want 10,000 peoples problems, thats up to you."
yes you make a valid point but you are taking the same risk if you play with a 100 condom users who think because they use a condom they dont need to visit the gum clinic were as 90% of bare back players visit the gum clinic reguler because they know the risks

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

At the end of the day all you can do is to take everything on the site with a pinch of salt, and not read into everything as gospel... So if that means protecting yourself as much as you can then in the end that is all you can do....

In the end of the day the only person responsible for your Health and can do something to directly change it is you!

I always liken it to crossing a road... There are always risks... And it is probably safer to cross at a traffic lights than not, and always safer to look both ways than not, and normally safer to cross a country road than it is a 6 lane motorway......

In the end it is all about judging that risk

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I wrestled bareback once. It's a right bugger trying to shake em off.

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