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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested?? "People have their own reasons for being on here and everyone has a right to look for what they want. Some won’t mind seeing married women or men and some are against it… Me personally, I’m against it and respect all the ones who are upfront about their situation as it gives me the info to make an informed choice. That should work both ways for men and women..:  | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested?? "It depends a lot on the people/person I've seen plenty of people saying no interested in married people others keen to meet married people. Fab is a very big place, you're going to find a range of things that are and aren't acceptable to people. It all comes down to the person looking at the married person. Men are more plentiful and are likely to be less worried about that. Etc etc Just my thoughts, I need coffee lol | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet." Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey.  | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet." Yep... This | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet. Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey. "Try and fuck one and let me know  | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested?? "Anyone can join this site and some will accept their circumstances others will not. Male or female. Personally we wouldn't meet a man or woman who was cheating on their spouse, other people would. | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested?? "The double standards of fab. If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong. If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong. Women get understanding , men get villified. | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet. Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey.
Try and fuck one and let me know "Haha, no clean up needed either, unless you pop out the end of the bag. | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet." Quote of the day | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet. Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey.
Try and fuck one and let me know
Haha, no clean up needed either, unless you pop out the end of the bag."Hope you don’t get a spikey crumb wedged into your pee hole! | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet. Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey.
Try and fuck one and let me know
Haha, no clean up needed either, unless you pop out the end of the bag.
Hope you don’t get a spikey crumb wedged into your pee hole! "Gonna be tough to explain at A&E. Wish me luck. | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested?? "Works the other way as well. Plenty of women here that want to meet married men! Vic x | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet. Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey.
Try and fuck one and let me know
Haha, no clean up needed either, unless you pop out the end of the bag.
Hope you don’t get a spikey crumb wedged into your pee hole!
Gonna be tough to explain at A&E. Wish me luck. "Just say you fell into a packet of crisps, that’s usually the line isn’t it?  | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified." | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified."Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy. The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party. As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen. | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen."So it's not the act it's the way you go about it that's good or bad? | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen.
So it's not the act it's the way you go about it that's good or bad?"In my opinion, yes. Some people will have a hard boundary around cheating, they're never going to go for it. Others may be more willing to consider it. If you're of the more open category, why would you be convinced by someone being horrible about another intimate partner? | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen.
So it's not the act it's the way you go about it that's good or bad?
In my opinion, yes.
Some people will have a hard boundary around cheating, they're never going to go for it. Others may be more willing to consider it. If you're of the more open category, why would you be convinced by someone being horrible about another intimate partner?"Personally I couldn't be convinced even if they spoke about their partner in glowing terms. I genuinely don't care what other people do as long as they don't involve me but I can't agree that being nice about the partner you're cheating on makes it better. | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen.
So it's not the act it's the way you go about it that's good or bad?
In my opinion, yes.
Some people will have a hard boundary around cheating, they're never going to go for it. Others may be more willing to consider it. If you're of the more open category, why would you be convinced by someone being horrible about another intimate partner?
Personally I couldn't be convinced even if they spoke about their partner in glowing terms. I genuinely don't care what other people do as long as they don't involve me but I can't agree that being nice about the partner you're cheating on makes it better."That's fine, and I'm not trying to convince anyone otherwise. Simply trying to explain why men seem to get more hate for it than women. Both are doing a bad thing, but one side is making it actively worse. | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen.
So it's not the act it's the way you go about it that's good or bad?
In my opinion, yes.
Some people will have a hard boundary around cheating, they're never going to go for it. Others may be more willing to consider it. If you're of the more open category, why would you be convinced by someone being horrible about another intimate partner?
Personally I couldn't be convinced even if they spoke about their partner in glowing terms. I genuinely don't care what other people do as long as they don't involve me but I can't agree that being nice about the partner you're cheating on makes it better.
That's fine, and I'm not trying to convince anyone otherwise.
Simply trying to explain why men seem to get more hate for it than women. Both are doing a bad thing, but one side is making it actively worse."Oh absolutely! | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified."Great way of putting it, and very true... | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested?? "Who said it was ok? I’m not interested in married men or ladies for that matter | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen."Maybe the men have communicated with their partner and still haven’t got anywhere. Cheating is cheating. No matter how you justify it. The two reasons married women get an easier ride on here is because a lot of the men on here want to get their dick wet so don’t care if the woman is married and women sympathise with other women more than they do with men. | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified.
Of the married profiles I've seen, men openly disparage their spouse, blame them for not making enough effort/being filthy enough/wanting enough sex. This is what deserves to be vilified. Slagging off your partner in order to obtain another one is vile. And shaming someone you supposedly love rather than communicating with them is cowardly. Neither of those qualities are sexy.
The married women centre themselves, their desires and don't make it about the person they're cheating on. That, at least, I can see could be a turn on, because it's positive and about the person you're speaking to, not a critique of an innocent and potentially injured party.
As others have said, there's a vast array of people on here, so I know this won't be 100% the case, it's just what I've seen.
Maybe the men have communicated with their partner and still haven’t got anywhere.
Cheating is cheating. No matter how you justify it. The two reasons married women get an easier ride on here is because a lot of the men on here want to get their dick wet so don’t care if the woman is married and women sympathise with other women more than they do with men."Good point, well presented... | |||
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"so what is it alright for married women to be here and others don't no but a married man on here without her knowledge is wrong and sick and disgusting or ladies arnt intrested??
The double standards of fab.
If a woman cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
If a man cheats it's because the husband is wrong.
Women get understanding , men get villified." | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet." Ditto! | |||
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"I wouldn't be interested in meeting anyone who is here behind someone's back op ,it doesn't matter their gender at all. Many men would happily meet a married woman though op and some find it hot or feel they're getting one up on ber partner. Plus its rare women start these types of posts ,so they don't open themselves up to being slated like lots of married men do." Plus; there’s so few women in here (attached or single) compared to solo male profiles…… | |||
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"I wouldn’t touch a married man with a barge pole. Lying cheats dry me up like a crisp packet. Is a crisp packet dry? They're a bit greasy and slidey. "Try sticking your cock in a packet and wank hard | |||
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