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100 positives but that one negative

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always find it strange how some of us seem to ignore all the positives we get. But that one negative we get really gets to us. Even though we are sharing our private body parts in confidence. Some of us deep down are still very insecure about our body. So I'm just wondering if people do actually ignore any negative comments or do they actually get to you??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

On here they don't get to me. If they're true eg 'you're so old' I just think 'no shit Sherlock'

If they're not true I just laugh.

I treat positive comments the same way on here too. If I know them to be realistic I think it's nice to have it reinforced of I know it's bullshit I laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly negatives don’t get to me (you’re made of plastic, you look too fake, you’ve got plastic tits etc etc) but once, years ago, I was doing some promo photos for a watch brand and someone commented that I had hairy arms. Now I’d never shaved them and there was very fine, very sparse, blonde hair when I zoomed in. I really had to look for it!

I’ve shaved them ever since, even though 1000’s of comments were positive, I homed in on that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Churchill said you’ll never get anywhere if you stop to throw stones at every dog that barks.

Personally I’m just not that preoccupied with my imperfections and flaws. If someone else is well great glad they’ve got all that spare time and attention to waste.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I often feel that positive things in life (nice though they are) can often be over looked. Negative things however tend to jump out at us and make themselves known, as such we tend to focus on them.

Like someone could smile at you, make you a cup tea or wish you a good day and that will be nice, but you can bet the thing that will stand out is when someone shoots you a dirty look, or takes the piss out of you or when you stubbed you toe.

But then again everyone's experience and interpretation of the world around them is different, what one person finds offensive another couldn't give less of a fuck about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be worried about sharing more than clothed or Cock, it worries me what people think of my body as I'm heavy set.

It shouldn't bother me but it does, I'm working on it and part of the reason I'm here is to increase my body confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats the thing though with positive comments you have to sometimes take them with a punch of salt. Both negative and positive can be dowsed in bullshit just for reaction. Oh by the way I just like to add Nicecouple, This is totally geniune I looked at your profile yeaterday and thought wow L looks incredibly hot so I fabbed a few pics, and then I saw your age and I was wow. So that whole your too old thing is obviously jealousy.

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By *ymster10Man
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Unfortunately some people do get a kick from writing a negative comment which is a shame .

These people should look at themselves naked in front of a mirror and if they still feel that the pot can call the kettle black..! Then go ahead your time will come ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thats the thing though with positive comments you have to sometimes take them with a punch of salt. Both negative and positive can be dowsed in bullshit just for reaction. Oh by the way I just like to add Nicecouple, This is totally geniune I looked at your profile yeaterday and thought wow L looks incredibly hot so I fabbed a few pics, and then I saw your age and I was wow. So that whole your too old thing is obviously jealousy. "

Thank you.

Might be jealousy or might be an attempt to deliberately wound. Either way it's water off a ducks back I know how old I am, I was present at my birth using the number of years I've been alive as an insult is pretty much a wasted effort

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anything that is said on here whether it be positive or negative, I take with a pinch of salt as they are said by strangers. I value the comments made by people who know me and would take them to heart more than from some random who knows nothing about me x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I cant see why anything a random stranger says about you means anything ... to me these people are just utterly irrelevant unless they are my friends / family ... its j just background noise like clicking crickets how I view it mostly .

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