FabSwingers.com forum: Relationships

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people have found relationships on here. Ignore the haters.

Good luck.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

If you want to carry on swinging it’s your best place to look

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I would prefer to meet a partner from here. At least you know what they like before you get into a relationship

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep met my partner here almost 7 years ago .

I don't know why people put others down for looking for more than fun here ,I wasn't but it just happened .

Here is as good a place as anywhere in my book!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can meet one here just as much as anywhere else

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By *r and mrs ever readyCouple
over a year ago

north west

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By *r and mrs ever readyCouple
over a year ago

north west

Met my hubby here 5 years ago best thing I ever did my lover my soulmate my daddy Bear ?? x

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

We also met on here over 3 yrs ago.

Neither of us were looking for a relationship, it just kinda happened without us realising it.

Still going strong now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Mrs EK met on the forums on here and have never looked back - it's a great place to meet someone. We are very much in love and have found we really love to experiment with whatever the other suggests. As we met on here we knew pretty much from the off that we had such similar kinks and interests. It's wonderful

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'd say this is the best place to find a suitable partner who shares your kinks. Far better than finding someone on a vanilla site then tell them your kinks. (Done that several times over the years and got dumped by two of them when the subject was brought up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get to attached to people on fab. I did and its gorn wrong.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

If I ever have another relationship, I’d like it to be from Fab.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yep.

Met on here over a decade ago. Married almost seven years now.

Fab is no different to anywhere else you might meet a potential life partner - work, the pub, shopping at Asda, the beach, prison, Butlins.....it can happen anytime, anywhere.

Here you get the added bonus of generally meeting someone open minded in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

Why is Fab the wrong place to find a partner?

Los of people on fab have found a partner.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

Yes a few , I think you’ve a much better chance here than other dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my fwb off of fab and she introduced me to it. If anything, the education I got from this site improved the expansion of my sexual boundaries

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester

You can take them for a test drive

We met on Tinder. First date we found out that both of us had swinging pasts.

Several months later, ensuring we had a solid foundation, we started talking about that swinging aspect.

We've both had many friends meet up with their partners through swinging sites, and been success stories.

Swinging has many core values. Some being: trust, understanding, communication. All vital elements for full relationships too.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes, I met my partner on here. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, but here we are three years later after what was supposed to be a one-off meet

Personally, I don't believe that you can "look" for a relationship, you just need to meet new people and if you're lucky you'll have that mutual click with someone. And here is just as good a platform to meet new people as anywhere else.

Good luck in your search OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow great to hear so many success stories. Maybe a difficult one to explain to more vanilla friends and family

Here's hoping my story ends the same way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one until recent shame it ended but hey we had some great times.

Good luck to him and his search for another fwb.

Hopefully we can stay friends too.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I met my Fiancée on here. Which is perfect because I get to share everything (and everyone) with the person who is my everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

Actually yes I have, and we have an amazing, beautiful open relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a swinging relationship then it's got to be a good place to find a partner??

Think it can be a dangerous place to go looking for love though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a swinging relationship then it's got to be a good place to find a partner??

Think it can be a dangerous place to go looking for love though."

I have found love here. I couldn't be more in love with Mr NBVN. We met here 6 years ago.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a swinging relationship though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any single men looking for more around Glos? May as well try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any single men looking for more around Glos? May as well try!"

Think I'm too young fir you but I am

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By *ovingtongueMan
over a year ago

BEDFORD

Id love to find a partner on here for a relationship with the same kinks as my self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my ex here, we were together 5 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met my ex here, we were together 5 years! "

I met someone on here, it last nearly 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little too young x

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I met someone on here…. Seemed like the perfect gent. After a few months came the wanting to be exclusive, flipped out over a club verification, couldn’t have me sucking other cocks…. Turned out he wasn’t leaving his wife either. Felt like a complete idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone on here…. Seemed like the perfect gent. After a few months came the wanting to be exclusive, flipped out over a club verification, couldn’t have me sucking other cocks…. Turned out he wasn’t leaving his wife either. Felt like a complete idiot

That’s a bit unfair and not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any single men looking for more around Glos? May as well try!"

Always looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one until recent shame it ended but hey we had some great times.

Good luck to him and his search for another fwb.

Hopefully we can stay friends too. "

Im sure he will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we seen so many fail from getting relationship from within the scene and we know a few who made it work ... but far more end up not working from what we've seen ..

it give a false hope when all you read are the good bits and never the many many bad bits ...

do agree there needs to be a forum just for people looking for relationships ..

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I would love to find a relationship from fab, but im much smaller than most guys on here, so it won't ever happen, sadly

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"we seen so many fail from getting relationship from within the scene and we know a few who made it work ... but far more end up not working from what we've seen ..

it give a false hope when all you read are the good bits and never the many many bad bits ...

do agree there needs to be a forum just for people looking for relationships .."

On balance I'd say I know just as many, if not more, that fail in ordinary life. Either because one partner wants sex elsewhere and goes looking for it or because people just fall out of love and/or want different things.

Fab isn't separate from ordinary life so why would there be any more or less successful relationships.

It reflects society in general so the stats should be pretty much the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to find a relationship from fab, but im much smaller than most guys on here, so it won't ever happen, sadly"

Lots of women like men with small dicks. Cuckholding and sph is very popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on Fet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not swinger however I'm open to developing a relationship with the right person for me on Fab - purely because the sexual likes and dislikes are there from the get go for compatibility purposes - however other compatibilities also need to be considered.

Lots of people have gone on to have a long term relationship or further, marriage from being in Fab.

There's no reason why Fab should be different to anywhere else to meet a potential partner.

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By *amie7474Man
over a year ago

stockport

I met someone on fab and we played together as a couple for a few years. We had some incredible experiences because of our dynamic. The relationship ran its course as we knew it would and our journeys took different directions. We had one hell of a time though!

So yes op. It’s possible and as others have said, can be amazing if you find the right partner.

Good luck x

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

Well I keep looking

Would love to find a swinging partner on here with the same mind set as myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find one and live happily ever after x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

Good Luck Cherry Blossom I hope you are able to find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a bit unfair and not true "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did meet one special lady through fab,we were more than just fuck buddies,I think if we'd both not been married to our respective spouces we'd have probably moved in together.

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By *illUpMySensesMan
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

Would be great to meet someone with a similar mindset on here. Far easier than meeting someone on Bumble and then bringing up your sexual desires which can result in a swift exit!

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By *amie7474Man
over a year ago

stockport

That’s a bit unfair and not true

Bad times!

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

I am in the same boat. Looking for a partner in crime to explore my kinks and fab life

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

Good Luck Cherry Blossom I hope you are able to find what you are looking for. "

Thanks. Hoping the positive vibes bring me him soon.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"we seen so many fail from getting relationship from within the scene and we know a few who made it work ... but far more end up not working from what we've seen ..

it give a false hope when all you read are the good bits and never the many many bad bits ...

do agree there needs to be a forum just for people looking for relationships .."

I start a thread

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

For this reason I prefer not to meet attached people. Less chances to be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for a hotwife

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

Good Luck Cherry Blossom I hope you are able to find what you are looking for.

Thanks. Hoping the positive vibes bring me him soon.

Like a fish to batited line.

Do you have a lot of friends on the scene and you want to carry on being able to see them or are you looking for someone to share the same experiences. BTW this is not me throwing my hat in the ring.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"we seen so many fail from getting relationship from within the scene and we know a few who made it work ... but far more end up not working from what we've seen ..

it give a false hope when all you read are the good bits and never the many many bad bits ...

We did Petition abut 8 years ago for a student only thread.

do agree there needs to be a forum just for people looking for relationships ..

I start a thread

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"we seen so many fail from getting relationship from within the scene and we know a few who made it work ... but far more end up not working from what we've seen ..

it give a false hope when all you read are the good bits and never the many many bad bits ...

We did Petition abut 8 years ago for a student only thread.

do agree there needs to be a forum just for people looking for relationships ..

I start a thread

We tried to petition for a Student thread on the site about 8 years ago. Fab dont make part of the forum easy to obtain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

I am looking for the female equivalent of what you are after maybe we could chat and see if we could possibly sort out an arrangement xx

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Anyone found their swinger partner from fab or a club? I'm looking for a kinky romantic partner who shares my kinks. Someone suggested Fab is the wrong place to find one.

I met my other half on here. Casual fuckbuddies for a long while then changed to more serious. Now we're getting married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep met my partner here almost 7 years ago .

I don't know why people put others down for looking for more than fun here ,I wasn't but it just happened .

Here is as good a place as anywhere in my book!

Good luck "

This

We met as swingles, started out as fwbs & ended up hitched... But we weren't looking for it to happen, it just did. Enjoy Fab, enjoy doing you & keep the door open. Who knows what can happen. S&B xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet a woman into my kinks.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Me too. Love to meet a fellow mountain biker who loves kink

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Me too. Love to meet a fellow mountain biker who loves kink "

Sounds like we have a few similar interests! I love mountain bilking and ultra running (just got back from the Europe where I’ve been knocking some peaks off in the Alps). I love the outdoors, canoeing and wild camping is what weekends are made for! Also, there’s the kink side too which is near endless and always open for suggestions and exploration!

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

Belle and I met here are very much in love, and we are getting married in September. X

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Me too. Love to meet a fellow mountain biker who loves kink

Looks like you do road cycling which I would never do. plus you live in Liverpool lol

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Belle and I met here are very much in love, and we are getting married in September. X"

That's beautiful news . Congratulations

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Me too. Love to meet a fellow mountain biker who loves kink

Looks like you do road cycling which I would never do. plus you live in Liverpool lol"

Haha yeah I road bike, but it’s always second to getting out there into the mountains. It’s also a

good way of closing the gap from Liverpool lol

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"we seen so many fail from getting relationship from within the scene and we know a few who made it work ... but far more end up not working from what we've seen ..

it give a false hope when all you read are the good bits and never the many many bad bits ...

do agree there needs to be a forum just for people looking for relationships ..

Fab isn't separate from ordinary life so why would there be any more or less successful relationships.

It reflects society in general so the stats should be pretty much the same.

I think so too and ultimately all relationships end no matter where they started , unless you mean fail differently to end

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

"Belle and I met here are very much in love, and we are getting married in September. X

That's beautiful news . Congratulations

Thank you x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I have, been together 5yrs next month

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Belle and I met here are very much in love, and we are getting married in September. X"

Congratulations!

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By *recian2000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would like to be in a swinging relationship but it’s not all just about the scene. Would like someone with similar interests ie weekend breaks, walking in the great outdoors, socialising and watching box sets

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