FabSwingers.com forum: How picky are you??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see some post from people who are very precise in their description of who they want to meet. "Only meeting guys taller than 6ft, Blonde hair, clean shaven, Tattoos on one arm, well trimmed. 7 inches or bigger. Educated at university level, no facial hair including eye brows, and someone who will treat me like a princess" Just curious how successful those people are at meeting people on fabs! I'm a bloke so I really can't afford be picky to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky and only meet people who fit my specific criteria.

Doesn't matter if I get 1 or 1,000,000 offers of a shag. If they don't meet my criteria I won't be fucking them.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why can't you be picky just because you are male ?

And yes I am very fussy about who I meet. I don't have set standard looks,height etc on here it more to do with how I get on with someone and if I am attracted to them when we meet for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am pretty picky, I have to have a connection with them not just a sexual desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky. I know what im attracted to in a man physically. If thats all there, I'll get to know him, see if i want to meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Picky, hmm. What does it mean? If my only criteria is 'must have green eyes' does that make me less picky than someone with a longer list? It probably means I have fewer people to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Picky, hmm. What does it mean? If my only criteria is 'must have green eyes' does that make me less picky than someone with a longer list? It probably means I have fewer people to choose from. "

I have green eyes

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

We're very picky as we already enjoy our sexual life. Sharing our intimacy is a big thing for both of us so we wouldn't jump into bed with everyone. On top of that for us, sex starts in our heads so physical attraction isn't enough.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I don’t have a particular set of likes and dislikes. There are physical traits I’m more drawn to but sometimes it’s the whole package so I don’t make any demands.

I’m still picky though & still have to want to rip their clothes off

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I'm picky & I'm a guy haha

I know my worth now

Everyone should be picky & stop being, it prompts meets to put effort & value your time as much as you value theirs. Not just a 1 way thing

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I am very picky but as I don't have a list of specific, physical wants and only know if I fancy someone enough to fuck them, when I see them and speak to them, it's very hard to get my knickers off these days

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Picky, hmm. What does it mean? If my only criteria is 'must have green eyes' does that make me less picky than someone with a longer list? It probably means I have fewer people to choose from.

I have green eyes

There ya' go

did I mention one must be on the back of your head

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I’m drawn to people with certain traits or characteristics, I wouldn’t class it as being picky.

You just like what you like and there is nothing wrong with that

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We are picky up to a point , there has some attraction there , we are know supermodels or Adonis and don’t expect the same , if we get on with people , and they have same sense of humour and generally nice , why not have a pleasurable experience together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m extremely picky . Definitely not here for a shag just for the sake of it . Chances are that I’ll never actually meet anyone from here but happy just flicking through and adding the odd comment to these forums x

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By *amie7474Man
over a year ago

stockport

I’m very picky and as a result I’m able to say I’ve had only good experiences.

Having a connection with who I play with is everything and means we’re likely to have more than one meet too, which also suits me. Quality over quantity always wins!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only want women who have the power to get under my skin and make me imagine spending time with them who have the power to excite me enough to want to act on that insatiable hunger for that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the beauty of someone is their personality it shines more than the physical beauty a stretch mark has never bothered me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am so picky I still havent met anyone yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too picky for my own good...

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By *erkshire8299Man
over a year ago

slough

I think females and couples can be very picky due to the amount of messages they get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you agree to fuck them... you have preferences.

If you won't fuck them... you're picky!

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Only picky in terms of personality. I don't message or reply to profiles which are arrogant or rude and demanding.

As long as the people are nice and have a good sense of humour, then everything else is trivial

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We don’t have set criteria of what we have to have but we’ve got to fancy them. It’s all in the eyes for us.

That’s one of the main filters…

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"I'm a bloke so I really can't afford be picky to be fair."

Why not?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm picky ,but don't have lots of specifics .

I just know if someone's for me or not when I see & chat to them.

It's rare now that someone ticks boxes & makes me want to meet them.

It's not just the physical ,I don't seek perfection .There just has to be a good connection & attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choosy yes, but not picky about a specific type....part of the attraction of this lifestyle is meeting different types, blond, brunette, tall, small, slim, curvy....just love the variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm very picky because I want someone I fancy and I connect with. Whom I can converse with. If that means I don't meet anyone for months, so be it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m very picky, not like you said it, no physical or background checks , but in other ways and it’s clear in my profile, it’s my preferences for the types of people I’m looking for on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being selective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m picky because I know what I want and happy to wait for the right meet

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

I'm picky until I'm really horny then my only criteria is a working pulse.

*And safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say we're particular in what we're looking for, we experiment quite abit so the person/couple we meet need to have the same interests as us.

Mrs

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By *ertslady1984Woman
over a year ago

Herts

I'm definitely picky there has to be attraction on both sides otherwise what's the point you wouldn't enjoy the fun.

I've been there done it before when I was in a couple took one for the team and been left unsatisfied with the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have preferences, which I suppose is the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see some post from people who are very precise in their description of who they want to meet. "Only meeting guys taller than 6ft, Blonde hair, clean shaven, Tattoos on one arm, well trimmed. 7 inches or bigger. Educated at university level, no facial hair including eye brows, and someone who will treat me like a princess" Just curious how successful those people are at meeting people on fabs! I'm a bloke so I really can't afford be picky to be fair."

Interesting that you mention the blonde hair for a male profile - I've yet to see a profile that states that preference.

Also I doubt anyone is running around with a tape measure in the heat of the momen so presuming the measurement of the penis is perception rather than reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that you mention the blonde hair for a male profile - I've yet to see a profile that states that preference.

Also I doubt anyone is running around with a tape measure in the heat of the momen so presuming the measurement of the penis is perception rather than reality "

Er, proper profiles include a pic with a measuring device. Deodorant, Pringles, TV remote...gotta keep it real.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I think females and couples can be very picky due to the amount of messages they get."

This is massively incorrect!

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

The people are telling you their preferences, just because they are ur type it doesnt make u theirs. Respect it and move on. Thats why guys on ere get bad reps, calm ur egos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You literally just copied our profile, right?

Joking aside, we're here for us, nobody else.

If someone catches our attention in one way or another and we catch theirs, then there we have it, maybe a connection.

If they don't catch our attention, why would entertain the idea of meeting? We're not here to put out but to realise fantasies of our own.

We also wouldn't want someone to simply put out for us, we want mutual appeal and respect.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I get all the things that have been said I think that picky is a bad word for what people feel ?

Even as a single guy who’d love to have meets with loads but there are ladies I’d not waste their time meeting because I know I wouldn’t feel attracted to

That’s not picky ? Is it !!!

Yes us guys do wish that sexy couples and ladies wouldn’t be as picky ??? Or we’d meet their likes ?

I’d rather meet someone there is an attraction or click with who I can have a laugh !!! Oh god does that mean I’m picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're picky, we have an amazing sex life already so it needs to be something really worthwhile for us to play.

We have 35ish veris and have played with probably 3 or 4 of them

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I woukdnt say I was picky but I wouldn't fuck a tory or brexiter. I simply would have no common ground with them

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We're very picky and don't apologise for it.

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By *ut_what_ifWoman
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"I'm picky & I'm a guy haha

I know my worth now

Everyone should be picky & stop being, it prompts meets to put effort & value your time as much as you value theirs. Not just a 1 way thing "

Totally off topic but just to say, great profile name ha ha!

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By *ut_what_ifWoman
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Definitely picky. Has it downsaides tho! Can make meeting a couple trickier as not always attracted to both parties. Also takes more time to trawl through!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm extremely picky, I don't have set criteria but I've got to have an attraction and chemistry, being able to relax and have a laugh is important.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yep extremely picky x

Mrs N

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Extremely picky but my wife is worth the effort. She can be as picky as she wants as it's down to her what she wants and there's no point in meeting if it's not what she wants.

She's interested in bearded big armed men with tats.

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd

We’re picky with a capital P as we’ve progressed through this lifestyle, we’ve learnt its nothing to do with looks size etc it’s all to do with personality and compatibility. So yes where proper picky but in the best way for great experiences.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

On FAB, incredibly picky. I have an amazing woman and my free time is so little.

However at a club it's very different to be honest. I think it's is for most people in that time and space. Not saying I will sleep with everyone, that's not the case at all. More the environment is more conducive for leisurely and fun encounters with strangers. To some extent most people go to a club looking for a carefree sexual encounter and are more open to just enjoying it with those present in that time and space. I'm generally attracted to people I get along with and see the good in. Frankly I can get along with most people and see the positive side to their nature. So as long as there's some kind of interpersonal spark I would generally be into sharing something more intimate with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re picky with a capital P as we’ve progressed through this lifestyle, we’ve learnt its nothing to do with looks size etc it’s all to do with personality and compatibility. So yes where proper picky but in the best way for great experiences.

This is how we are, personality and banter for us, if we can't have a giggle and get on we feel the play ends up boring, I think that's why we find it hard on fab because you can't get that over the Internet like you can in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, it's difficult to get to know people through messaging alone. Much easier to meet face to face, so many people seem more interested in just messaging endlessly on fab with no interest in actually getting together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im picky as in i know my types (wide range ) i wont under shoot as much as i wont over shoot too ...im not here for model men or women i live in the real world so love real people but id do have preference's we all do and we all should do too mothing sexy about a person who will go with anybody (always the first to hit the block list) ... so i know my target audience ie attractions but thats as we all know is just the very start 99% who make the eye section fail the lets chat section

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I'm picky & I'm a guy haha

I know my worth now

Everyone should be picky & stop being, it prompts meets to put effort & value your time as much as you value theirs. Not just a 1 way thing

Totally off topic but just to say, great profile name ha ha!

Lol cheers

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