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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of people give out positive feedback but have you ever given or had negative feedback sent and if so would you show it on your profile ?

I mean sometimes you may not hit it off with that person and part as friends never to meet up again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people give out positive feedback but have you ever given or had negative feedback sent and if so would you show it on your profile ?

I mean sometimes you may not hit it off with that person and part as friends never to meet up again xx "

to be honest we have met some couples singles and not played as didnt get that attraction or spark, but still got along with them so no wouldnt leave anything on there veri,s that was bad,

but would put something like we met they was genuine good to get along with etc etc but no need to go into great detail, and if was bad we wouldnt leave them a veri

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Why on earth would anyone want to display a bad veri, surely they are trying to attract people not put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to come across anyone showing a negative verification in their profile.

Hence I do not pay much attention to verifications, as it is way too one-sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have yet to come across anyone showing a negative verification in their profile.

Hence I do not pay much attention to verifications, as it is way too one-sided.

"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a swingers site called local *+¥+$$¥ they used to allow you to leave negative feedback(not used that site for over 7yrs)

Would look at a profile read all neg feedback then there would be all positive...

You could say one bad meet for us could be a good meet for you xxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Would you leave negative feed back just because there was no attraction??

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Lots of people give out positive feedback but have you ever given or had negative feedback sent and if so would you show it on your profile ?

I mean sometimes you may not hit it off with that person and part as friends never to meet up again xx

to be honest we have met some couples singles and not played as didnt get that attraction or spark, but still got along with them so no wouldnt leave anything on there veri,s that was bad,

but would put something like we met they was genuine good to get along with etc etc but no need to go into great detail, and if was bad we wouldnt leave them a veri "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couple things here;

1. i am pretty sure if anyone recieved a negative veri; they not display it

2. but i would like the site to have some inter member private forum, wherby you can openly "out" the idiots on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people give out positive feedback but have you ever given or had negative feedback sent and if so would you show it on your profile ?

I mean sometimes you may not hit it off with that person and part as friends never to meet up again xx "

Never had this, but we did laugh at a verification we saw on a profile recently. It said "met this man several times now and he never fails to disappoint."

Tricky language, English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" couple things here;

1. i am pretty sure if anyone recieved a negative veri; they not display it

2. but i would like the site to have some inter member private forum, wherby you can openly "out" the idiots on the site "

And that lends itself to an exclusive club within the site itself.

Say if a couple thought you were being disrespectful when in fact you were teasing or messing around, you are now shitlisted on a lot of other peoples profiles.

Fair much?

Not only would it be bad for the site, there would be rival factions within the site itself.

That would snowball out of control.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Lots of people give out positive feedback but have you ever given or had negative feedback sent and if so would you show it on your profile ?

I mean sometimes you may not hit it off with that person and part as friends never to meet up again xx

Never had this, but we did laugh at a verification we saw on a profile recently. It said "met this man several times now and he never fails to disappoint."

Tricky language, English."

I wonder if it was intentional on the verifier's part.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

wouldnt work if u got negative veri ud just hide it ??

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"There is a swingers site called local *+¥+$$¥ they used to allow you to leave negative feedback(not used that site for over 7yrs)

Would look at a profile read all neg feedback then there would be all positive...

You could say one bad meet for us could be a good meet for you xxx"

I think I know the site you mean - while you had the option of not displaying verifications, (unlike Fabs where all it takes is one verification to get a green tick, a bad verifaction will still show a green tick) the site worked on an "average" basis starting with 3 out of 5 stars.. the more positives sending the user's score to 5, and negatives sending down to 1 star.

To counter balance possibility of fraudulent/malicious bad verifications however, the site put some logic in that it would take say 5 bad verifications to overturn the effect of 1 positive. That way if you had 3 positive and 1 negative, you'd still be okay with 4/5 starts. Seemed to make sense.

Then I saw a profile with half a star (yes, less than 1 star) and the user was not showing any but swore to me she was "genuine" (how I hate that word) and was trying to be "discrete",... and ofcourse not showing any face pics because of her "job" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes people dont leave a verification.

if you cannot say anything nice,say nothing at all comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont leave verifications but its not cause the meet didnt go well just that I never get round to doing it. Im not bothered if a girl does not leave me one

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


" couple things here;

1. i am pretty sure if anyone recieved a negative veri; they not display it

2. but i would like the site to have some inter member private forum, wherby you can openly "out" the idiots on the site "

Ah like a clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a meet with a lady at first all was going well she was a great kisser body to die for moved up to the bed room got undressed jumped in bed then a revoulting sweat smell hit me it was rank. i just couldnt carry on told her i made a mistake and she wasnt for me got dressed and took her home

next day got a nasty verification saying i couldnt get it up was tempted to fight back with my own take on events but didnt she even contacted folk of my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people give out positive feedback but have you ever given or had negative feedback sent and if so would you show it on your profile ?

I mean sometimes you may not hit it off with that person and part as friends never to meet up again xx "

People block when they don't get on so its not really going to be available to display.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is a swingers site called local *+¥+$$¥ they used to allow you to leave negative feedback(not used that site for over 7yrs)

Would look at a profile read all neg feedback then there would be all positive...

You could say one bad meet for us could be a good meet for you xxx

I think I know the site you mean - while you had the option of not displaying verifications, (unlike Fabs where all it takes is one verification to get a green tick, a bad verifaction will still show a green tick) the site worked on an "average" basis starting with 3 out of 5 stars.. the more positives sending the user's score to 5, and negatives sending down to 1 star.

To counter balance possibility of fraudulent/malicious bad verifications however, the site put some logic in that it would take say 5 bad verifications to overturn the effect of 1 positive. That way if you had 3 positive and 1 negative, you'd still be okay with 4/5 starts. Seemed to make sense.

Then I saw a profile with half a star (yes, less than 1 star) and the user was not showing any but swore to me she was "genuine" (how I hate that word) and was trying to be "discrete",... and ofcourse not showing any face pics because of her "job" lol."

Thats the sort of thing i was getting at hun not sure which site it was on though a bit like the fleabay system xx

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I once had a verification left for me that read

"she was ok i suppose"

The guy who left it had a pretty good sense of humour and had written it for a laugh with another(good) verification to follow...I decided to display it thinking that everyone would see it as a joke so was amazed at the amount of messages of "sympathy"that i recieved...the guy had to ask me to remove it as he was getting abusive messages from people saying how rude he was...As said in some posts above then no one is gonna display a bad veri so was surprised that people took it seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the logic in a negative feedback process, a culprit can simply make a new profile or hide it if they wanted.

More importantly, anyone who actually wants to give negative feedback on profile is more representative of their own character, a sign of bitterness and aggressive behavior. Most people come here for positive experiences, not for a slagging match. Move on if you don't like someone for some reason .... simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a verification left for me that read

"she was ok i suppose"

The guy who left it had a pretty good sense of humour and had written it for a laugh with another(good) verification to follow...I decided to display it thinking that everyone would see it as a joke so was amazed at the amount of messages of "sympathy"that i recieved...the guy had to ask me to remove it as he was getting abusive messages from people saying how rude he was...As said in some posts above then no one is gonna display a bad veri so was surprised that people took it seriously "

u have to add 'lol' to the end of any jokey msg/thread/mail...some people are too thick to get it!

oops

'lol'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a verification left for me that read

"she was ok i suppose"

The guy who left it had a pretty good sense of humour and had written it for a laugh with another(good) verification to follow...I decided to display it thinking that everyone would see it as a joke so was amazed at the amount of messages of "sympathy"that i recieved...the guy had to ask me to remove it as he was getting abusive messages from people saying how rude he was...As said in some posts above then no one is gonna display a bad veri so was surprised that people took it seriously

u have to add 'lol' to the end of any jokey msg/thread/mail...some people are too thick to get it!

oops

'lol'"

Ive seen a few negative veri's along the lines of "too shy", "took a while to warm up" etc but personally I dont care. If I get along with them then thats all that matters to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a verification left for me that read

"she was ok i suppose"

The guy who left it had a pretty good sense of humour and had written it for a laugh with another(good) verification to follow...I decided to display it thinking that everyone would see it as a joke so was amazed at the amount of messages of "sympathy"that i recieved...the guy had to ask me to remove it as he was getting abusive messages from people saying how rude he was...As said in some posts above then no one is gonna display a bad veri so was surprised that people took it seriously "

I love that veri. Some people (that read it and misunderstood!!) are numpty's eh...

I have one that says "don't meet". I display it with pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a verification left for me that read

"she was ok i suppose"

The guy who left it had a pretty good sense of humour and had written it for a laugh with another(good) verification to follow...I decided to display it thinking that everyone would see it as a joke so was amazed at the amount of messages of "sympathy"that i recieved...the guy had to ask me to remove it as he was getting abusive messages from people saying how rude he was...As said in some posts above then no one is gonna display a bad veri so was surprised that people took it seriously

I love that veri. Some people (that read it and misunderstood!!) are numpty's eh...

I have one that says "don't meet". I display it with pride. "

thats the only reason I havent mailed u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a verification left for me that read

"she was ok i suppose"

The guy who left it had a pretty good sense of humour and had written it for a laugh with another(good) verification to follow...I decided to display it thinking that everyone would see it as a joke so was amazed at the amount of messages of "sympathy"that i recieved...the guy had to ask me to remove it as he was getting abusive messages from people saying how rude he was...As said in some posts above then no one is gonna display a bad veri so was surprised that people took it seriously

I love that veri. Some people (that read it and misunderstood!!) are numpty's eh...

I have one that says "don't meet". I display it with pride.

thats the only reason I havent mailed u"

Darn.

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