FabSwingers.com forum: Organised or last minute?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you a planner or are you a last minute person? I'm a huge planner I prefer to know what I'm doing. I do somethings spontaneously but more happier when planned. What's your life like?

Mrs

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We are planners x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very last minute!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Everything is done on the fly

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m really organised

I run a tight ship but occasionally can go off piste and be impulsive!

It’s so exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both there are no set rules if planed then its not weeks n months its a week at most we want fun not the other persons life story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be really organised but most of the time it’s last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exceptionally organised in work mode.

Real life, I wing it daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a planner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm exceptionally organised in work mode.

Real life, I wing it daily "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We are complete polar opposites, M is anally well organised, whereas C just wanders through life making it up as he goes along....

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Last minute how do we know if we feel horny Monday week or any other time in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to plan but the more I look forward to it the more times nothing happens, so normally it's last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be either and both at the same time, perks of being a gemini

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much last minute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last minute how do we know if we feel horny Monday week or any other time in advance "

When involving sex yes I agree spontaneity is always good

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm somewhere in the middle , sometimes incredibly organised sometimes not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always last minute either on holiday or out drinking.

A hates planning things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plan meticulousness for the last minute

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Last minute has never worked for us..

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very prepared so that I will be better able to protect Dora if necessary.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

Always last minute.

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Usually have to plan around limited free time. Having said that, one of my best meets was last minute so to speak. Within an hour of saying hello in chat I was stripping off in his hotel room

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By *ut_what_ifWoman
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

We'd like to be more last minute, but if you're in the mood and it doesn't pan out it can be disappointing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By inclination I'm a planner, but I can cope with spontaneity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a planner. I have children so have to arrange childcare.

Just arranged a social for 2 weeks time lol

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By *oxtheboxMan
over a year ago

South East

Go with the flow type of thing, never usually plan much ahead

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Planners if in the UK. If on holiday just us two, we can do either xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planner, it takes time to look this cheap

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Spontaneous for us, work means planning is tough, we love the club and party scene for just this reason...get to be last minute but also get to see people first

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Are you a planner or are you a last minute person? I'm a huge planner I prefer to know what I'm doing. I do somethings spontaneously but more happier when planned. What's your life like?

Mrs "

Anita loves to plan! I on the other hand prefer to make it all up as I go.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both and it completely depends on my mood! I did both last weekend! Had a very, very (come over now) last minute meet and one that was planned a day or 2 before.

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By *r TonguetasticMan
over a year ago

North Essex

Definitely last minute or short notice, so much hotter!

Too far in advance looses the excitement.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

around

Both work depending on the circumstances. Long slow build up or hot passionate spur of the moment. They both have their attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but it's last minute that has landed me in most trouble

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By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

Planning preferred but dnt rule out the odd spontaneous

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

A lot of planning but I ensure I have adequate time for randomness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer spontaneous . we feel that planning can put a lot of pressure on a situation so we like to just arrange things when we have free time less chance for nerves problems to evolve x

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I like to plan but we have a lot of spontaneous meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to plan but some of my best meets have been spontaneous short notice meets...

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Tried organising, but never seems to work.

Found doing spontaneous is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally really organised, like to plan, but spontaneous also at times.

Often found some of my best nights out have been spontaneous or last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professionally organised

Personally chaotic

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By *urvyblondWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Planned fun is no fun

unless it's a date

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm quite surprised to see how many people are happy with last minute meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of both to be fair. Like a planned meet but sometimes spontaneously meeting is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute tend to be dirtier

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london

Lol...we booked a flight to Cap d'Adge yesterday, flying out tomorrow (today really

)....does that count as last minute???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol...we booked a flight to Cap d'Adge yesterday, flying out tomorrow (today really

)....does that count as last minute???"

I think we can classify that as pretty spontaneous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very last minute, I don't know or guarantee I'll be horney in 12hrs time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planner, so much so that I about others with it!

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Organised as we have dogs and child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately outside of work I wing everything. Kind of works

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Definitely planners xx

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Usually planned but not adverse to something impromptu if we were out and we clicked with someone.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Very organised... unfortunately most people I know are not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like spontaneous but have planned a few nights

Last minute always more exciting

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Definitely organised - it's the only time I clean the house thoroughly!

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