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By *hesadistbull OP   Man
over a year ago

India(bengaluru)

I'm trying to connect with people into s@dism and m@sochism, how do you identify someone is into it without being too obvious?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe use a fetish website ?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Maybe use a fetish website ?"

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you want to make it obvious ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you think your profile name is subtle ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ad others have said the other site is likely to be more fruitfull if you're looking for kink.

As to it not working, how didn't it work?

Have you tried making it out to local events, join local groups or groups that in your interest circle?

Just some thoughts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm trying to connect with people into s@dism and m@sochism, how do you identify someone is into it without being too obvious? "

Some people wear certain jewellery but it wouldn't mean they want to be approached. I think the only way is to be involved in the 'scene' (I hate that word) and make connections that way.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Generally I end up talking to those into those kinks, as there is something in their profile or forum presence that tells me they are.

I would add there is a general subtly I look for when looking. I normally avoid those who call themselves Dominant or variations of Mr Grey. But that could be down to experience and reading between lines.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Ad others have said the other site is likely to be more fruitfull if you're looking for kink.

As to it not working, how didn't it work?

Have you tried making it out to local events, join local groups or groups that in your interest circle?

Just some thoughts "

I think he is in India?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'm trying to connect with people into s@dism and m@sochism, how do you identify someone is into it without being too obvious? "

Why would you need to ask?

If as your profile states you are a 'master/dom' you would have learnt the signs in your journey this far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was looking for purely that, I'd have it in my bio. There's other sites that would be better too. Not sure why you wouldn't just say what you're looking for though?

Pxx

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By *hesadistbull OP   Man
over a year ago

India(bengaluru)


"Ad others have said the other site is likely to be more fruitfull if you're looking for kink.

As to it not working, how didn't it work?

Have you tried making it out to local events, join local groups or groups that in your interest circle?

Just some thoughts "

The thing is I'm currently in a place where the kink culture or things of that sort have been very limited there aren't many options, we have had a kinky community here but the last event they did was like 2 years ago before covid since things have been completely boring

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By *hesadistbull OP   Man
over a year ago

India(bengaluru)


"I'm trying to connect with people into s@dism and m@sochism, how do you identify someone is into it without being too obvious?

Some people wear certain jewellery but it wouldn't mean they want to be approached. I think the only way is to be involved in the 'scene' (I hate that word) and make connections that way. "

Nicely put, thanks for the suggestion xx

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By *hesadistbull OP   Man
over a year ago

India(bengaluru)


"I'm trying to connect with people into s@dism and m@sochism, how do you identify someone is into it without being too obvious?

Why would you need to ask?

If as your profile states you are a 'master/dom' you would have learnt the signs in your journey this far?

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Every one has their own pace of learning, people can show different signs then they actually are you can never guess something about someone unless you are deeply involved with him/her

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By *hesadistbull OP   Man
over a year ago

India(bengaluru)


"If I was looking for purely that, I'd have it in my bio. There's other sites that would be better too. Not sure why you wouldn't just say what you're looking for though?

Pxx"

Yep i agree, i have it on mine or my name would give a subtle hint, i appreciate you guys for having a very straight forward bio !

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