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First time swinging pre nerves

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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Mr here, we been on here a while but not done alot as we have family commitments so once or twice a month at best we get out.

So second time at the club, had few offers and Saturday night was one step closer (doing stuff in front of multiple people etc) had one lad come back with us and me and missus did stuff in front of him but never went no further. The thought excites me and I was up for it but everyone was at a different level. Anyhoo, I'm nervous about any repercussions. My biggest issue is not being able to perform on the night and it creating a domino effect

I know she's bang up for it which excites me more.

Has anyone else encountered this issue or is it just me

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We’ve been doing this for years, we still get nervous before meets, entering clubs etc, it’s totally natural to feel that way

We’ve encountered guys who struggle at first to perform, again it’s natural and down to nerves, best advice is don’t put any big expectations on yourself and relax

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Nervousness is part of it for most people, it's part of the fun. Just try and chill, go at your own speed and relax. Just do what you are comfortable with and take your time...

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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

We've spoke about this for years so it's finally happening. Scary and exciting

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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people feel nervous and excited before a meet it’s normal.

The secret is to relax and go with the flow. It gets easier especially with people you form a friendship with. Just go at your own pace. Tc

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I worry about these things so you're not alone. I don't normally drink but thinking afew vodka shots help me lol. Like with everything in life, keep doing something and usually it gets better. If it doesn't, it wasn't meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to get nervous, but that's now turned to excitement. Everyone is different, after a few goes at it you're confidence will grow. Go with the flow and ENJOY

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really nervous on the way to a couples house.

It was just a short drive and my adrenaline was definitely pumping.

Got there , parked , took a deep breath and went into the house greeted by her giving him a bj so I just undressed and joined in . Performance wasn’t affected

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Little steps .. having nervous excitement is v normal .. the buzz of a meet is the magic of swing life ... try and enjoy the moment and enjoy whatever happens together no matter how it comes x

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By *eard and Tatts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Thank you all so far you been great

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

All at your own pace. One (baby) step at a time, or a giant leap, it's up to you. As long as your comfortable with each step then all is good

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Been in and out of lifestyle for years and still get nervous as quite shy and find difficult to small talk sometimes

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks


"Little steps .. having nervous excitement is v normal .. the buzz of a meet is the magic of swing life ... try and enjoy the moment and enjoy whatever happens together no matter how it comes x"

Good advice x

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