FabSwingers.com forum: Finger up the bum

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I admit I'm crap at it.

I want to make it the most pleasurable experience for him yet other than slowly sliding a finger in I'll be honest and say I'm not too sure what I'm meant to do after that! I know what it's like to be fingered badly so want to try and perfect the art at least making it pleasurable for him, so what do you do?

Also what type of lube do you fellow fabbers use? Recommendations please.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it

No lube? Ok. And may I ask what type of movement did she do with the finger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody love this...

I guess the trick is to make it feel the same as if you have something in yours (assuming you've tried and enjoyed it!). And ask him what feels great and what doesn't

Communication is key with this sort of thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bloody love this...

I guess the trick is to make it feel the same as if you have something in yours (assuming you've tried and enjoyed it!). And ask him what feels great and what doesn't

Communication is key with this sort of thing!"

More than happy to ask him, just thought I'd get some advice. One can never have too much info in the arsenal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One up the bum no harm done

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it

No lube? Ok. And may I ask what type of movement did she do with the finger?"

A nice gentle entry and up/down movement. I went incredibly hard and my ejaculation lasted longer. I was, however, a lot younger then

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

I love fingering my man I use lube then I gently insert in then I bend finger inside at an angle towards you then you massage that's their prostrate I actually milk him at same time it's so horny feeling him grip your finger

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I love fingering my man I use lube then I gently insert in then I bend finger inside at an angle towards you then you massage that's their prostrate I actually milk him at same time it's so horny feeling him grip your finger "

Yeah, I went pretty rigid, to be fair. I was cumming for ages. It's a question of technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reach in with some lube.

Press towards the area behind his cock and balls. You will know from his reaction when you hit the spot.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

First time Ben I fingered his bum he pumped his spunk over my shoulder .. he likes .. a lot ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it

No lube? Ok. And may I ask what type of movement did she do with the finger?

A nice gentle entry and up/down movement. I went incredibly hard and my ejaculation lasted longer. I was, however, a lot younger then

Ok, gotcha. That is exactly the reaction I am hoping for from him!

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By *aughtycpl276927Couple
over a year ago

PRESTON

I love it!!

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By *oadstar2010Man
over a year ago

bishops stortford

First time done to me the lady was rimming me then slowly put her finger in and massaged the prostrate,came so hard and in volume.Had it done a few times since with the ladies surprised how much cum came out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I need to work up to that, being such a novice lol. Must be incredible for him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard "

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First time done to me the lady was rimming me then slowly put her finger in and massaged the prostrate,came so hard and in volume.Had it done a few times since with the ladies surprised how much cum came out."

Thats the desired effect I'm aiming for

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By *yneMan
over a year ago

North Shields

Hi, try Yes lube (water or plant based), it’s not too sticky. As for technique my preference is for just the tip of the finger opening my up, hold it and slide slightly in and nearly out and build a slow rhythm until he asks for more…..he’ll if dint like it, drag me over for it…..hope it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very pleasurable and enhances the orgasm and increases the amount I ejaculate! Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine how you would like your bum played with, well do the same to him. A finger in deep pressing downwards and rubbing his pereneum at the same time feels good

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Keep your nails short. No sharp bits of dried skin either.

Spit will suffice, if your relationship allows, or anal glide. We use Durex Cherry Lube for everything as I like the taste and don't need to have different bottles laying on the bed.

When you slide your finger in you'll feel the sphincter pressure. I go very slowly and let it relax. With my middle finger most of the way in I can feel his prostate-that feels like a soft half a walnut shape. He likes me to gently massage it as I'm sucking his cock.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

No lube???

I advise a good silicone lube, it's the best. A little goes a long way and it doesn't dry to a sticky mess like water based lubes.

Watch out with your nails!

When right inside bend your finger forward towards the pubic bone and find his prostate. It will drive him wild....

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered"

When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this done to me.

Started with one finger then developed.

If we're ever short of lube, olive oil isn't far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hots things up during oral.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I do enjoy it

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

it feels so nice,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced it with two women in my life. None of them have asked me if I want to try this or not... Both of them was older then me and definitely new what they are doing. It ft amazing and I cum so much and so hard! Best cum ever, I wish all women could do this to their partners...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most men love it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First time Ben I fingered his bum he pumped his spunk over my shoulder .. he likes .. a lot ..

haha lucky Ben!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.

useful info, thank you.

middle finger or fore finger?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

make sure you take your rings off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"make sure you take your rings off x"

noted

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered"

Be careful what lube, alot of anal lubes have numbing effect and tend to desensitise, OK for bum play but not if get in other areas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find most men love it xx"

providing youve got a good technique

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.

useful info, thank you.

middle finger or fore finger?"

Middle. It was the longest, and I was on top. It helped that I was a good foot and a half taller than my ex wife. Easier for her to reach around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

Be careful what lube, alot of anal lubes have numbing effect and tend to desensitise, OK for bum play but not if get in other areas

I didnt realise that, thank you!

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By *ebedeedoodahMan
over a year ago

Greenford

Coconut oil is best for everything. Cheep eatable and delicious warmed

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.

useful info, thank you.

middle finger or fore finger?"

I find the middle finger works best. You can add Peter Pointer later, if he likes a bigger stretch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.

useful info, thank you.

middle finger or fore finger?

Middle. It was the longest, and I was on top. It helped that I was a good foot and a half taller than my ex wife. Easier for her to reach around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.

I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard

Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered

When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.

useful info, thank you.

middle finger or fore finger?

I find the middle finger works best. You can add Peter Pointer later, if he likes a bigger stretch."

Middle it is. He's gonna be in for such a treat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never enjoyed it myself, One time I was at a meet and getting an incredible blow job when she decided to slide the middle finger up my bum, it was like a switch was turned off and all the blood from my cock drained out in to my brain. I then had to in the height sexually tensity utter the immortal words! "Could you take your finger out my arse please". Of course the sexual passion flew out the window at that moment I said those words. I think I grabbed my flaccid member and left about 2 mins later. So for me it's ever been a great experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have experienced it with two women in my life. None of them have asked me if I want to try this or not... Both of them was older then me and definitely new what they are doing. It ft amazing and I cum so much and so hard! Best cum ever, I wish all women could do this to their partners..."

Was it the element of surprise that made it even hornier?

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

You know if you hit the right spot as my leg can thump away like a dogs lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Was it the element of surprise that made it even hornier?"

For me, yes. She just did it. I instantly stiffened. Bizarre feeling. He'll be a lucky lad with you

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"So I admit I'm crap at it.

Also what type of lube do you fellow fabbers use? Recommendations please.

Thanks

I like a woman to gently tease me, little oil/lube on finger and hole. The more relaxed I become the more my hole loosens to accept the finger. Some nice back and forth fingerings and rotating at the same time.

As for lube, I like baby oil or some of my fleshlight lube is perfect for the job

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