FabSwingers.com forum: Giving a lady oral but nothing in return

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just putting this out there, I am always more than happy if a lady lets me give her a oral for as long as she likes even if the pleasure isn't returned. As long as she enjoys it is the main objective as I get my pleasure from giving it anyway! Am I in the minority?

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Amen brother eating pussy is one of the best things in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be all for that

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often pleasure the wife orally and don't want anything in return, I get great enjoyment hearing her moan and having multiple orgasms.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I absolutely don't have a problem with giving and not receiving in return. Being face down between A (or another woman)'s legs is just as satisfying for me as anything! Got to love it

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to give and not receive. Live going down on a lady andcstaying there as ling aspossible. Usually get pushed away as most women have been too sensitive and cant take the attention i have to give for hours lolx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Mr giving me oral, he'd happily do it to me with nothing in return as would I to him.

Mrs

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle

I have no problem giving oral and expecting nothing in return

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ive always loved this But judging from previous posts, it doesnt seem many Women enjoy this type of meet or dont believe guys who say this is all they want

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

100% I don’t give to receive

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would want to be fucked after the oral.

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

I love this type of meet, nothing better than giving plenty of oral licking between her thighs!

I have used other sites where it was oral and nothing expected in return with the option of if they made a move for more then that is available but the meet would be no pressure and 100% okay with lick and go.

But like person above found many a female against this, on this site. Same with erotic massages and oral.

Still to the point, I love giving oral, plenty of orgasms, and bonus if squirter/watersports = happy me

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I would want to be fucked after the oral."

So we’d have to lick you and then fuck you? Oh dear, tough job but I s’pose someone’s gotta do it……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sympathise with both sides of the fence on this.

My wife loves me going down on her. I do get great pleasure, not only from making her cum, but also the control I can have in deciding when and how hard I can make her cum (often edging and teasing her).

However she won't go down on me in return, which I would love her to do. I would hope she could get the same enjoyment from it (giving) as I do with her.

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Love to give oral to any woman that enjoys it, nothing in return expected.

All the best techniques with satisfaction guaranteed.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I love Mr giving me oral, he'd happily do it to me with nothing in return as would I to him.

Mrs "

Absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few oral only meetings which were super hot.

I used to be able to let myself in and wake them with oral. Such a great turn on for me.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ive always loved this But judging from previous posts, it doesnt seem many Women enjoy this type of meet or dont believe guys who say this is all they want"

Because most women (I assume) would most like a mutual exchange of pleasure during a meet. Such a meet would also put a lot of pressure on the female to react to your ‘giving’ in a way that you hoped for.

Obviously there are going to be exceptions - some FemDoms would certainly like this from a sub they have trust and a dynamic with - but most won’t outside of a relationship in my opinion.

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By *evonspankMan
over a year ago

Tiverton

My wife refuses to allow me to perform oral sex on her. She thinks it's disgusting and says it's specifically forbidden in the Bible.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Sex without reciprocity is a bizarre concept to me.

Pleasure for pleasure makes more sense so much one sexual act in return for another but a kind of meeting in the middle... symbiosis... merging of minds... souls.. bodies etc.

When men I've never spoken to contact me with the 'tantalising' offer of performing oral with 'nothing expected in return' it always repulses me because- without knowing what I enjoy they won't even get my pleasure in return.

It strikes me as an entirely one sided experience which only benefits the one party. Which isn't really the point of sex... might as well just have a wank.

Knowing your audience is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just putting this out there, I am always more than happy if a lady lets me give her a oral for as long as she likes even if the pleasure isn't returned. As long as she enjoys it is the main objective as I get my pleasure from giving it anyway! Am I in the minority?"

Pople will assume you saying you will come and give her oral and want nothing in return as bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can get all the oral only sex i want from cuck ...so for me any lick only meets are a no no when i want sex i want sex full on sex lasting as long as poss full on oral fingers cock fucking and other things thrown in for good measure,,

so for me i avoid these oral only profiles

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"i can get all the oral only sex i want from cuck ...so for me any lick only meets are a no no when i want sex i want sex full on sex lasting as long as poss full on oral fingers cock fucking and other things thrown in for good measure,,

so for me i avoid these oral only profiles "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to give the Mrs oral only many of times, she won't have it, after a few orgasms she's desperate for cock, she says she's not fulfilled unless I finish her off.

I do love oral and can be satisfied just watching her having multiples whilst sat on my face

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Absolutely fine - I'll happily lick pussy for as long as the lady wishes

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

I had a meet yonks ago arranged for me to give her oral only walked in she forcefully demanded I got straight to it as I did lol after a couple of orgasms she just said ok that's enough fuck off passed her hubby on the stairs both smiling went home and had probably the best wank of my life so yep I'm all for it

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I've tried to give the Mrs oral only many of times, she won't have it, after a few orgasms she's desperate for cock, she says she's not fulfilled unless I finish her off.

I do love oral and can be satisfied just watching her having multiples whilst sat on my face

I'm with her on this. I do love being made to orgasm several times through oral but I always want a good seeing to after. If there is a cock there then I want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Happily spend hours eating my wife’s beautiful pussy lucky for me once she’s cum she demands I fuck her hard and fast !

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By *ylvieMWoman
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Lol a man hasn't made me cum through oral in over 10 years... so not for me.

Plus the amount of men who offer this and then try it on after is large.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've had two meets that were supposed to be licking only. I would have been happy enough with that, but both times it ended up in 2 way oral, then full sex

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By *aving_bonkersMan
over a year ago

Bugle

I love this kind of meet. I met a gorgeous young lady last month who is totally up for this. She is not interested in my cum, so my cock stayed in my pants. Hopefully meeting again soon.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Love this type of meet but would like to be milked after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy giving oral and must be fairly good at it, evidenced by the phrase ' Oh my God! Don't stop!'

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Love this type of meet but would like to be milked after"

Well then it’s not a oral for nothing in return meet

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'd be more than happy giving a woman oral with no return, can always finish myself off later with my fleshlight

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

That would make a change usually for me it's been am all in there for oral and lots of foreplay and he's not even went there and thats disappointing....

Fairs fair if you ask me...returning the favour is always my thing too!I just don't get it lads don't return the favour!

Cj x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Amen brother eating pussy is one of the best things in life "

Amen. On a par with eating great cheesecake.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally I sort of disagree with that. Not in terms of tit for tat, I did this she owes me equivalent etc. For me I'm looking for a mutual exchange of enjoyment and pleasure. Basically I want someome to lavish attention on me too. I want to be adored and have energy and attention focused on me as well. I get some guys are perfectly happy just giving one way but personally I don't want a Pillow Queen. I like team work, I want everyone to feel treated, including myself. Everyone getting theirs that is what I find hot and rewarding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m up for that sounds like a plan. Hehe

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"That would make a change usually for me it's been am all in there for oral and lots of foreplay and he's not even went there and thats disappointing....

Fairs fair if you ask me...returning the favour is always my thing too!I just don't get it lads don't return the favour!

Cj x"

I'm disappointed for you CJ, I'd be in like flynn to give you so well deserved oral

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I done this a few times it usually turns into me fucking them once they are horny but happy to just eat

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

In theory I’d be ok with just giving. I derive great pleasure from delivering pleasure.

In practice? Hmmmm

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I (Mr) have done this a couple of times when we were on another site.

Both times it was ladies whose Husband wouldn’t preform oral.

They thoroughly enjoyed it as did I

I have read in some of the above comments about how some ladies aren’t comfortable just receiving please and not giving any back.

That is misunderstanding the excitement and pleasure guys get from doing it.

They are getting something in return.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"That would make a change usually for me it's been am all in there for oral and lots of foreplay and he's not even went there and thats disappointing....

Fairs fair if you ask me...returning the favour is always my thing too!I just don't get it lads don't return the favour!

Cj x

I'm disappointed for you CJ, I'd be in like flynn to give you so well deserved oral"

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! I love giving oral, probably my favourite thing to do!

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I used to have a regular fella come round and I’d just sit on his face . He’d stay fully clothed while I was naked, very erotic! He never wanted anything in return x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah it's really no issue for me not getting anything in return, I'm just happy to be there

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